Why introducing kids to sex concepts too young is a bad idea?

[skykiii]

Wondering about thoughts and experiences on this. Lately a lot of people seem to think its okay to expose kids as young as five to sex or sex-related concepts, because "it won't hurt them" or "they're gonna learn about it soon."

My own thinking is it'll mess the kid up, because the minute sex enters your life, it basically dominates everything and you're never able to go back to that period of fun and innocence ever again. Michael Jackson IIRC remarked that he was exposed to sexual content at a young age and then spent his entire adult life trying to have the childhood he never got (and this also helped lead to a lot of the actions that led to him being considered a freak). I've also been told that in Japan a lot of kids are scarily hyper-sexual in ways that would be horrifying to us in America.

But I'm wondering if anyone else has their own info?

Thanks in advance.

 

[C. G. B. Spender]

There's a reason why LGBTwhatever+ people target kids not the elderly with their tranny story hours and shit. Kids at a certain age are very much confused and looking for their own identity making it a very bad idea to expose them to some pdf files who are obsessed with their own sexual identity and politics related to that.

Side of normal straight people is marketed as gray and boring, while the other side is marketed as covered in rainbows and freedom etc. Which one will that confused kid choose? Or kids overall when they market sexuality like that? There's also the societal pressure and culture of fear where you will get utterly fucked for speaking your mind, if your opinion is different than mainstream.

Went into rant mode there for a little bit but yeah maybe you get my point.

 

[skykiii]

Went into rant mode there for a little bit but yeah maybe you get my point.

The rant was entertaining reading, but what I'm looking for is stories or info about how introducing kids to sex too early screws them up.

Not just the standard "genital mutilation" stuff specific to trans shit--I mean even just exposing a kid to porn too early or even explaining sex too early could be a bad thing.

 

[⋖ cørdion ⋗]

Granted I know fuck-all about parenting, I always imagined it's the kind of concepts you get to explain to your kid in private when they ask, and maybe prodding it along, you can get ahead of it appearing in school. Unless of course you're American and your teacher is a bald tranny.

 

[Kim]

It isn't about if they're introduced to sex, it's about how imo. There's a world of difference between a creepy older adult talking to a kid about sex and a kid in 1800 seeing animals fuck on their parents farm.

Michael Jackson IIRC remarked that he was exposed to sexual content at a young age

Content? No one can convince me that Jackson wasn't outright diddled.

 

[Agarathium1066]

I was really considering replying to this with just 'Just read anything in Stinkditch' as it is a real answer to the question.

Exposing a child to the truths of life like reproduction or sex isn't really a bad thing at the right age. I doubt they'd properly grasp it if you do it too early. That's quite different from just outright tossing a pile of porn at the child and sexuality topics at them and saying 'Good luck'.

A child knowing Mommy and Daddy make the baby is a pretty wide chasm compared to going into detail telling a child why Mommy has the big horse dildo too.

Time has proven that many bad actors will put these things to use to mess with the minds of the young. Groomers of all forms have done so and continue to do so. Some thinking they're 'being wise', some just wanting more prey, some just following what they think is the norm so they don't get kicked out of the tribe.

Many have come forward speaking of their experiences of being groomed. How the pressures, experiences, and all of it changed their way of thinking. In some ways duped them into acting or thinking in the way the predator wanted. The long term repercussions are still coming in and we won't know the full extent until these victims have had time to potentially mature and learn. Or just die.

 

[POWER IN MISERY]

Content? No one can convince me that Jackson wasn't outright diddled.

now that we know what they were doing to JB at those freakoff parties it's a 200% for sure fact jacko was sexually abused by everyone, every step of the way

 

[C. G. B. Spender]

The rant was entertaining reading, but what I'm looking for is stories or info about how introducing kids to sex too early screws them up.

Not just the standard "genital mutilation" stuff specific to trans shit--I mean even just exposing a kid to porn too early or even explaining sex too early could be a bad thing.

I dont have any specific examples but im sure there's plenty of threads about people who got exposed to it way too young. Sadly its really common especially these days.

 

[eDove]

I dont have any specific examples but im sure there's plenty of threads about people who got exposed to it way too young. Sadly its really common especially these days.

I was one of those kids. What I'll say is that it's given me sexual issues for life. My attraction wasn't learned or naturally evolved as I aged, it was dictated by environmental influences, and I'll never be able to undo that. Major powerleveling ahead, but I think it's important to talk about.

