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I'm sorry to say, but you are a faggot. You'd do white women a favor by leaving them alone
Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
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I'm sorry to say, but you are a faggot. You'd do white women a favor by leaving them alone
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Men who hate women are homosexuals and their dick just hasn't caught up to that fact yet, leaving them in a limbo of spiritual homosexuality. Seething about how women "haven't built anything" or don't "have good personalities" and then asking how to get a white gf is like spraying coyote urine around your property and then asking us how to attract bunnies to your garden.
Get fucked.
You will not attract a halfway decent gf, regardless of race, if you dislike and have contempt for women. She will sense this. The only woman who sticks around a man like that is herself insane/self-loathing.
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> points out that if you hate a certain group you will have a hard time attracting a close relationship with someone of that group
> "God! You're such a bitch! Women are awful!"
Enjoy living alone you utter retard. You're one of the few men who might genuinely be happier transitioning and trying to bag a tranny-chasing man. You certainly have the faggotty attitude for it.
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This is a great question, and very important in these trying times.
For you, I think the best thing you can do for women is to be you. On dates, be yourself, just as you are here. Do not change a thing. When meeting women for the first time, you shouldn't change anything about your thoughts or your words. Express yourself freely and fully, so the young ladies can know you for the unique and memorable gem you are.
I have every faith you will get the companionship you deserve.
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Are you a white man? Do you have white parents?
Ask them how they met, and how they maintained their relationship?
And if there is some issues in your parents relationship, ponder on that, and see if you can learn from it.
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@Big Miss Steak @Hubelublub I think he goes around baiting people, which reinforces how faggy he is. I suggest just ignoring.
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Very disrespectful. I spent a lot of time writing out that thoughtful reply.
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Psychiatrists are usually cursory - they are noting what you're saying in a medical framework. They may make some suggestions, which may include, "get sleep" or "consider finding a therapist."
There are some psychiatrists who do some therapy (see any Woody Allen movie), but these days that's not the common model - it's fairly passe and most give you 20 minutes while they think about your meds.
Changing how you perceive and interpret things isn't a mere cope, if how you perceive and interpret the world is a good part of why you feel so bad. In that case, changing those things develops resiliency (vs your own unhelpful thought patterns and vs objective struggles) and appropriate perspective.
This is very true. And healthy people in general often have an aversion (not always intentional) to people who exist in a very negative mode (whether because severely depressed or otherwise compromised). Not right or wrong, necessarily; it just is. You could probably identify some of the "why" - negative or disordered thinkers can be draining to be around, or may be flaky or difficult or highly emotional or don't follow through, or what-have-you. But a lot of people couldn't or wouldn't want to articulate specifics...they may just act instinctively.
I count maybe 11 of the following in this one comment alone:
Here’s a closer look at the list of cognitive distortions:
Even if there are more positive aspects than negative in a situation or person, you focus on the negatives exclusively.
When you engage in thoughts of black or white, with no shades of gray, this type of cognitive distortion is leading you.
All-or-nothing thinking usually leads to extremely unrealistic standards for yourself and others that could affect your relationships and motivation.
Black-or-white thoughts may also set you up for failure.
When you engage in polarized thinking, everything is in “either/or” categories. This might make you miss the complexity of most people and situations.
With overgeneralization, words like “always,” “never,” “everything,” and “nothing” are frequent in your train of thought.
Overgeneralization can also manifest in your thoughts about the world and its events.
If your boss tells you how comprehensive your report was, you discount it as something anyone else could do.
If you do well in that job interview, you think it’s because they didn’t realize you’re not that good.
Jumping to conclusions or “mind-reading” is often in response to a persistent thought or concern of yours.
This cognitive distortion often comes with “what if” questions. What if he didn’t call because he got into an accident? What if she hasn’t arrived because she really didn’t want to spend time with me? What if I help this person and they end up betraying or abandoning me?
Several questions might follow in response to one event.
This cognitive distortion often results in you feeling guilty or assigning blame without contemplating all factors involved.
You feel that if your partner had woken earlier, you would have been ready on time for work.
