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- Jul 22, 2020
I'm gonna ignore the shitshow and just put this down here.
What realistic solutions or advice would one give to men? Young men, teens, men in their 20s/30s that were too socially inept. I wind up talking to plenty of these due to my hobbies and extended family. I have zilch experience in dating and I don't like restating "common sense" adages I hear because it doesn't work on a lot of these dudes.
I refuse to get involved in manosphere or shit flinging culture wars stuff in any of these IRL experiences. I recognize my own issues and simply wish to know what's a good method of trying to direct people into an appropriate answer. It's just that I've seen things go so steadily weird that I've seen teens I know IRL act so damned weird. I've met dudes who were so caught up in things and didn't really wind up doing anything with women for one reason or another. They pretty much got into porn and kept that under the hood.
It's weird. I keep getting asked to have chats with them by their own mothers or aunties and it's just something I'm not sure how to approach properly.
What realistic solutions or advice would one give to men? Young men, teens, men in their 20s/30s that were too socially inept. I wind up talking to plenty of these due to my hobbies and extended family. I have zilch experience in dating and I don't like restating "common sense" adages I hear because it doesn't work on a lot of these dudes.
I refuse to get involved in manosphere or shit flinging culture wars stuff in any of these IRL experiences. I recognize my own issues and simply wish to know what's a good method of trying to direct people into an appropriate answer. It's just that I've seen things go so steadily weird that I've seen teens I know IRL act so damned weird. I've met dudes who were so caught up in things and didn't really wind up doing anything with women for one reason or another. They pretty much got into porn and kept that under the hood.
It's weird. I keep getting asked to have chats with them by their own mothers or aunties and it's just something I'm not sure how to approach properly.