Exulansic / TT Exulansic / Sierra Weir / Sierra Dullea Weir - TERF detransitioner/desister who has a crusade against the "I Am Jazz" phenomenon and also a massive collection of Party City wigs.

[Marvin]

Let's take stock.

Sierra didn't know this girl personally. The girl's mother did. The girl's mother is shrieking at Sierra in a private message.

What damage does that do to Sierra? Just hurts her feelings?

What does anyone gain from Sierra shitting on this girl's mother publicly?

I mean, hell, let's say Sierra made this the focal point of some campaign to get troon surgeries banned. That'd be ghoulish. It reminds me of parents of school shootings getting roped into doing cringy PSAs promoting gun grabbing.

But you can at least make a cost/benefit analysis for an action like that.

Sierra isn't posting something like "*dm screenshots* AND THESE PARENTS ARE WHY SENATOR SO AND SO NEEDS TO HELP BAN THESE PROCEDURES" or anything like that.

All she's doing is saying "fuck this girl's mother, look at the mean things she said to Sierra Weir!!!"

I don't know, maybe Sierra is telling herself that punishing a grieving mother for mild social media mean words constitutes activism. Maybe she figures that this screenshot will filter down into public discourse and some public servant will see a grieving mother (who admittedly shouldn't have encouraged her daughter to troon out) getting upset at a cringy autistic youtuber and see the light and crusade to ban trooning.

Because otherwise Sierra is just being an asshole and Sierra totally isn't that, right?

Sierra did not contact the mother, it was the mother who contacted Sierra.
All the mother has to do is simply not look at whatever Sierra is writing

I wouldn't say the issue is Sierra talking about Griffin so much as Sierra dropping the mother's PMs to her. Maybe the mother is being unreasonable by telling Sierra off for discussing Griffin publicly. Sierra can be annoyed by that.

But unless the mother escalates it by taking her side of it public, there's no reason for Sierra to drop those messages.

The public doesn't need to see that slapfight. Sierra's not the good guy by taking some private rudeness from a grieving mother and posting it for her retarded fanbase to see. "whose side do you guys take??"

 

[TheMeanOne]

Sierra did not contact the mother, it was the mother who contacted Sierra.

I think the mother was basically contacting her to ask her to stop.

Almost 2 months ago someone from the family told Sierra that her followers were bothering them and please stop. She never elaborates on what kind of contact that was but it's possible people found a phone number or address and sent them mail.

Sierra has known that her Twitter followers are bothering these people & have been for weeks but she keeps salting the wound.

My guess is that their next step is calling a lawyer to ask for a formal cease and desist

Thank you Kiwifarms for turning me into a screenshot-hoarder I didn't know I had it in me :/

 

[Peaches Demure]

I understand the point many of you are making re: Sierra farming content via GruffinPostmorteming but I remind you that Sierra did not contact the mother, it was the mother who contacted Sierra.
All the mother has to do is simply not look at whatever Sierra is writing, a la
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The internet is not a real place.

There's also virtually no probability that the mother found any of Sierra's posts organically, the far, far more likely explanation being that an angry plaTroon has maliciously contacted her. If you want to accuse anyone of ghoulish behaviour, look at trannies who take delight in winding up the parents of kids whom those same trannies probably encouraged down the path of destruction.

Also, Sierra is not in any way responsible for the conduct of her "audience". I feel like we need to emphasize this because there have been people in this thread wanting to hold Sierra personally accountable for her "fans" "harassing" Gruffin's mother. If that is even true, that is not on Sierra no matter how badly you want it to be.

 

[TheMeanOne]

Also, Sierra is not in any way responsible for the conduct of her "audience". I feel like we need to emphasize this because there have been people in this thread wanting to hold Sierra personally accountable for her "fans" "harassing" Gruffin's mother. If that is even true, that is not on Sierra no matter how badly you want it to be.

I think she is, though. It's something about the way she's presenting the information that's enflaming or empowering them to do this. She keeps presenting it in the same way.

Sierra could block some of them. One of her followers posted Azlan T Bird's Venmo address so more people could send Azlan requests for cash. Azlan made a video requesting donations (dumb) but she was fresh from the psych ward and not thinking clearly. Instead of thinking "this poor crazy bitch" some of Sierra's followers were sending Azlan requests, not donations, on Venmo. Which was upsetting her even more. That woman is crazy as a bedbug and instead of looking away, they keep poking & prodding her more. As I said, a commenter posted Azlan's Venmo so more people could do more harassment.