With personalizing, you also take things personally.
Control fallacies can go two opposite ways: You either feel responsible or in control of everything in your and other people’s lives, or you feel you have no control at all over anything in your life.
In this example, you place all control of your behavior on someone else or an external circumstance. This is an external control fallacy.
The other type of control fallacy is based on the belief that your actions and presence impact or control the lives of others.
In other words, you believe you know what’s fair and what isn’t, and it upsets you when other people disagree with you.
The fallacy of fairness will lead you to face conflict with certain people and situations because you feel the need for everything to be “fair” according to your own parameters.
But fairness is rarely absolute and can often be self-serving.
But they arrive exhausted and only want to take a bath. They believe it’s “fair” to take a moment to relax from the day’s chaos, so they can pay full attention to you and enjoy your dinner instead of being distracted and tired.
“You made me feel bad” is what usually defines this cognitive distortion. However, even when others engage in hurtful behaviors, you’re still in control of how you feel in most situations.
The distortion comes from believing that others have the power to affect your life, even more so than yourself.
You tell yourself that things should be a certain way with no exceptions.
When it comes to yourself, you might believe you should always make your bed, or you should always make people laugh.
“You should be better,” you constantly tell yourself.
When these things don’t happen — they really depend on many factors — you feel guilty, disappointed, let down, or frustrated.
You may believe you’re trying to motivate yourself with these statements, such as “I should go to the gym every day.”
However, when circumstances change, and you can’t do what you should, you become angry and upset. You got out of work late and couldn’t get to the gym, for example.
This cognitive distortion might also lead you to believe future events depend on how you feel.
You might also assess a random situation based on your emotional reaction. If someone says something that makes you angry, you immediately conclude that person is treating you poorly.
So, every time they go out, you let them know it’s not OK with you. Eventually, you know they will change their ways and want to stay home all the time.
This happens when you judge and then define yourself or others based on an isolated event.
The labels assigned are usually negative and extreme.
This is an extreme form of overgeneralization that leads you to judge an action without taking the context into account. This, in turn, leads you to see yourself and others in ways that might not be accurate.
Assigning labels to others can impact how you interact with them. This, in turn, could add friction to your relationships.
When you assign those labels to yourself, it can hurt your self-esteem and confidence, leading you to feel insecure and anxious.
In this cognitive distortion, you see your own opinions as facts of life. This is why you will go to great lengths to prove you’re right.
Since your sibling doesn’t feel the same way, you become angry and say things that rub your sibling the wrong way.
You know they’re getting upset, but you continue the argument to prove your point.
Filtering
Mental filtering is draining and straining all positives in a situation and, instead, dwelling on its negatives.Even if there are more positive aspects than negative in a situation or person, you focus on the negatives exclusively.
Example
It’s performance review time at your company, and your manager compliments your hard work several times. In the end, they make one improvement suggestion. You leave the meeting feeling miserable and dwell on that one suggestion all day long.Polarization or all-or-nothing thinking
Polarized thinking is thinking about yourself and the world in an “all-or-nothing” way.When you engage in thoughts of black or white, with no shades of gray, this type of cognitive distortion is leading you.
Example
Your coworker was a saint until she ate your sandwich. Now, you cannot stand her. Or, you got a B on your last test, so you have failed at being a good student despite getting only A’s before that.All-or-nothing thinking usually leads to extremely unrealistic standards for yourself and others that could affect your relationships and motivation.
Black-or-white thoughts may also set you up for failure.
Example
You’ve decided to eat healthy foods. But today, you didn’t have time to prepare a meal, so you eat a bacon burger. This immediately leads you to conclude that you’ve ruined your healthy eating routine, so you decide to no longer even try.When you engage in polarized thinking, everything is in “either/or” categories. This might make you miss the complexity of most people and situations.
Overgeneralization
When you overgeneralize something, you take an isolated negative event and turn it into a never-ending pattern of loss and defeat.With overgeneralization, words like “always,” “never,” “everything,” and “nothing” are frequent in your train of thought.
