Exulansic / TT Exulansic / Sierra Weir / Sierra Dullea Weir - TERF detransitioner/desister who has a crusade against the "I Am Jazz" phenomenon and also a massive collection of Party City wigs.

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

This morning Sierra is once again sperging about Gruffin's mother.

https://x.com/TTExulansic/status/1845139745522974950

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A quick scan through replies shows followers mostly offering her asspats and validation for her continued obsessive behavior about a lolcow's grieving mother.

Just scrolled and saw this cringe:

https://x.com/joolzzt/status/1845135411963641980

Oh jeez one more edit to include this simp:

https://x.com/marksim54278514/status/1844650254857273464

The concentrated form of

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

But wait, there's more. Tonight Sierra dressed up as Miss Cleo to tell the tale of Yarden Silveira.

https://x.com/TTExulansic/status/1845305383008731446

https://archive.ph/PqAhx

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

This morning Sierra is once again sperging about Gruffin's mother.

Why post that, Sierra. Such a vile thing to do. When someone is lashing out in pain and grief after the death of a loved one, a normal person would have the decency to not broadcast it in public. This woman trooned out her kid and that's a very bad thing, but now the kid is dead, so she's been punished harshly already. This might be the grossest thing Sierra's done yet.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

Why post that, Sierra. Such a vile thing to do. When someone is lashing out in pain and grief after the death of a loved one, a normal person would have the decency to not broadcast it in public. This woman trooned out her kid and that's a very bad thing, but now the kid is dead, so she's been punished harshly already. This might be the grossest thing Sierra's done yet.

You might have a point if her daughter had died tragically in an accident or was the victim of a random murder or similar. But Gruffin died both as a result of her own actions and the enabling given by her parents.
You do not get to weaponise emotions to manipulate and control what other people think and do - that's peak Troon/Pooner behaviour.

Such a vile thing to do.

Post in thread 'Carolyn Hax: Married to a ‘secret bigot’ who’s good at pretending he’s not one' https://kiwifarms.net/threads/carol...t-pretending-hes-not-one.201704/post-19492223

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

I'm not really concerned with how all this makes Gruffin's mom "feel." I think it's funny that Sierra believes she has rights here, that because she wrote glurge poetry about a dead pooner she's some kind of official social work interventionist or whatever.

Also Sierra starting to get vain and attention-seeking around her personal appearance is really something else. Most people who have her kind of face issues just stick to a radio career, let's say.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

she wrote glurge poetry

Oh freddled gruntbuggly,
Thy micturitions are to me,
As plurdled gabbleblotchits,
On a lurgid bee.

 

[The Skeksis Emperor]

You do not get to weaponise emotions to manipulate and control what other people think and do

I agree. But there was no reason for Sierra to post that convo to her twitter for asspats. She could have replied to the mother in the exact same way and simply not shared the messages on her socials. She did that only so people would tell her how virtuous she is, and because mom is raging and that gives her an opportunity to seem calm and reasonable. But this thread remembers how Sierra can rage in exactly the same way.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

But there was no reason for Sierra to post that convo to her twitter for asspats.

Fair, if indeed that was her motivation.

 

[IglyUglyOh]

Also Sierra starting to get vain and attention-seeking around her personal appearance is really something else.

I could’ve sworn she made a makeup tutorial and a lifting video a couple of years ago. She’s trying to hook an audience and expand from her core issue. She’s not really an activist she’s trying to be an influencer. Every so often she tries it then retreats back into her cave.

If Sierra was a real activist she’d be organizing letter writing campaigns to politicians, going to conferences etc. I don’t believe she has another career at this point. She used to talk about her clients who had difficulty with pronouns as one reason she got into this advocacy but she never does that anymore. I don’t believe she’s really working outside of her Substack at this point. She needs this income and as the trans stuff gets less weird she needs another way to keep her Substack going.

Now that change is happening in the UK and more responsible activists in the US are trying to make the same change happen here she’s about to lose her audience. So she will make videos about makeup and lifting again. She’ll try other things too.

Sierra comes across as having serious social deficits and an inability to see herself the way others see her. She is probably fine at university. She’d fit right in at CalTech. But she’s going to lose thousands of dollars in online grifting money soon unless she can get 3,000 people to keep subscribing for some other kind of content.

Her wisest course of action would be to get a PhD or other qualification allowing her to do the kind of work where you can get away with being an autistic person with no social skills. Most speech language pathologists I’ve met IRL have outgoing kindergarten teacher type personalities. There’s no way she’s in the correct field for her level of autism.

