A lot of meltdowns acting like "you wanted to afford groceries" sounding like "pull.yourself up by your bootstraps".
I've called these people "decadent" before. A lot because they don't realize (or don't care) that their belief systems are luxury beliefs, beliefs that you might only care about if you're not hurting for anything in life that you have to make a problem that nobody would even consider a problem until someone introduced it into the situation for the purposes of creating the problem to solve, not that it was ever a problem in the first place.
These people also assume you're either an idiot or a cuck. They can call you whatever you want, and then get flustered over why your loyalty has disappeared.