Example
You speak up at a team meeting, and your suggestions are not included in the project. You leave the meeting thinking, “I ruined my chances for a promotion. I never say the right thing!”Overgeneralization can also manifest in your thoughts about the world and its events.
Example
You’re running late for work, and on your way there, you hit a red light. You think, “Nothing ever goes my way!”Discounting the positive
Discounting positives is similar to mental filtering. The main difference is that you dismiss it as something of no value when you do think of positive aspects.Example
If someone compliments the way you look today, you think they’re just being nice.If your boss tells you how comprehensive your report was, you discount it as something anyone else could do.
If you do well in that job interview, you think it’s because they didn’t realize you’re not that good.
Jumping to conclusions
When you jump to conclusions, you interpret an event or situation negatively without evidence supporting such a conclusion. Then, you react to your assumption.Example
Your partner comes home looking serious. Instead of asking how they are, you immediately assume they’re mad at you. Consequently, you keep your distance. In reality, your partner had a bad day at work.Jumping to conclusions or “mind-reading” is often in response to a persistent thought or concern of yours.
Example
You feel insecure about your relationship. So, when you see your partner looking serious, you assume they might be losing interest in you.Catastrophizing
Catastrophizing is related to jumping to conclusions. In this case, you jump to the worst possible conclusion in every scenario, no matter how improbable it is.This cognitive distortion often comes with “what if” questions. What if he didn’t call because he got into an accident? What if she hasn’t arrived because she really didn’t want to spend time with me? What if I help this person and they end up betraying or abandoning me?
Several questions might follow in response to one event.
Example
What if my alarm doesn’t go off? What if then I’m late for the important meeting? What if I get fired after I’ve worked so hard for this job?Personalization
Personalization leads you to believe that you’re responsible for events that, in reality, are completely or partially out of your control.This cognitive distortion often results in you feeling guilty or assigning blame without contemplating all factors involved.
Example
Your child has an accident, and you blame yourself for allowing them to go to that party.You feel that if your partner had woken earlier, you would have been ready on time for work.
With personalizing, you also take things personally.
Example
Your friend is talking about their personal beliefs regarding parenting, and you take their words as an attack against your parenting style.Control fallacies
The word fallacy refers to an illusion, misconception, or error.Control fallacies can go two opposite ways: You either feel responsible or in control of everything in your and other people’s lives, or you feel you have no control at all over anything in your life.
Example
You couldn’t complete a report that was due today. You immediately think, “Of course I couldn’t complete it! My boss is overworking me, and everyone was so loud today at the office. Who can get anything done like that?”In this example, you place all control of your behavior on someone else or an external circumstance. This is an external control fallacy.
The other type of control fallacy is based on the belief that your actions and presence impact or control the lives of others.
Example
You think you make someone else happy or unhappy. You think all of their emotions are controlled directly or indirectly by your behaviors.Fallacy of fairness
This cognitive distortion refers to measuring every behavior and situation on a scale of fairness. Finding that other people don’t assign the same value of fairness to the event makes you resentful.In other words, you believe you know what’s fair and what isn’t, and it upsets you when other people disagree with you.
The fallacy of fairness will lead you to face conflict with certain people and situations because you feel the need for everything to be “fair” according to your own parameters.
But fairness is rarely absolute and can often be self-serving.
Example
You expect your partner to come home and massage your feet. It’s only “fair” since you spent all afternoon making them dinner.But they arrive exhausted and only want to take a bath. They believe it’s “fair” to take a moment to relax from the day’s chaos, so they can pay full attention to you and enjoy your dinner instead of being distracted and tired.
Blaming
Blaming refers to making others responsible for how you feel.“You made me feel bad” is what usually defines this cognitive distortion. However, even when others engage in hurtful behaviors, you’re still in control of how you feel in most situations.
The distortion comes from believing that others have the power to affect your life, even more so than yourself.
Example
Your partner comments on your new dress and you feel upset for the rest of the day. “You make me feel bad about myself,” you tell them.Shoulds
As cognitive distortions, “should” statements are subjective ironclad rules you set for yourself and others without considering the specifics of a circumstance.You tell yourself that things should be a certain way with no exceptions.
