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- Aug 6, 2016
Wow some really disturbing stuff on this thread. I read some of the stories posted here, I understand the feeling.
Three years ago I went to a party with my friend, her boyfriend and a friend of his. I barely knew the guy, even though we were friends on Facebook but we didn't really talk so much. It was mostly him liking songs or status I posted. And before the party he was mostly quiet, it was like we talked only if I or someone else started the conversation.
Anyway, when we were at the party we met another group of people. They were really friendly, we were having a very good time, and one of the guys introduced me to his friend. He was a funny guy, we danced and we kissed. By the end of the night everyone went home. I gave my phone number to the guy and that was it.
So the next day when I checked my Facebook, and I had some messages by the guy who went with us to the party. He started saying alot of things that were supposed to be flattering I guess, but then went to the "I didn't thought you were like that", "I thought we were going to have a fun night, but you kissed that faggot", "You're all the same", "You were a disaster" kind of messages, so I made the mistake of answering, like... what the fuck?
He answered a few hours later, in the same mood. He seemed to believe that I had wronged him, he played the "I'm a good man" card but when he realized I didn't want to keep talking, he made some passive-aggresive remarks, called me "fat" and blocked me. At first I felt bad for the whole situation. But then I realized I didn't have to, it was a guilt-trip attempt. He wanted me to say "I'm sorry?", like if we were something in the first place. The word is pathetic.
There are truly nice guys out there, I mean it. But every now and then we have to deal with people like this. It's depressing.
That's it. I felt like sharing.
Three years ago I went to a party with my friend, her boyfriend and a friend of his. I barely knew the guy, even though we were friends on Facebook but we didn't really talk so much. It was mostly him liking songs or status I posted. And before the party he was mostly quiet, it was like we talked only if I or someone else started the conversation.
Anyway, when we were at the party we met another group of people. They were really friendly, we were having a very good time, and one of the guys introduced me to his friend. He was a funny guy, we danced and we kissed. By the end of the night everyone went home. I gave my phone number to the guy and that was it.
So the next day when I checked my Facebook, and I had some messages by the guy who went with us to the party. He started saying alot of things that were supposed to be flattering I guess, but then went to the "I didn't thought you were like that", "I thought we were going to have a fun night, but you kissed that faggot", "You're all the same", "You were a disaster" kind of messages, so I made the mistake of answering, like... what the fuck?
He answered a few hours later, in the same mood. He seemed to believe that I had wronged him, he played the "I'm a good man" card but when he realized I didn't want to keep talking, he made some passive-aggresive remarks, called me "fat" and blocked me. At first I felt bad for the whole situation. But then I realized I didn't have to, it was a guilt-trip attempt. He wanted me to say "I'm sorry?", like if we were something in the first place. The word is pathetic.
There are truly nice guys out there, I mean it. But every now and then we have to deal with people like this. It's depressing.
That's it. I felt like sharing.
