5 years post op, still no orgasm
Hey.
I’m just starting to get into Reddit but I’ve had this ongoing issue.
I cannot orgasm. It’s not for a lack of sensation. I actually have quite a lot of sensation in my clit.
I have every single toy you can think of. The hitachi, rose toy, standard double ended wands, singular ended wands. But I can’t find anything that works. Penetration doesn’t seem to work either.
A little bit about myself, I started hormones and blockers at a pretty young age, but I was able to orgasm pre-op. Might be TMI but I was uncut before, and I never pulled the skin down just as the head was super duper sensitive. I was a “virgin” with my… other parts just as I was so dysphoric and started my transition at a very young age. I received my vaginoplasty two weeks after my legal birthday.
The sensitivity I have with my clit is the same uncomfortable sensitivity/feeling I had when i would “pull the skin” down.
I really don’t know what to do. Going 5 years without a physical “release” has really disheartened me.
I recently just had a revision on my vagina. I had a PI vaginoplasty before but switched to the sigmoid colon method along with a labiaplasty due to stenosis. I still have the same sensitivity on my clit fyi
Hoping someone can help me or if someone’s been in the same boat.