Fewer Young men are having sex, why? - And why the sex disparity?

Then why call it ruining her life?

Glib answer: being responsible for a kid instead of fucking around
Serious answer: not finishing an education to go into a workforce

My question because dating got abotionjacked: Why is this hypothetical girl not given help with raising the kid or just going back to school later in life?
 
Glib answer: being responsible for a kid instead of fucking around
Serious answer: not finishing an education to go into a workforce
Neither of these are good answers. Fucking around is obviously bad, but even getting an education to enter the workforce should not be the driving goal of a person's life. It does not lead to true fulfillment or happiness.

Furthermore formal institutional education is not the only form of education and is increasingly inadequate for actual living. One can arguably obtain a better education through private study utilizing resources like the Internet and Libraries than they can in a modern classroom especially for standard K-12 type schools. Community colleges and civil centers offer a robust array of educational classes for adults if you really need that classroom experience or find it beneficial to you.
 
So wave around some moolah, not only would men join some "hive mind" but also sacrifice any morals to get it.

Sounds kind of whorish of them.
No. Again, men are independently minded. Most men, in fact a majority of men oppose gang life and do not do anything for money

Women don't have integrity

Glib answer: being responsible for a kid instead of fucking around
Serious answer: not finishing an education to go into a workforce

My question because dating got abotionjacked: Why is this hypothetical girl not given help with raising the kid or just going back to school later in life?
Why would a woman go to school?
 
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Women aren't all bad.

That's the worse part. In practice they are merely amoral.

Women are currently being spoiled by messaging that they deserve everything in exchange for merely existing and have been told all their lives having kids is bad and men exist to cater to them. Even the foids who escape their containment forum aren't evil, they're products of western civilization being retarded for the past 60 years.

I don't really see it as a messaging issue it's a what-woman-actually-are issue. Blaming cultural trends, the marketing dept, social media or dating apps etc. implies their behavior can't be examined because they can't be held responsible for any of it. This is the aim of both feminist and tradcon debate it works together to shift all blame onto men and in this case young men who have done nothing wrong except exist.
 
That's the worse part. In practice they are merely amoral.

And men wouldn't be if the tables were turned? If young men were spoiled like young women they'd be gigantic faggots about it too, heterosexual or otherwise.

I don't really see it as a messaging issue it's a what-woman-actually-are issue. Blaming cultural trends, the marketing dept, social media or dating apps etc. implies their behavior can't be examined because they can't be held responsible for any of it. This is the aim of both feminist and tradcon debate it works together to shift all blame onto men and in this case young men who have done nothing wrong except exist.

Groups of people are malleable, and, you can examine the behavior of individuals and groups alike. I'm hardly saying people shouldn't be responsible for their actions, but I'm also not going to think you're going to make groups of people change without changing what the group is messaged.

Look at the hysterical shit going on because shitlibs were told by their shitlib talking heads that Trump winning is so bad XYZ will happen. These people would not be doing that if they were told something else, or otherwise not manipulated to fear Trump at all.

We used to message people into marriage and against promiscuity, and most people (but not all) tended to do that. Now we message something else that people do and know the change in outcome that happened after the change in messaging.

Simple as.
 
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No. Again, men are independently minded. Most men, in fact a majority of men oppose gang life
most men. Yet usa prisons are getting overcrowded.

and do not do anything for money
they usually do do things for money, it's called this thing "getting a job", it's usually the more moralistic version of obtaining money, yet men in gangs don't do this. Wonder why?

Women don't have integrity
Most women aren't the monsters you make them out but you don't want to pay attention to it because that would get in the way of your victim complex.
 
most men. Yet usa prisons are getting overcrowded.
Yes
they usually do do things for money, it's called this thing "getting a job", it's usually the more moralistic version of obtaining money, yet men in gangs don't do this. Wonder why?
Because they're independently minded. Literally just said that
Most women aren't the monsters you make them out but you don't want to pay attention to it because that would get in the way of your victim complex.
I didn't say women were monsters.
 
Society needs to maintain itself and perpetuate itself, and goddamn adults refusing to do so is a problem. Societies that do not fix their shit are replaced by those who do, or never face these problems in the first place. Put another way, ideologies that continue existing replace those that don't care if they do or do not.
We're not really in disagreement there. I never said anything about promiscuity. I think high sociosexuality does have negative consequences. I wouldn't be opposed to, for instance, reducing access to contraceptives. That is a much greater component in not only the reduction in fertility, but also in the decline in quality of offspring, as people who are more intelligent and have lower time preference are more likely to use contraceptives. Abortion is the exact opposite. It is largely utilized by people with high time preference, and significantly reduces the burden on society by allowing these people to, in so many words, "wipe themselves out".
I will stand in opposition to the practice, preach against it, and support legislation that makes it illegal.
Well, then you're trying to make it illegal. So what's even the point of bringing up free will?
Then why call it ruining her life?
Because raising a child as a teenager severely limits the mother's opportunities. That much should be obvious.
 
And men wouldn't be if the tables were turned? If young men were spoiled like young women they'd be gigantic faggots about it too, heterosexual or otherwise.

The tables will never be turned unless you can suddenly grow eggs, there's no inverse here. Most ordinary men seem to have behavioral inhibitions while ordinary women do not. Likely rooted out by evolution which makes them great for thriving on the high plains savannah but not so much desirable long term company when living indoors.