Sierra made a snarky comment like, "yes that's the address to not send requests to" but she didn't block the person who did it. She didn't report it to Twitter and say, "I'm serious leave her alone she's sick." Was it dumb to ask for Venmo donations? Sure. But Azlan's literally insane: she's homeless & in and out of psych wards all the time. She needs serious help not harassment from Sierra's what is it 16k Twitter followers. Sierra's not an advocate or activist; she doesn't care about this issue or these people; she just enjoys the attention and money she's getting for doing these things.

Sierra knows better. She knows better than to hold people like Azlan up for ridicule so her followers can do things like that. She's basically a participant in the harassment and she DOES know they are doing it, she even replies to them specifically at times. Sierra gins these people up and doesn't even block the ones who are problems.

The people she profiles are not public figures. They're cashiers (Gruffin) and medical assistants/Etsy crafters (Elleot) and homeless people (Azlan). She's holding them up for harassment and not taking really basic responsible steps to prevent more harassment when it happens in the comments on her posts.

This is the only attention Exulansic's ever gotten in her life. It's going to her head in the worst possible way.

 

[Marvin]

Also, Sierra is not in any way responsible for the conduct of her "audience". I feel like we need to emphasize this because there have been people in this thread wanting to hold Sierra personally accountable for her "fans" "harassing" Gruffin's mother. If that is even true, that is not on Sierra no matter how badly you want it to be.

"Responsible" is a strong word. I don't know if I'd say that. But I would say Sierra is more or less of an asshole depending on how much she exposes this person to her dipshit followers.

Though scare quotes around "fans" and "harassing"? Do you doubt that there's at least a handful of dipshits following Sierra that one could reasonably describe as her fans?

And absolutely some of them would harass Gruffin's mother. (is it Gruffin or Griffin? I think I've seen both.)

On the farms, lots of us are totally justifiably skeptical of loud troons complaining about being "harassed" when they get moderate criticism in appropriate venues like public twitter threads or youtube comments.

But just because some morons misapply the word "harassment" doesn't mean it doesn't exist as a concept.

Harassment is repeated, unwanted contact in a way where it's not reasonable to avoid. Someone sperging at you on twitter? You block them and then it stops? Not harassment. Someone sperging at you on twitter? You block them? They make 50 socks and keep it up? Quite possibly harassment.

I don't know for certain if anyone's legitimately harassing this woman. I suspect that Sierra's audience isn't big enough nowadays to have the one-off psycho sperglord who'd harass the woman. But it's certainly not out of the realm of possibility.

It's not at all hard to imagine some deranged terf who appoints herself Gruffin's savior from beyond the grave sending pissy messages to her mom. "you're a terrible mother and should kill yourself" is that really that unbelievable from this crowd?

What makes Sierra, maybe not "responsible", but at least a big asshole is that she knows, first hand, from her slumber parties with these nutjobs, that that sort of thing is absolutely a realistic outcome of her posting that stuff.

And sure, if Sierra wanted to say "yeah, I know some bad apples might pester her, I disavow that, but I need to speak my mind regardless". Sure. That's the ethos of the farms, in fact. But then we're back to what value is in posting it to begin with, like I mentioned earlier.

 

[TheMeanOne]

What makes Sierra, maybe not "responsible", but at least a big asshole is that she knows, first hand, from her slumber parties with these nutjobs, that that sort of thing is absolutely a realistic outcome of her posting that stuff.

I don't feel like Brittany or any of the other prominent ones would do that. Maybe a request to come on a podcast but not actual harassment. I just know I've seen Ex not block people who needed blocking because they were promoting harassing behavior.

A lot of the Ex's followers are sort of away with the faeries. They take her various diagnoses like Jazz's Prader Willi etc seriously. I don't see any of them starting a petition about Gruffin's doctor to make the medical board review his license. But I can imagine them reaching out to the family to tell them exactly where their guru Exulansic says they went wrong.

They also are in denial about women's bodies in their own way. I saw someone try to reality check an Exulansic diagnosis by saying women's hair always thins at perimenopause, whether they took extra hormones or not. Her followers snapped into action. "Why I'm 65 and MY hair never thinned!" "I'm 57 and I have better hair than [tranny]!"