By the time I could walk, I was routinely exposed to erotic/pornographic imagery thanks to older relatives who merely saw it as "art." This includes the famous Marilyn Monroe Playboy photo. These things were on full display on the walls and other parts of the house I jointly grew up in. My grandmother made the art excuse whenever I asked about them because even then, I knew something was wrong about it. Most classical nude artwork is not meant to be arousing — these pieces were definitely made with that intent.

I was only four or so and I was already hyperfixated on the female body. I had my first sexual encounters with other girls before the age of ten. I discovered porn shortly thereafter which turned into an addiction. My childhood and teenagehood was consumed in habitual porn usage and 99% of the time it was lesbian porn.

Despite the now obvious roots, I didn't realize why I was like this 'til I walked through that old house again as an adult. I was inundated with those same highly sexualized paintings/photos of women and it filled me with rage.

Like @skykiii said, your growth is stunted once you lose your innocence. Milestones are missed because the pursuit of sex overrides all others. This isn't even going into how kids are more likely to become sex abusers and rapists if they're introduced too young. Lots of pedophiles have a mindset of, "I enjoyed it when I was nine, so this nine-year-old will enjoy it too." That sort of aberration can be prevented by letting our kids be kids, protecting them from adult situations and the predators all around us. With the advent of easily-accessible porn, is it all surprising that we have legions of Discord groomers who're in their early twenties? They aren't always perverted old men, they're getting younger and younger. I believe whole-heartedly that the gender confusion and orientation shit is just as much a symptom of porn affecting our kids.

 

[PovertySprocket]

In some provinces of Canada, teaching 6-8yo about the male/female anatomy and why Timmy has two moms is now part of the curriculum.

My niece is a shitstarter, she revels in pushing peoples buttons. It didn't go over her head that the "sensitive nature" of the subject can be exploited for her entertainment.

 

[Otterly]

Even just a few years ago exposing kids to sex was rightly seen as active abuse.
Things like sex education should be age appropriate and for small kids that’s a very limited conversation that names body parts basically, tells them that people shouldn’t touch them or hurt them and tell a trusted adult. A little older the very basics, mechanically of reproduction, babies grow in a womb, that’s about it. Girls should understand what periods are before they start them. The basics of puberty should be covered (the biological side) before it happens
What’s corrupted all that is this idea that we have gone from explaining what reproduction and health is to how to do sex and that is completely inappropriate for minors. Children should not be being taught about sexuality, or how to type stuff at all. The whole gender stuff is inappropriate. Gay stuff is inappropriate. It’s too young and it’s abusive. It confuses and disgusts them and it is a wedge for abusive and creepy adults to get close to children and groom them.

 

[Brenda Holiday]

Somehow we have tricked parents into thinking when their kid asks how babies are made they have to explain what a blowjob is. What fucking insanity. When I asked that question, my mom grabbed a textbook which explained what happens when sperm meets egg, the fetus, how it grows, etc
Did I understand it? Not really. I was like 6. But it answered my question. The only reference to sex in the book was an extremely sterile depiction of a man and woman in missionary, which even that textbook illustration of sex stuck in my mind forever. But again, that wasn't what I cared about, I wanted to know how babies were made. Not the social aspect of sex.

 

[Kim]

Somehow we have tricked parents into thinking when their kid asks how babies are made they have to explain what a blowjob is. What fucking insanity. When I asked that question, my mom grabbed a textbook which explained what happens when sperm meets egg, the fetus, how it grows, etc
Did I understand it? Not really. I was like 6. But it answered my question. The only reference to sex in the book was an extremely sterile depiction of a man and woman in missionary, which even that textbook illustration of sex stuck in my mind forever. But again, that wasn't what I cared about, I wanted to know how babies were made. Not the social aspect of sex.

I remember the days when everyone's first introduction to "How Is Babby Formed?" was hatching baby chicks in grade 2. They explained everything at a basic, kid friendly level and over the next few weeks the class would candle the eggs and learn about stages of development.

It was also a gentle introduction to how sometimes "things just don't work out". I think it's really sad they no longer do this in the local schools.

 

[ferrari superamerica]

As a regular reader of birdie thread, I think every (then) teenage girl, from birdie to synnibear themselves and then their victims, like dragy, cinna and eno would have been better off had they got fucked really good by their classmates instead of jilling off to brony fnf self harm rape gore. You can't force teens to not be sexual, so instead of dating on discord they should date their peers in real life.
Just get the guy to wear the condom and don't do any beating up, knife or human waste kinks.
For preteens they should know their private parts and why no one should touch them and that they shouldn't touch of other people also.
And finally, teach them about COCSA, since my heart shatters when I hear someone's life being ruined because of COCSA, and that taking nudes and sex tapes of themselves and of other kids is called CSAM and that it's very bad and could get them arrested.