Groups of people are malleable, and, you can examine the behavior of individuals and groups alike. I'm hardly saying people shouldn't be responsible for their actions, but I'm also not going to think you're going to make groups of people change without changing what the group is messaged.

Look at the hysterical shit going on because shitlibs were told by their shitlib talking heads that Trump winning is so bad XYZ will happen. These people would not be doing that if they were told something else, or otherwise not manipulated to fear Trump at all.

We used to message people into marriage and against promiscuity, and most people (but not all) tended to do that. Now we message something else that people do and know the change in outcome that happened after the change in messaging.

Simple as.

Massive social control the way religion used to be able to do it is not simple or prescriptive. Takes a good amount of killing too which I am all for but just not to wind up with an aging wife that hates being a wife to anyone which seems like something women are very much opposed to outside of a retirement plan and finding the next wallet to pick.
 
I genuinely do not understand
You have made that clear, yes

A robust, uniformly religious, society would
Great, we don’t have that and likely never will. What about the society we have HERE and NOW?

At least you admit it is a mistake. Additionally since when is being a mother akin to "ruining her life" ?
Incredible.

Rape is wrong, but it does not justify murdering a child.
Good thing abortion isn’t murder then. By the way, do you find it unreasonable to wonder if perhaps rape babies are not more inclined to be rapists, or otherwise disordered and miserable as a result of their origins? Are all babies blank slates, or do genetics matter?

Don’t even try the dishonest “oh so children in bad circumstances don’t deserve life then???” bullshit, by the way. Sure, a child born in the worst circumstances may find the strength to overcome and rise above, and they deserve the help to do so, which they probably won’t get from their dysfunctional family. It’s far likelier, however, that they will suffer and perpetuate the cycle of misery and abuse.

Sadly still no peanuts to offer, but there’s a few to be found in some noggins here if you look hard enough. :)
 
We're not really in disagreement there. I never said anything about promiscuity. I think high sociosexuality does have negative consequences. I wouldn't be opposed to, for instance, reducing access to contraceptives. That is a much greater component in not only the reduction in fertility, but also in the decline in quality of offspring, as people who are more intelligent and have lower time preference are more likely to use contraceptives. Abortion is the exact opposite. It is largely utilized by people with high time preference, and significantly reduces the burden on society by allowing these people to, in so many words, "wipe themselves out".

Changing the incentives around having kids and what aid is present to support kid-havers is probably a far better use of our time than making it hard to reach contraception.
 
most men. Yet usa prisons are getting overcrowded.
It's worth noting that, at least in the USA, there's not an even moral correlation between behavior and imprisonment. Most of America's prisons are full from drug offenses. In terms of violent crime, women received about 30x more abortions than there were legally defined murders each year prior to the overturning of Roe V Wade breaking up abortion legislation to the states.
If we can use violent crime numbers to make certain conclusions about the behavior of men as passionate beings with a destructive self-serving streak, the numbers are indicative of women simply having a far more cruel indifference to life than men possess.
 
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Foids only go for chad and sub 5 and poorfag sub 7 males are invisible on the dating market.
It's not a "market", because people are largely non-fungible. You're not trading commodities here, or services. The commercialization and gamification of sex by incels is a coping mechanism.
Changing the incentives around having kids and what aid is present to support kid-havers is probably a far better use of our time than making it hard to reach contraception.
Western countries and East Asia provide the highest quality of life for raising children, and yet have extremely low birth rates. What you're proposing is just welfare, and we already have that. Either way, contraceptives will likely not be limited or made harder to reach in western liberal democracies, except in the event of some kind of unforeseen crisis situation.
 
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It's not a "market", because people are largely non-fungible. You're not trading commodities here, or services. The commercialization and gamification of sex by incels is a coping mechanism.

Western countries and East Asia provide the highest quality of life for raising children, and yet have extremely low birth rates. What you're proposing is just welfare, and we already have that. Either way, contraceptives will likely not be limited or made harder to reach in western liberal democracies, except in the event of some kind of unforeseen crisis situation.

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Western countries and East Asia provide the highest quality of life for raising children, and yet have extremely low birth rates. What you're proposing is just welfare, and we already have that. Either way, contraceptives will likely not be limited or made harder to reach in western liberal democracies, except in the event of some kind of unforeseen crisis situation.

You're being vague and side stepping my point. Yes, the QOL is high, per most metrics people use to define it, sure, but hope is not high, and incentives still matter. Consider Germany vs France, two high QOL western nations:

France is much more generous about helping french people out with having kids. Germany is not. France has a higher birth rate. Yes, both have a bit of a problem with immigrants, but my point stands.

You can have a high QOL and blah blah blah, and find child care costs too goddamn much. Actual purchasing power due to the insane cost of living (RENT, Inflation, etc?) is rather lower. I know highly paid professionals who drop $3K/mo on childcare. I know people who aren't making that much up to their eyeballs in it.

Families have broken down, so a lack of grandparents to help is a problem.
Women work now, and more or less have to, since wages have been stagnant since the 1980s, so stay at home moms aren't economically feasible right now.

If behaviors are disincentivized, they will be expressed less than incentivized behavior.
 
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