There's some weird maiden aunt thing going on with them and Glinner's followers. I think a lot of them found out about Ex from Glinner. Many seem to be over 50, have the purple & green UK Terf emojis & sound like they haven't had a date in 30 years. With Glinner I get the feeling they're crushing on him/think they'll cure him of playing video games. With Ex I have no idea what it is, maybe that they liked her cat.

There are some very strange people in that little corner of the TERF movement.

 

[revisionist]

Mikayla's mother is what killed her, not the farms, the non existent transphobes, the radfems or the terfs.
You save whales or dolphins if you wanna save something worth living.

 

[Procrastinhater]

On the one hand, dropping her DM's with a grieving mother who is angry and lashing out, likely to distract herself from the crippling guilt she's probably feeling is crass and a dick move, wether Mikayla's mom contacted Sierra first or not.
She's likely too much of an autist to understand this but sometimes you just need to be the bigger person. The way she responded to those angry messages was polite and seemed understanding and I'd applaud her for not snapping back and going full guns blazing "don't come at me, your daughters dead because of your choices", but I can't give her any credit because she probably intended to leak that shit from the start and responded politely knowing how she'd look.

On the other hand, fuck Gruffins mom, she set her daughter on the path that killed her and still supports that gendershit, even after watching her own daughter die a prolonged and painful death. I have no sympathy for her.
I can understand why she can't allow herself to do anything other than continue to support the Cult though, admitting the truth means admitting her part in what killed her daughter. I don't think any parent could do that so soon.

Sierra isn't looking good continuing to fixate on Gruffin, and its just continuing to encourage her weirdo followers to cross boundarys.
When she got that first message she should have given her condolences and immediately blocked the mom.
She should move on, find another Pooner to fixate on and stop gravedancing on Gruffins corpse. Its played out at this point and its only making her look bad.
She's not achieving anything other than stroking her own ego.

 

[Larry David's Opera Cape]

Sierra isn't looking good continuing to fixate on Gruffin, and its just continuing to encourage her weirdo followers to cross boundarys.
When she got that first message she should have given her condolences and immediately blocked the mom.
She should move on, find another Pooner to fixate on and stop gravedancing on Gruffins corpse. Its played out at this point and its only making her look bad.
She's not achieving anything other than stroking her own ego.

This is the tell. Doesn't really matter how guilty or stupid Gruffin or Gruffin's mom are. Sierra has crossed the great a-log in the sky and has become the cow.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

On the one hand, dropping her DM's with a grieving mother who is angry and lashing out, likely to distract herself from the crippling guilt she's probably feeling is crass and a dick move, wether Mikayla's mom contacted Sierra first or not.
She's likely too much of an autist to understand this but sometimes you just need to be the bigger person. The way she responded to those angry messages was polite and seemed understanding and I'd applaud her for not snapping back and going full guns blazing "don't come at me, your daughters dead because of your choices", but I can't give her any credit because she probably intended to leak that shit from the start and responded politely knowing how she'd look.

On the other hand, fuck Gruffins mom, she set her daughter on the path that killed and and still supports that gendershit, even after watching her own daughter die a prolonged and painful death. I have no sympathy for her.
I can understand why she can't allow herself to do anything other than continue to support the Cult though, admitting the truth means admitting her part in what killed her daughter. I don't think any parent could do that so soon.

Sierra isn't looking good continuing to fixate on Gruffin, and its just continuing to encourage her weirdo followers to cross boundarys.
When she got that first message she should have given her condolences and immediately blocked the mom.
She should move on, find another Pooner to fixate on and stop gravedancing on Gruffins corpse. Its played out at this point and its only making her look bad.
She's not achieving anything other than stroking her own ego.

All good points. And, yes, fuck Gruffin's mother; she's no better than her dumbass daughter.

 

[Procrastinhater]

is it Gruffin or Griffin? I think I've seen both.

Mikayla's Pooner name was Griffin Sivret.
Gruffin was the name she used on her socials.

One of her followers posted Azlan T Bird's Venmo address so more people could send Azlan requests for cash. Azlan made a video requesting donations (dumb) but she was fresh from the psych ward and not thinking clearly. Instead of thinking "this poor crazy bitch" some of Sierra's followers were sending Azlan requests, not donations, on Venmo. Which was upsetting her even more. That woman is crazy as a bedbug and instead of looking away, they keep poking & prodding her more. As I said, a commenter posted Azlan's Venmo so more people could do more harassment.