I think baby gronk, a 12 year old gigachad, will need to put in line other 12 year old art hoes before they seek people older (or even worse, younger) than then on discord for their sexual desires.
tl;dr: it's better for a 13 year old girl to fuck a real 13 year old boy (with condom) than e fuck a 30 year old who larps as a 13 year old on discord.

 

[Sean Andalou]

Back a helluva long time ago when sex education in the public schools was first mooted, the idea being sold was teaching older pre-teens so they'd avoid unwanted pregnancy and VD. And opposition to it was not just from religious types.

It really was taught that way for a long while, but clearly that didn't work.

What's going on now is way beyond the wildest nightmare of the people who opposed sex education back then.

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

Only LGBT want to do that, back when I was a kid it was something we were rightly kept away from completely. Parents might have no choice but to have talks much earlier now to beat the perverts to the punch who intend to plant degenerate seeds in their minds if they can't do private/home schooling, which is really unfortunate.

I don't know how it is in Japan, but seeing as they only relatively recently banned porn featuring them that might be true. But since the japs are going extinct from not fucking it seems unlikely anybody's hypersexual over there these days.

 

[rel=alternate]

There is nothing wrong in itself with introducing kids to age appropriate sex concepts.

You don't masturbate in public, you don't let people touch you or see you naked for instance are pretty early introduction where you don't even need to make it about sex.

You don't need to explain how sodomy works to educate kids about sexual concepts.

And you certainly don't need a teacher to do this for your kids. Especially not when their mind is rotten with a bunch of trendy concepts.

Sexual education has nothing to do with exposing people to sex. It has nothing to do with explaining gender bullshit either. It's just teaching age appropriate things, because you don't want your kids to be ignorant retards being told by someone else, and you want them to have a healthy life.

Even when they get older and it gets to be the time to talk about porn. Because they will encounter it whether you like it or not, it's necessary. But you're not supposed to expose them to it. Explain that this is just about as real as Santa, it's people playing a role for money.

There is a significant difference between accepting that sexual education is needed and accepting that some random can tell your son he might be a girl, and that's ok. "Now come and put the condom on the banana".

 

[isalaide]

tl;dr: it's better for a 13 year old girl to fuck a real 13 year old boy (with condom) than e fuck a 30 year old who larps as a 13 year old on discord.

nigger what

 

[Werard Gay]

Spoiler: extremely cursed NSFL TMI power level

I was obsessed with horror as a kid, and creepypastas were just becoming a thing, so I spent my first private hours on the internet reading horror stories. I grew up in a Catholic household and my mom didn't like me reading "demonic" material, so I wasn't allowed to watch horror movies and had to read horror stories late at night in secret in the family computer room. I never, ever received any kind of "sex talk" at home.

As a result, the very first exposure I had to sex as a concept was at the tender age of 11, through this HTML-only website I clicked on when looking for horror stories called "BOILED ALIVE!", featuring several fun pixel gifs of flames and people cooking a big cauldron over a fire. It turned out to be a gore fetish website about cooking and eating people, filled with stories, illustrations, and Photoshop jobs to the effect. It was the first sexual material I ever came across on the web, and it did something wrong and fucked to my brain. I was so intrigued at this visceral thing, read it all, and looked for more, moving on to stuff like the Necrobabes gore porn stories where people describe literal painful dismemberment and organ removal hand in hand with sex acts. I had barely started puberty and had never even spoken with my friends at (my rural Catholic) school about sex. I had never seen normal porn. I had never seen a penis or a diagram of a penis in my life (I'm a woman).

Obviously this made me extremely troubled sexually for my entire life and basically gave me extreme paraphilias surrounding gore and violence. I've been in therapy for it since I was 18, but it has essentially not worked, and I have been battling an addiction to this stuff my entire life. I have gotten involved with violent, unstable, dangerous men because of my inability to kick this early childhood sexual desire to be killed/maimed/eaten/etc, and as a result I have been raped multiple times in my life, and I'm in my early-mid 20s. It's this ridiculous neural drug urge that overpowers my higher thinking and has fucked up my sex life irreparably.

Childhood sexual exposure is dangerous and powerful. It has to be done so, so, so carefully. It should be done in neutral terms with a parent who tells you about the importance, emotional significance, and danger of it all. I was never, ever warned about the danger of extreme sexual material until it was too late.

 

[SSj_Ness (Yiffed)]

nigger what

I mean, between those two options he's probably right, but it's a false dilemma, neither needs to happen.