Go to med school or pick a hard science and take a swing at CalTech, Sierra, long term internet fame is not going to be your thing. You’re harassing a dead kid’s mother it’s not going to end well for you. We all know you read kiwifarms and took Gruffin pics from here. I’m totally serious that you should go back to school. You’re not built for the real world. This is me trying to be nice about you.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

I could’ve sworn she made a makeup tutorial and a lifting video a couple of years ago

Yes, she did.

 

[supremeautismo]

This morning Sierra is once again sperging about Gruffin's mother.

https://x.com/TTExulansic/status/1845139745522974950

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A quick scan through replies shows followers mostly offering her asspats and validation for her continued obsessive behavior about a lolcow's grieving mother.

Just scrolled and saw this cringe:

https://x.com/joolzzt/status/1845135411963641980

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Oh jeez one more edit to include this simp:

https://x.com/marksim54278514/status/1844650254857273464

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The concentrated form of

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As a small defense to Sierra and the original embarrassing poet, if this poor girl’s parents really loved her, they wouldn’t have responded to her clear molestation by lobbing her ladybits off. Those dead eyes— this is clear negligence.



That being said, do Sierra or any of these other terf warriors really think a dippy parent dumb enough to not only miss the clear signs of abuse (or possibly be the abusers themselves,) but that also the parents will reconsider as they’re grieving? It’s self serving through and through.

Some people make incredible art through others’ grief. Other people flail and grift online until they spiral into obscurity— not from losing the “culture war,” but from being ugly, inside and out.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

As a small defense to Sierra and the original embarrassing poet, if this poor girl’s parents really loved her, they wouldn’t have responded to her clear molestation by lobbing her ladybits off. Those dead eyes— this is clear negligence.

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That being said, do Sierra or any of these other terf warriors really think a dippy parent dumb enough to not only miss the clear signs of abuse (or possibly be the abusers themselves,) but that also the parents will reconsider as they’re grieving? It’s self serving through and through.

Some people make incredible art through others’ grief. Other people flail and grift online until they spiral into obscurity— not from losing the “culture war,” but from being ugly, inside and out.

I don't read much- anything at all, usually- into one-off still photos. Snap the shutter enough times, every person out there can be caught with a 1000 yard stare, dead eyes, wonky eyes, crazy eyes, whatever. Also this chick was just ugly. Potato face, carried her weight like a middle aged man, mouth shaped like a depressed guppy's, tiny beady little eyes. Close enough to syndromal I've said before, maternal substance abuse isn't off the table as a possibility.

The kid was white trash, her parents were white trash, and they let her get ears deep in furry fandom before she finished puberty because they were too busy drinking, toking, and screwing around on divorce number three or whatever, to pay attention. Many such cases. It doesn't have to be any deeper than that.

I don't know what anyone- Sierra or otherwise- wants the parents to do about it now. The kid is dead. They could go full terven warrior I guess. But it's spitting in the wind. No one will really like them or appreciate their help. Any credibility they gain from proximity to a victim is canceled out by the fact that they were too dumb not to enthusiastically enable it. If they have one braincell left between them, they know being left alone is the best they can hope for.

 

[TheMeanOne]

they were too dumb not to enthusiastically enable it.

I agree with this to a point, but Gruffin was mid-20s. At some point she could've asked to have the source of all her infections - the phalloplasty - removed. She was living in RI when she died which has a bunch of Catholic hospitals. They'd have done this just to score points against the trans lobby if she'd asked.

At some point it's on you not your parents. I have friends who used to be coke addicts and at some point, usually at Gruffin's age maybe a little older or younger, they realized it was going to kill them. One stopped doing blow, stopped tending bar, moved back to the Midwest and got a teaching license. She makes less money than she used to as a bartender at a trendy spot in NYC, but her life is also way more stable.

I think Sierra's just a ghoul a lot of the time. She's as distorted as the people she makes content about. She's never rushing out the door to get to a friend's bachelorette or baby shower on time. She's not publishing her "work" in real journals and getting work-related accolades. All she has as a way of getting attention is picking on Gruffin's mom and trying to get a reaction she can post to Twitter. She's going to die as isolated and in denial as Gruffin did, she just doesn't know it yet.

 

[Peaches Demure]

Using the words "nascent female beauty" and "Gruffin" in the same sentence is enough to warrant a LMAO

Gruffin was perhaps the one person more unfortunate in the looks department than Sierra herself.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

don't read much- anything at all, usually- into one-off still photos. Snap the shutter enough times, every person out there can be caught with a 1000 yard stare, dead eyes, wonky eyes, crazy eyes, whatever.