Meh.
Birdy is a fucking parasite that constantly begs for money and thinks its a legitimate source of income because she's too lazy and too much of a fuck up to work like the rest of us.
People asking her for money isn't "harassment" watching her freakout when people do the same shit to her she constantly does is hillarious. She's a histrionic Pooner leech that deserves no sympathy, she would happily go out of her way to destroy the lives and careers of anyone posting here if she knew who they were, these "people" are parasitical fanatics that society would be better without, you have a good heart but your sympathy is misplaced, if she doesn't want people asking her for money she should stop begging herself.
They're not doing anything to her she doesn't constantly do herself.

 

[TheMeanOne]

Meh.
Birdy is a fucking parasite that constantly begs for money

Have you seen Birdy? She's literally insane. She's someone who, 60 years ago, would be living in an institution. She CAN'T work. I really believe that. Of course she's begging she will never hold down a job. Anyone here who's mad about Birdy begging - would YOU hire her? And especially for the kind of low level jobs a normal homeless person would transition into - food service or cashiering. Would YOU let her run the till at your shop? Would you want her making your FOOD? You going to hire her as a receptionist? Of course not. Low-level jobs open to women oddly require some kind of PR savvy/awareness of how to act around others. The one thing Birdy COULD be suitable for is probably sweeping up on a construction site but we all know she's not really a man and they'd likely side-eye her application.

People asking her for money isn't "harassment" watching her freakout...is hillarious.

I can't stand people who bully retards, which is basically what that is. If you wouldn't steal lunch money from a Down Syndrome kid you shouldn't harass Birdy either. They're about the same competency-wise. She's not functioning. It's like kicking a retard and laughing at them, only a bad person would go there.

Sierra isn't looking good continuing to fixate on Gruffin, and its just continuing to encourage her weirdo followers to cross boundarys.

Apparently Sierra has blocked me (LOL - she can dish it out but not take it) and I can't see what she's doing on Twitter. But this is the thing for me, she is encouraging people to be dicks. And sometimes someone's not the brightest but having your kid die is still terrible. Bothering someone who's in that situation is just gross.

One of the last things I saw Sierra say on Twitter is she's relocating, does anyone know where to? I wonder if she's trying to dodge some kind of action against her. For example, I'm pretty sure Uhler filed a complaint of some kind against her. I wonder if she's trying to avoid having her license pulled by leaving the state where she's licensed, basically.

I don't get what her plan is as a content creator because all people want from her is to see a freak show. Her other content never really lands with them. Like Glinner she's backing herself into this corner of being an activist. In a year or two when this issue has been legislated out of existence...what then? She's not even a real detransitioner, the idea that taking birth control would make you a trans person is bizarre in the first place.

 

[Hassou Tobi]

your FOOD? You going to hire her as a receptionist? Of course not. Low-level jobs open to women oddly require some kind of PR savvy/awareness of how to act around others. The one thing Birdy COULD be suitable for is probably sweeping up on a construction site but we all know she's not really a man and they'd likely side-eye her application.

Not aware of who Birdy is but it’s an interesting discussion. In a better world I guess we would have well funded tard wranglers who could look after ppl like this and keep them going to their envelope stuffing jobs or something.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

Have you seen Birdy? She's literally insane. She's someone who, 60 years ago, would be living in an institution.

And she should indeed be institutionalised.

I can't stand people who bully retards, which is basically what that is

^ Fem-brained take.
Laughing at someone whose misfortune is entirely of their own making and who makes videos for public consumption is not "bullying".

She's not functioning.

Again, she's not a victim - she made herself this way. She's a histrionic liar and a Pooner but I repeat myself.
She is no different to Gruffin or Finlay Games or any other narcissistic Pooner who does extremely dangerous things to her body, damaging it permanently and destroying her mental health, then a bunch of emotionally gullible women feel sorry for them, for reasons I can't understand.

Birdy's misfortunes are the direct result of her choices, so, fuck her.

 

[Procrastinhater]

Would you want her making your FOOD?

I think I've made my feelings about Pooners making my food clear lol.

