Strange things women do/have/endure - That guys wouldn’t know about

[2mm and 99 others]

I have theory that forms of birth control that regulate hormonal cycles actually kill parts of the female brain. Particularly maternal instinct. All humans should have a thing built in their genetic code that when it sees something with big eyes and a small body it goes “aww” I’ve run into so many women that are like “a child? ew! get it away from me!” I understand how the idea of “parenthood” is a lot more scary to women. Where men go “I want to be a dad” women have to deal with permanent scaring to their bodies. But my girlfriend will legit look at baby monkeys and puppies and be like “ew weird dirt creature!”

Agree with me or disagree with me. Im asking if you’ve noticed similar trends. I’ve noticed women in any form of birth control tend to be more…manic. Or at least less sympathetic to children

It's possible that the women who absolutely don't want children, avoided sexual relationships with men entirely in the past, but since the birth control became available, many of them have relationships now, only because it exists.
It does, though, cause depression sometimes or worsens it, and that makes one's emotions and reactions quite flat.

(Never took dat shit myself, never wanted kids, but I am ok with those who already show intelligence and curiosity (likely only because I wasn't near one who asks about something all the time too long yet).

 

[CornBogFitz]

brah I have five of them and if my baby factory was not life-threateningly broken I'd probably have ended up with nine or ten. I fucking love babies. I would spend all day every day with babies. I look like a reddit janny looking in a cake shop window when I see babies pass by. Babies are the fucking best.

I am really not sure it's the contraception. Some folk really just do not like kids. Those of us who are baby rabid tend to acquire some along the way.

Well that’s nice to hear. It’s hard to ask people about these things you know. It’s hard not to just speculate. I resend my previous comment. It was too off topic anyway

 

[Chandelier]

on the question of menstrual cycles, etc: if your hormones are going all over the place with highs and lows, do you ever feel 'normal' as in a stable mood throughout the cycle before it all starts again?

Before I went on BC all I knew was terrible cramps and breasts so hard I could smash bricks with them. I'd feel tired and exhausted all the time and in my twenties the pain was so awful I'd get terrible nausea and night sweats. That was usually 1-2 weeks before the actual bleeding started.

Now, it's the pre cycle downturn in mood, pinches near the uterus, and changes in appetite.

Ultimately it depends on your personal biology. One thing I always hated though was men snarking, "oh, it's someone's time of the month " like bro fuck you

 

[Hubelublub]

One thing I always hated though was men snarking, "oh, it's someone's time of the month "

I wish the male sex drive had a time of the month. Imagine if their testosterone wasn't constantly raging sky high and they weren't driven by thinking with their dicks, and they instead spent most of the month calm and kind?

 

[Red flag]

Ultimately it depends on your personal biology. One thing I always hated though was men snarking, "oh, it's someone's time of the month " like bro fuck you

Moids literally murder women, then try to weasel out of consequences with the most bullshit excuse in the universe: "crime of passion" and get away with it.

And then have the audacity to snark at women supposedly being too eMoTiOnAl.

 

[glitterglue]

I hate being treated as if I am an extra mom or grandma by my brothers. They would never cook for me, or pack my bags, or wake me up, or wash my laundry, but its just a given that we are supoosed to do that.

 

[Shig O'nella]

I hate being treated as if I am an extra mom or grandma by my brothers. They would never cook for me, or pack my bags, or wake me up, or wash my laundry, but its just a given that we are supoosed to do that.

Do they not understand the words "fuck off?" Or a simple "no?"

 

[glitterglue]

Do they not understand the words "fuck off?" Or a simple "no?"

Of course they dont.

 

[Shig O'nella]

Of course they dont.

Then teach them.

 

[NoReturn]

Do they not understand the words "fuck off?" Or a simple "no?"

Of course they dont.

There are significant repercussions for violating the unspoken expectations for women. This is why you might see adult women fuck off once they can and never go "home" again. It's the most socially acceptable way to escape.

 

[Emo Supremo]

Did we talk about getting the period shits yet?

this is a late reply but when i first read your post i thought "damn sucks to suck, good thing i don't get those".

no, turns out i definitely do. i just didn't make the correlation between my period and my digestive system throwing a big gay collaborative meltdown.

speaking of periods, there's a special kind of fear that comes with suddenly skipping one when you're definitely not pregnant and you've been regular your entire life until then, even if it's not a guaranteed sign that something scary is actually going on.

 

[Soy Fed]

I have theory that forms of birth control that regulate hormonal cycles actually kill parts of the female brain. Particularly maternal instinct. All humans should have a thing built in their genetic code that when it sees something with big eyes and a small body it goes “aww” I’ve run into so many women that are like “a child? ew! get it away from me!” I understand how the idea of “parenthood” is a lot more scary to women. Where men go “I want to be a dad” women have to deal with permanent scaring to their bodies. But my girlfriend will legit look at baby monkeys and puppies and be like “ew weird dirt creature!”

Agree with me or disagree with me. Im asking if you’ve noticed similar trends. I’ve noticed women in any form of birth control tend to be more…manic. Or at least less sympathetic to children

I've heard that birth control simulates the hormonal conditions of pregnancy, so I suppose some sort of deadening could happen after years. There's also "cute aggression" where excessively cute things flip back around and become threatening. I don't think it's specific to women though, since the Fluffy Abuse stuff grew out of the MLP community.

 

[NoReturn]

no, turns out i definitely do. i just didn't make the correlation between my period and my digestive system throwing a big gay collaborative meltdown.