That's true, some people are also extremely unphotogenic. Having said that, Gruffin has those lifeless, doll's eyes in every photo and Tiktok video. Every one. That girl was dead inside, and from a young age.

At some point it's on you not your parents

True, but that doesn't mean worthless parents get to be absolved by your death.

 

[TheMeanOne]

True, but that doesn't mean worthless parents get to be absolved by your death.

I don't think they should be absolved but I don't think they should be tortured by an autist from across the country who didn't even know their kid, either. I'm sure they feel a lot of guilt already.

The other thing is that school counselors have been telling people for years that you can either have a dead kid or a trans kid, because they all suicide unless you humor them.

People who grew up with alcoholic parents or who've dated a cokehead know that's bullshit and that you have to call people on those threats. Normal nice people who just love their kids weren't prepared for that shit, though. They thought oh I have to take the psychologists and doctors seriously. They're experts. It's bizarre that no one has been held accountable for all of the lies yet. But I do have empathy for Gruffin's parents. They were trying to do the 'right thing' that the whole psychology-medical-media establishment has been pushing for so long.

I wish Sierra spent half the time lobbying medical boards & politicians that she did sparring with this sad woman and writing bad poems about someone she never met.

 

[Stupid Sexy Flanders]

I don't think they should be absolved but I don't think they should be tortured by an autist from across the country who didn't even know their kid, either. I'm sure they feel a lot of guilt already.

It's also worth looking at it in context - Gruffin's mother was from what I can tell quite a bit older than her dad and didn't exactly come from a privileged background. Neither parent seem to have been pushing for Gruffin to trans out, but tried to act like supporting parents because that's what society and the system told them at the time. Maybe they'll eventually be able to process what happened, but being attacked online by an insane woman is more likely to make them dig in their heels. They're not out in the public advocating for this. There's little reason for Sierra to keep up with these attacks other than it gives her engagement.

 

[TheMeanOne]

There's little reason for Sierra to keep up with these attacks other than it gives her engagement.

They've also asked her to stop. Sierra's being completely literal and saying Gruffin's no longer alive and can't be harassed. But the overall point of what this grieving mother's saying is clear - leave us alone. She's very emotional and mad, but her point is clear to any reasonable person. She's saying "Stop."

I'm not a lawyer but this looks a lot like harassment at this point. Gruffin wasn't an actor or celebrity. Gruffin was a cashier who had a TikTok. Maybe the death was newsworthy on some level, but the mom's messages of this pain are not. These are private people and they're grieving, yet Exulansic won't stop kicking them in the shins.

She's going to lose everything. Sierra thinks she's very clever but she's put all of this in writing and charged people money for it on Substack. She's been trying to monetize harassment when these people are telling her to stop bothering them.

Someone is going to sue her over this behavior, or get a lawyer to call the prosecutor's office and ask them to take a look at this, and Sierra will be toast.

I have no idea why she's acting this way. It must be out of a desire to be the 'smart one' and get attention. But an actually smart person would never operate this way.

 

[Stupid Sexy Flanders]

I have no idea why she's acting this way. It must be out of a desire to be the 'smart one' and get attention. But an actually smart person would never operate this way.

Just like a lot of things, attention is addictive and it gives people dopamine kicks. Like we see with so many cows on this site, it eventually doesn't matter if the attention is negative; a lot of cows will delude themselves that they'll turn the ship around or they'll just take the morsels of positive feedback from sycophants as a reason to keep going.

Even the SRS thread has long moved on from Gruffin. In the large scheme of things, she's rather inconsequential but to Sierra she's one of the posts that got her major engagement.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

But the overall point of what this grieving mother's saying is clear - leave us alone. She's very emotional and mad, but her point is clear to any reasonable person. She's saying "Stop."

I understand the point many of you are making re: Sierra farming content via GruffinPostmorteming but I remind you that Sierra did not contact the mother, it was the mother who contacted Sierra.
All the mother has to do is simply not look at whatever Sierra is writing, a la

The internet is not a real place.

There's also virtually no probability that the mother found any of Sierra's posts organically, the far, far more likely explanation being that an angry plaTroon has maliciously contacted her. If you want to accuse anyone of ghoulish behaviour, look at trannies who take delight in winding up the parents of kids whom those same trannies probably encouraged down the path of destruction.