Ser Prize
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- Nov 20, 2019
What that means is they know you're into them but like the attention and convenience you give, so they keep you around as an orbiter. That puts pressure on her future/current BF to behave while also making it so she can monkey branch seamlessly.>Hanging out with a chick, tell her I like her more than as a friend.
>She tells me she doesn’t see me that way and wants to just be friends.
>Okay, sure, give it an honest try because I still enjoy hanging out as friends.
>Eventually she starts talking about guys she strikes out with.
I don’t know if this is an indictment of the women I am attracted to, or what, but this has happened with a few women over the last ~10 years.
I know the theory that it’s a prompt to chase after her, but fuck that it’s insulting and manipulative of the most basic foundation of a relationship. I try to stay friends because sure interests won’t necessarily align and I don’t hold expectations that anything else will come of it; but after the first chick tried that on me, this has become a prompt for me to ghost out.