Do you get more female attraction as a man if you are a little mean with them?

Garamok said:
The issues is that moids don't realise that women can tell the difference between a guy being genuinely good and nice and a guy who says he's a nice guy but is just another creep. Wouldn't be surprised if OP is the latter. A normal social human knows when and who to tease and then it's never malicious, and women will be teasing back and have friendly fun. Since we're on the internet and male kiwis are either moids, gay or trannies, OP has definitely malicious moid intentions or is upset that the women he awkwardly tries to approach are repulsed by him and isn't immediately giggling like a 14 year old school girl swooning for her highschool crush.

Guys who are genuinely good and nice are never in the friendzone. That's something moids will never be able to understand and achieve.
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nigga are you blind I said that was high school/middle school era me. Not the current version of me that has girls approach me. I understand you are mad that no one wants to approach you romantically since you are obese and anoying to be around but dont take it out on people on the internet your failure of parents should be a better choice.
 
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Garamok said:
Maybe that's an American culture thing. Because I see ugly teenage boys dating girls out of their league, I see ugly men in relationships with good looking women, because they're good people.

Usually, violent and jobless retards take advantage of women who have issues with their self esteem and self worth. They won't leave the guy because they're scared or they think they won't find love and will be alone forever, so they stick with a guy who treats them like shit.

Judging from my friend circle and from what I see at work, looks don't matter much to women. They just want a guy who's on the same page as them on a personal level and who isn't just chasing a goal in his head when he spends time with her. While women look for things like "can I talk with him openly?, "do we have same interests?", "what does he want from life?", many of the guys think "sex now" and don't care about becoming friends before becoming intimate partners.
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Even without the usual "women like that" if you are never negative in a relationship and you eventually marry, then when you actually need to be negative for an important reason you can discover you were married to a psycho that can't take no for an answer.
 
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The absolute 100% guaranteed way to get more female attention is to be less fucking ugly. And also less fucking stupid. And taller.

Professor Dr Chadly McChadson, 6'4 of neurosurgeon, is not getting 'friendzoned' ever, but Brayden McGED of low level retail job, 5'6, weak chin, acne and squinty eyed is living his whole life in the friendzone.

(Except he's not really in the friendzone, because he's not really considered a friend; he's just too fucking stupid to understand that "let's just be friends" is a socially softened "fuck no I would rather fuck a cactus". The 'friendzone' 99 times out of 100 is the "hell fuck no" zone.)
 
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If you belittle them a bit then yes, usually they are more attracted to you, for the reason @isalaide gives. Women tend to want men who are better than they are, they don't want you to put yourself under.
Equality is fine insofar as it is granted from a position of strength, if you get what I mean.
Be respectful, but only as though you have the luxury of disrespect if you choose.
 
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Garamok said:
Hopeless moids, destroyed by porn, if only they could control women, then they wouldn't hate them so much :)
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im sorry you feel insecure because of physical standards set by pornography. I used to be out of shape and I got into shape recently, if you want I could mentor you so you could fix your health issues
 
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Garamok said:
Hopeless moids, destroyed by porn
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'Vgh the porn' is not an answer to everything. Women don't need anyone hating them to fuck things up for themselves and the same is true of most people, in which respect the sexes are equal.
 
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It might work on some women, if joking around is part of her own nature it is possible that she could view it as flirting, provided she otherwise feels respected and you can also laugh at yourself. It all depends on your dynamic and whether you behave like her partner when it matters.
 
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Really, the best advice is to just be yourself.
However, that requires you to be self-actualized, and that’s the hard part people don’t tell you.
You can’t just act one way or another, those actions have to actually be truly you and you alone. And who you are should be growing, changing, sharpening, refining, chasing a final form that you will never reach but through that chase you will become yourself.
What women want, what people want, is authenticity. Find who you are, be that, and eventually opportunity will come your way if you have the stones to try and grab it.
 
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unless you look like a homosexual vampire that’s on his way to be the bottom at a gay orgy, you need to be funny to have women be interested in you

insulting women is always funny, especially to women, because women believe a lot of stupid things and do a lot of stupid things and they know it

tug on the leash a little. they enjoy it
 
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VeteranOfTheRetardWars said:
Really, the best advice is to just be yourself.
However, that requires you to be self-actualized, and that’s the hard part people don’t tell you.
You can’t just act one way or another, those actions have to actually be truly you and you alone. And who you are should be growing, changing, sharpening, refining, chasing a final form that you will never reach but through that chase you will become yourself.
What women want, what people want, is authenticity. Find who you are, be that, and eventually opportunity will come your way if you have the stones to try and grab it.
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I doubt this advice is something any male kiwi likes. They want PUA advices, not something that is genuinely helpful.
 
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Garamok said:
Maybe that's an American culture thing.
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there's a saying. when men from the 3rd world come to america they're shocked at how much food there is everywhere, when american men go to the 3rd world they're shocked at how nice women are. I can say from personal experience even when i was angry and hungover and throwing things at even children because i had to take a delivery job during the christmas season years ago, a random FOB immigrant latina treated me like a plucky girl from a cartoon. i was cursing and yelling at everything and she just went "i hope to see you again, keep up the good work" and even though it was just random pleasantries with nothing behind it i felt like Jean Valjean after being saved by the bishop. i still never went back to that job but it was such an out of body experience to have a woman smile and cheer me on like that it was honestly unnerving, like if someone asked you what time it is and then specified "no the year!" before running off.
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I was in good shape though
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i'll admit this is 90% of it, the problem is most guys don't need to "get into shape" so only the biggest assholes usually are and guys don't notice other men's bodies usually so they assume its the attitude and not the looks. My cousin is retarded as shit, but he's an amazing repair man and extremely nice, like will drive an hour to give someone a lost wallet and will drop neighbors off to their job if asked, and has women practically all over him anywhere he goes and its mostly because he's also insanely in shape from keeping the same exercise routine he had in prison (don't do drugs kids)

because getting in shape correlates with being in bad neighborhoods of course assholes will get more attention because despite the demeanor they look like they can fuck good. meanwhile if you went to a nice neighborhood you don't need to be in shape and even if you are it's probably just skinny like a swimmer or cross country runner and not built like someone who's experienced a drive-by shooting.

OTOH i did say 90%, i also know another dude who's near-bodybuilder levels of fit but also makes $8 an hour and i don't think a single woman gives him the time of day. If he wasn't taught that suicide was a cardinal sin he probably wouldn't be here anymore. his life sort of blows.
 
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Irish Turtle said:
I am not talking about cursing them out and calling them slurs but I mean mild teasing. I noticed overly nice guys get frienzoned and get placed in the catagory of gay best friend.
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Life is not an anime, OP. Or maybe yours is, if so, DM me, I want to know about your wacky advenntures
 
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