Example
You think people should always be on time, or that someone who is independent should also be self-sufficient and never ask for help.When it comes to yourself, you might believe you should always make your bed, or you should always make people laugh.
“You should be better,” you constantly tell yourself.
When these things don’t happen — they really depend on many factors — you feel guilty, disappointed, let down, or frustrated.
You may believe you’re trying to motivate yourself with these statements, such as “I should go to the gym every day.”
However, when circumstances change, and you can’t do what you should, you become angry and upset. You got out of work late and couldn’t get to the gym, for example.
Emotional reasoning
Emotional reasoning leads you to believe that the way you feel is a reflection of reality. “I feel this way about this situation, hence it must be a fact,” defines this cognitive distortion.Example
Feeling inadequate in a situation turns into, “I don’t belong anywhere.”This cognitive distortion might also lead you to believe future events depend on how you feel.
Example
You may firmly believe something bad will happen today because you woke up feeling anxious.You might also assess a random situation based on your emotional reaction. If someone says something that makes you angry, you immediately conclude that person is treating you poorly.
Fallacy of change
The fallacy of change has you expecting other people will change their ways to suit your expectations or needs, particularly when you pressure them enough.Example
You want your partner to focus only on you, despite knowing that they’ve always been very social and value time with friends.So, every time they go out, you let them know it’s not OK with you. Eventually, you know they will change their ways and want to stay home all the time.
Global labeling
Labeling or mislabeling refers to taking a single attribute and turning it into an absolute.This happens when you judge and then define yourself or others based on an isolated event.
The labels assigned are usually negative and extreme.
Example
You see your new teammate applying makeup before a meeting, and you call them “shallow.” Or, they don’t submit a report on time, and you label them “useless.”This is an extreme form of overgeneralization that leads you to judge an action without taking the context into account. This, in turn, leads you to see yourself and others in ways that might not be accurate.
Assigning labels to others can impact how you interact with them. This, in turn, could add friction to your relationships.
When you assign those labels to yourself, it can hurt your self-esteem and confidence, leading you to feel insecure and anxious.
Always being right
This desire turns into a cognitive distortion when it trumps everything else, including evidence and other people’s feelings.In this cognitive distortion, you see your own opinions as facts of life. This is why you will go to great lengths to prove you’re right.
Example
You quarrel with your sibling about how your parents haven’t supported you enough. You’re convinced this was the case all the time, while your sibling believes it varied according to the situation.Since your sibling doesn’t feel the same way, you become angry and say things that rub your sibling the wrong way.
You know they’re getting upset, but you continue the argument to prove your point.
OK. But the above could apply to any number of your prior posts, so maybe consider it.
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Ait, maybe it's not bait, and he is just the most unfortunate scrote that has plagued the Earth. This dude's post history is fucking hilarious: https://kiwifarms.st/search/28531035/?q=women&c[users]=SwanSwanson&o=relevance. He seems to be constantly self-reporting that he belongs underground, e.g., by posting about how young girls are "prime quality women":
Then there's him posting himself getting rejected:
A good few steps away from being a cow.
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Brown, latent homosexual hands typed this.
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One wonders why a man would want to date and/or marry such insufferable creatures. Everyone knows white women are whores who will baby-trap and divorce-rape you. Surely buttfucking other men would be preferable?
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Don't forget, white women will eventually cheat with a groid, because only the big, thick, long, juicy black cock can satisfy the white whore.
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I'm sure a lonely troon would be delighted to find a soulmate.
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Hey ladies. Which are your favourite fall flowers?
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Uh oh, don't let null see this post...
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Calluna, so easy to take care of and they are beautiful to combine with almost any other plant.
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Is that the same as heather? Thanks for the suggestion
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ah yes, i think so. I did not know the word in english.
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For growing or a bouquet? Sunflowers are good for either. They're fairly hardy and make a nice snack. Mums and african daisies are also nice, I'm partial to the burgundy daisies.