Official Kiwifarms Woman-Hate Thread - DO NOT post about OTHER USERS or OTHER THREADS from THIS WEBSITE.

[Danann]

Women have the worst sense of humor and taste ever. Like who thinks reading shipping fanfictions when you above the age of 25 is a good idea?

 

[Xia Dynasty]

Thoroughly convinced that there's nothing a man can do that won't give women the ick.

Female attraction comes down to three things: looks, confidence, and wealth. Nearly anything else is just something they pretend to care about because they don't like the idea that their attraction is highly superficial. To be honest, this is something that men do too, by downplaying how much they care about looks.

 

[Xia Dynasty]

I can relate, but what I really meant to say is, I don't think it's a mom thing exclusively? I don't see anything wrong with couples doing it. It's really wholesome and heart-warming, ESPECIALLY when she pats you on the head.

A. That's really fucking weird, keep that shit to yourself.
B. If you want to do that with a woman, you'll probably need to pay an hourly rate. No matter how much they pretend, they're not interested in emotionally sensitive men.

 

[God of Nothing]

confidence

this is just looks and wealth

 

[Bungdit Din]

Female attraction comes down to three things: looks, confidence, and wealth. Nearly anything else is just something they pretend to care about because they don't like the idea that their attraction is highly superficial. To be honest, this is something that men do too, by downplaying how much they care about looks.

Again, it depends. Short term: looks. Longer term: provisioning. Femoid dual-mating strategy, bruv. Alpha fux, beta bux. Ideally, bitches want both (because of course they do), but the full package is exceedingly rare. So they will, usually, eventually settle for a provider-simpcuck to pay her bills, but will cheat with Chad for his handsome badboy seed (and try to conceal true paternity for as long as possible). Or, get knocked up by some "jerk" (accidentally on purpose) and then look for Captain Save-A-Ho to bail her out, once she's "had her fun" and is "tired of playing games".

This is why, if you want genuine attraction, you NEVER lead with your wallet. Don't ever pay full-price for what she spent her prime years giving away for free.

Women are thoroughly evil amoral (and the ultimate pragmatists). It is what it is, and they are what they are. No point judging them, by male standards.

Edit: Regarding male downplaying the importance of looks, my motto is: looks are necessary, but not sufficient. I'm not a fan of bimbos. Good looking and funny/witty/clever, ftw. Not a fan of thickos, of either sex (speaking as a retard myself).

 

[The Ugly One]

So they will, usually, eventually settle for a provider-simpcuck to pay her bills, but will cheat with Chad for his handsome badboy seed (and try to conceal true paternity for as long as possible).

You must live in Latin America, because the majority of married women in white countries actually don't engage in infidelity.

Sorry to be #1 Foid Defender.

This is why, if you want genuine attraction, you NEVER lead with your wallet. Don't ever pay full-price for what she spent her prime years giving away for free.

You shouldn't be wife-hunting among women who are past their prime years anyway. And you shouldn't be wasting five seconds of your irreplaceable life energy with women you already know aren't wife material for any reason.

 

[Bungdit Din]

your irreplaceable life energy

Neither sapped nor impurified.

 

[Dawdler]

The concept of friendship has been ruined amongst millennials and zoomers. Everything is transactional. The term is now called emotional labor, which in practice means a term for people who loathe the idea of thinking of anyone other than themselves. Girl friends back in high school and college used to love playing matchmaker but it doesn’t actually benefit themselves now so therefore it’s not worth doing.

Oh so that's what it was. Thanks for unlocking a memory

 

[McMitch]

>Hanging out with a chick, tell her I like her more than as a friend.
>She tells me she doesn’t see me that way and wants to just be friends.
>Okay, sure, give it an honest try because I still enjoy hanging out as friends.
>Eventually she starts talking about guys she strikes out with.
I don’t know if this is an indictment of the women I am attracted to, or what, but this has happened with a few women over the last ~10 years.

I know the theory that it’s a prompt to chase after her, but fuck that it’s insulting and manipulative of the most basic foundation of a relationship. I try to stay friends because sure interests won’t necessarily align and I don’t hold expectations that anything else will come of it; but after the first chick tried that on me, this has become a prompt for me to ghost out.

 

[The Ugly One]

Any time spent with a woman who wants to be "just friends" is time you're not spending with a woman whom you might get somewhere with.

 

[The Hardest R]

I know the theory that it’s a prompt to chase after her

Who says this? That is bad advice.

I try to stay friends because sure interests won’t necessarily align and I don’t hold expectations that anything else will come of it; but after the first chick tried that on me, this has become a prompt for me to ghost out.

So why do you want to be friends with her? Serious question.

I’m not saying you can’t be friends with a woman but assume sex will never happen. What does she bring to the table? Again, assume sex is never going to happen. If you’re able to come up with a clear answer that doesn’t involve sex then it shouldn’t matter if she talks about all the dick she’s sucked since the last time you talked.

Seems to me she’s picked up on you still holding a candle for a relationship that’ll never happen with her and her talking about other guys is primarily intended to reinforce boundaries.

 

[McMitch]

Who says this? That is bad advice.

Yes, it is. Hence:

but fuck that it’s insulting and manipulative of the most basic foundation of a relationship.

I’m not saying you can’t be friends with a woman but assume sex will never happen. What does she bring to the table? Again, assume sex is never going to happen. If you’re able to come up with a clear answer that doesn’t involve sex then it shouldn’t matter if she talks about all the dick she’s sucked since the last time you talked.

