@Mandarys_Milan hey
my mistake for not backreading. honestly. I thought all of the stuff from the archived something sensitive thread was the extent of what you'd shared about the situation. also I didn't realize lowtax's youtube post was about the recording incident? thats sheds light on some interesting things & i'll talk about it when it's not 3 am
I brought up the fact checking because every person i've ever known who's been in a mutually abusive relationship really and truly believes that they're the victim and their partner was the abuser. when they recount their experiences they exclude many of their own behaviors, not out of lying, but because that stuff doesn't register to them as abuse. with what information i had at the moment, there was a possibility that the pills were only lost or that you were behaving in a way that made shmorky feel threatened that you didn't register. the pills thing does make sense to me now & I still kind of rly suspect the threatened thing but I'm gonna read your posts and get back to you