Prostaglandins also affect the bowels.

 

[Cascade]

Prostaglandins also affect the bowels.

Lol, I used to think that body couldn't tell the difference between menstrual cramps and digestive issues, and therefore triggers an accelerated colon cleansing protocol.

 

[Mandy Stroyer]

I've heard many a case of women with endo or PCOS being misdiagnosed with IBS or related bowel disorders initially because the endo grew onto their intestines or colon or the cysts were causing blockages. Hormones definitely play a role as well thus the average "period shits".

 

[Mandy Stroyer]

My bad for doubleposting but this has been bugging me. I had a friend who I (really dating myself here) met on runescape 15+ years ago. It was strictly platonic, if even that because he frequently disappeared for years at a time. The few times we did get back in contact, it was rare to stay that way for more than a month before he disappeared again. We had regular contact for 1 year before this disappearing thing started.

At the beginning of this year, I get a text from some random number asking if it's [my name]. I ask who it is before I answer that and it's runescape guy, he sends a video as proof since we both confirmed way back when that we were truly the same age and not attempting to groom the other for gp or cp. It is very clearly him, aged a decade since I last saw him, insisting it is him who is texting me. He found my number in an email from 2011 and a place to live a ten minute drive away since his job moved him here.

He wants to meet up in person which I am very opposed to because I have a mostly functional fight or flight system and to me this is a guy from runescape who I haven't spoken to in ten years. Fine by him, he doesn't mind catching up over text if it makes me comfortable. It made me more uncomfortable since two weeks into catching up and with zero explanation as to his disappearances, he mentions his fiancee died two years ago and it hurt - just as much as losing contact with me.



"Nigga your fiancee fucking died in a wreck, you had every opprotunity to message me with the several platforms you found me on at any point in that decade. I am not rebound for your dead proto wifey. Are you good man?"

He didn't want to talk about it further but apologized since he was drunk when sending them. I suggested therapy and he declined. I have left him on read since February. Not even the first time this sort of thing has happened to me but the dead fiancee is new.

 

[Hubelublub]

My bad for doubleposting but this has been bugging me. I had a friend who I (really dating myself here) met on runescape 15+ years ago. It was strictly platonic, if even that because he frequently disappeared for years at a time. The few times we did get back in contact, it was rare to stay that way for more than a month before he disappeared again. We had regular contact for 1 year before this disappearing thing started.

At the beginning of this year, I get a text from some random number asking if it's [my name]. I ask who it is before I answer that and it's runescape guy, he sends a video as proof since we both confirmed way back when that we were truly the same age and not attempting to groom the other for gp or cp. It is very clearly him, aged a decade since I last saw him, insisting it is him who is texting me. He found my number in an email from 2011 and a place to live a ten minute drive away since his job moved him here.

He wants to meet up in person which I am very opposed to because I have a mostly functional fight or flight system and to me this is a guy from runescape who I haven't spoken to in ten years. Fine by him, he doesn't mind catching up over text if it makes me comfortable. It made me more uncomfortable since two weeks into catching up and with zero explanation as to his disappearances, he mentions his fiancee died two years ago and it hurt - just as much as losing contact with me.



"Nigga your fiancee fucking died in a wreck, you had every opprotunity to message me with the several platforms you found me on at any point in that decade. I am not rebound for your dead proto wifey. Are you good man?"

He didn't want to talk about it further but apologized since he was drunk when sending them. I suggested therapy and he declined. I have left him on read since February. Not even the first time this sort of thing has happened to me but the dead fiancee is new.

I'm fascinated by how men don't have two lists of women, one they'd be willing to fuck and the other they wouldn't, as they often claim, but instead just have one ranked list of all the women they've ever known, in order from most desired to least, and they live their love lives slowly working their way down this list, depending on opportunity and desperation.

If you are a woman and you know a moid, you are on this list of his, it's just a question of how high up you are unlucky enough to be.

 

[2mm and 99 others]

Funny that, they completely estrange themselves or become too retarded, and then they reappear out of nowhere after years and they just don't seem to understand, they frame it as your fault or something that just happened completely outside their control, that the contact cut itself.
I used to not get what's so scary about Halloween, I mean, it's more spoopy than spooky really, but... the image of someone who was already dead, buried and mourned (for you) for years, suddenly reappearing in your life, or gods forbid, on your doorstep, the horror, the horror.

 

[Caramelo]

Agree with me or disagree with me. Im asking if you’ve noticed similar trends. I’ve noticed women in any form of birth control tend to be more…manic. Or at least less sympathetic to children

I disagree. With the group of women I've been with, it is completely unrelated.
Thè au lait implied women on birth control are on it BECAUSE they don't like and don't want children, not the other way around, and I agree.
Well, I am one that can't fucking stand children - have you seen newborn fucks? Hideous! - and I never used hormonal birth control in my life. I don't like fucking around my endocrine system, thanks.

 

[Thé au lait]

I disagree. With the group of women I've been with, it is completely unrelated.
Thè au lait implied women on birth control are on it BECAUSE they don't like and don't want children, not the other way around, and I agree.
Well, I am one that can't fucking stand children - have you seen newborn fucks? Hideous! - and I never used hormonal birth control in my life. I don't like fucking around my endocrine system, thanks.

It makes so much more sense than this retarded "she takes birth control for no reason at all and that makes her not want kids"
The only place that could possibly have come from was hardcore cope. How the fuck else does "the logical sex" struggle with the logic of "I don't want kids, so I'll take no-kid pills"?