Seems to me she’s picked up on you still holding a candle for a relationship that’ll never happen with her and her talking about other guys is primarily intended to reinforce boundaries.

I should clarify: this seems to be the only situation where such topics come up. I've been friends with women in a purely platonic way who don't bother broaching this particular subject. It's not even about successful encounters, it's always about their failures with men.

And I don't really hold a candle for anyway. I shoot my shot, and if it doesn't pan out then I start looking for someone else. But if they are operating under the assumption that I am holding out, it seems like an intentionally hurtful subject to bring up unprompted. It's not like I'm continually flirting or pushing for anything; I fully understand what subset of interaction is platonic or not.

I get this is Kiwi Farms and the assumption is going to be that I'm just having an Asperger's misunderstanding of my own actions, but that's really not the case. I can tell this is a weird interaction and if I had this discussion with anyone face-to-face they'd agree.

 

[Hazel Motes]

And I don't really hold a candle for anyway. I shoot my shot, and if it doesn't pan out then I start looking for someone else. But if they are operating under the assumption that I am holding out, it seems like an intentionally hurtful subject to bring up unprompted. It's not like I'm continually flirting or pushing for anything; I fully understand what subset of interaction is platonic or not.

Once you've brought it up, you've crossed the Rubicon. It will always be in the air. No matter how many topics discussed, no matter how many seemingly unrelated conversations are had, there will always be on the back of at least of one person's mind that you shot your shot. It is like admitting to a murder. Things are not the same nor should they be.

People, myself included, do not like anxiety and change in relationship changes, but they should. I enjoy speaking to a woman, I don't want it to end, so I don't even try asking her out, and then it inevitably fizzes out. I lose interest. She expected more and moved on. It was a hard lesson, but I realised there is a near infinite amount of women I enjoy talking to, and despite my emotions, very rarely is there anything unique, so there was no point in wallowing with one who did not like me in the way I wanted them to. I am not going to pretend that the reason I enjoy speaking to women is anything but the idea that I may share a bed with them. And no conversation is better than the one that involves two people nude in bed.

I do not know your situation, but similar ones develop into a man being led on with the hint that something may happen. I can speak from experience. And who knows, when they have exhausted all other possibilities, then they might see old faithful for the good man that he is, but who the fuck wants to be hung up like a coat till winter? People deserve their own time in the sun. And if they can't find in one place, then they should find it somewhere else.

I never felt the need to cry or rejoice
I never felt the need to raise my voice
I only wanted to be one of the boys
Now you made me second choice

Any time spent with a woman who wants to be "just friends" is time you're not spending with a woman whom you might get somewhere with.

Time is precious. Why waste it being the 'gay best friend' in another's romcom?

 

[McMitch]

Time is precious. Why waste it being the 'gay best friend' in another's romcom?

Holy shit, you don’t have to gamify spending time with people in order to minmax a for a girlfriend.

 

[Hazel Motes]

Holy shit, you don’t have to gamify spending time with people in order to minmax a for a girlfriend.

I don't ask the friends I spend time with for a shag.

 

[stares at error messages]

This is why, if you want genuine attraction, you NEVER lead with your wallet. Don't ever pay full-price for what she spent her prime years giving away for free.

All the copes you're made to believe about your inner virtue as a kid are all crap. In truth, losers are loser for forever. Nothing changes.

 

[Deus Exica]

Tits is better than ass.

Poop comes out of asses so I default to tits.

try to stay friends because sure interests won’t necessarily align and I don’t hold expectations that anything else will come of it; but after the first chick tried that on me, this has become a prompt for me to ghost out.

There is practically no reason to be friends with a woman you don't want to fuck. They're terrible conversationalists, have the most narrow breadth of interests and hobbies a human can possibly have, and they're emotionally and socially retarded so if you are the guy friend prepare to be on the receiving end of the world's most petty and obnoxious emotional vampirism you could ever experience.

Holy shit, you don’t have to gamify spending time with people in order to minmax a for a girlfriend.

No, but you can avoid being bored out of your fucking skull.

 

[SpergioLeonne]

There is practically no reason to be friends with a woman you don't want to fuck. They're terrible conversationalists, have the most narrow breadth of interests and hobbies a human can possibly have, and they're emotionally and socially retarded so if you are the guy friend prepare to be on the receiving end of the world's most petty and obnoxious emotional vampirism you could ever experience.

The actual reason not to be friends with women is that the reason *they* are interested is because they’re meeting their needs piecemeal. You will be playing the cuck who holds her hand while she gets plowed by the bull.

Best case scenario, your support underwrites her need for validation and gives her the budget to make terrible relationship decisions. Worst case scenario, you’re in need of validation as well, but what you’re actually getting is a constant, perpetual “ew”

 

[Kalsarikännit]

Any time spent with a woman who wants to be "just friends" is time you're not spending with a woman whom you might get somewhere with.

A tough pill for some to swallow.

 

[Billy Bob Dick]

I don’t know if this is an indictment of the women I am attracted to, or what, but this has happened with a few women over the last ~10 years.

I know the theory that it’s a prompt to chase after her, but fuck that it’s insulting and manipulative of the most basic foundation of a relationship. I try to stay friends because sure interests won’t necessarily align and I don’t hold expectations that anything else will come of it; but after the first chick tried that on me, this has become a prompt for me to ghost out.

Women who hang out with men and complain to them about the dudes they're actually banging view those men as pet eunuchs.

Run. Those women are sociopathic pieces of shit and they would literally suck your brains out through your eyeholes like Jeffrey Coombs in "Re-Animator" if they could.