I became close friends with a girl at school last year, i made it clear that i use he/him and i use the name Max. About one month in, she started not using my chosen name and totally switched up. I passed it off as a mistake and we kept being friends, this still persists to this day.
She deadnames me everytime she says my name, she often suggests i wear more girly clothes (e.g, If i’m wearing pants with an outfit she suggests it’d be cuter with a skirt, or suggests i wear makeup.) I don’t know if this is on purpose but it does bother me.
She also likes very anti trans instagram reels, they come up on my feed pretty often saying she liked them. Or she sends me videos that are making fun of disabled people, i usually respond with “that’s genuinely sad” and she just goes “lmao” back ??
she does other things i don’t like too but they’re completely unrelated to me being trans so i won’t include them here. I’m seriously considering no longer being friends with her but i just wanted some other opinions on this.