I know what you're saying, and I actually admire people that have good hearts and the ability to empathize with worthless people, I just don't, I find Birdy and people like her repulsive. I know that probably makes me an asshole, I'm OK with that, creatures like her would see my kids indoctrinated and mutilated and me jailed for laughing at them. They're the fucking enemy.

On the other hand, it's clear she's crazy and should be in an institution, and I can totally understand your point and why you feel that way, and I'm not being facetious when I say I even applaud it. You're probably a better person than I am, I just have zero empathy for people like her, I find her and her lifestyle disgusting and her freakouts at people doing the same thing to her she does to everyone else when she's begging for money hillarious. I don't see that as harassment. She choses to put shit online that opens her up to justified criticism.
This world isn't a hugbox for deviants that use emotional blackmail to try to leech money from people and people that do that shouldn't be coddled, it just encourages more of that shit.
Pathological Tolerance and being soft with these fucks is what has lead us to the mess we are in.
These freaks think everything is "harassment" they use that word as a cudgel, what they mean by it is "submit to my demands and don't criticize my behavior and actions even when they are damaging to you and society"
She's not a victim.
Some people don't deserve empathy.

Not aware of who Birdy is but it’s an interesting discussion. In a better world I guess we would have well funded tard wranglers who could look after ppl like this and keep them going to their envelope stuffing jobs or something.

It's Tess Gantz, Azlan T Bird. Absolutely batshit parasitical Pooner. She has a thread.

Again, she's not a victim - she made herself this way. She's a histrionic liar and a Pooner

Exactly.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

creatures like her would see my kids indoctrinated and mutilated and me jailed for laughing at them. They're the fucking enemy.

I just have zero empathy for people like her, I find her and her lifestyle disgusting

These freaks think everything is "harassment" they use that word as a cudgel, what they mean by it is "submit to my demands and don't criticize my behavior and actions even when they are damaging to you and society"
She's not a victim.

Some people don't deserve empathy

All of this. You have neatly summarised my own opinion.

 

[Peaches Demure]

@Procrastinhater

On the other hand, it's clear she's crazy and should be in an institution

You just described what empathy actually entails. It's not sympathizing or feeling sorry for someone who's clearly a miserable little worm, it's making a judgment based on data out of multiple perspectives. In this case the behavior speaks for itself: this woman is clinically insane and should be put under a conservatorship. That is an empathic response. Just like my denying an elderly diabetic with dementia their 3rd glass of fruit juice.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

@Procrastinhater



You just described what empathy actually entails. It's not sympathizing or feeling sorry for someone who's clearly a miserable little worm, it's making a judgment based on data out of multiple perspectives. In this case the behavior speaks for itself: this woman is clinically insane and should be put under a conservatorship. That is an empathic response. Just like my denying an elderly diabetic with dementia their 3rd glass of fruit juice.

If that's true then I am not the robot my wife constantly accuses me of being, and I am in fact extremely empathetic.

 

[Procrastinhater]

@Procrastinhater



You just described what empathy actually entails. It's not sympathizing or feeling sorry for someone who's clearly a miserable little worm, it's making a judgment based on data out of multiple perspectives. In this case the behavior speaks for itself: this woman is clinically insane and should be put under a conservatorship. That is an empathic response. Just like my denying an elderly diabetic with dementia their 3rd glass of fruit juice.

Maybe its the difference between empathy and sympathy, or I suppose even the difference between cognitive and emotional empathy. I'm not incapable of empathy, I'm not a psychopath lol, I can just turn it off with people who don't deserve it.
Birdy doesn't deserve it.
I (and I suppose anyone with eyes) can cognitively recognize she's fucking out of her gourd, she's crazy.
I can't and don't feel bad for people like her though.
Birdy and her kind are a waste of resources better used on people that deserve it.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

Maybe its the difference between empathy and sympathy, or I suppose even the difference between cognitive and emotional empathy. I'm not incapable of empathy, I'm not a psychopath lol, I can just turn it of with people who don't deserve it.

Yeah, same here. I can recognise when someone needs/deserves kindness/patience, I just don't usually have any feelings associated with it. I especially refuse to waste time and emotional energy on anyone I see as not deserving of it. Like, "X happened to you and it wasn't your fault? = Deserving" vs "You did X and are experiencing Consequences? = Fuck you".
I am incredibly empathetic towards animals, mind you.