Part 1
Cyclical Patterns of Sexual Degeneracy, Then and Now
We have to begin with the core nature of common homosexual relationships: Hypersexuality.
The hypersexuality of homosexuals has its roots in the underground scene from the sixties (?) onwards with fetish clubs, leather clubs, and bathhouses being the primary places gay men would secretly get together out of the public eye to intermingle.
This isn't taking into account the introduction of AIDS, but a lot of criticism for the 'fuck freely' lifestyle after AIDS became a thing was shut down. Many saw their friends and loved ones die around them because of the stubborn insistence to fuck like monkeys while they get the chance away from their beards and families.
A lot of these times, the men in these communities were once teenagers who had been sexually abused, questioning, doing normal teenager shit and being unsure about themselves, or were part of an extremely strict household. Maybe they even just found porn and had questions they shouldn't have.
More about that porn thing later.
It all truly began with the actual culprit of why the things are the way they are now (in my opinion): Abandonment by the family unit and the forced social adaptation to make one's own circles for support.
'Found family.' If you're familiar. THIS is when this mindset and behavior was truly allowed to happen. Behind-closed-doors where guys find adoption with people already familiar with the system that's been established.
Picture this: Unwell, vulnerable, and panicking young men who need a place to live and try to figure out what's wrong with them and why they are the way they are. And all you have are men who swear they have been through similar experiences and can be there for you, and they've figured out how to make that hurt go away (drugs and alcohol,) the loneliness go away (sex,) and that guilt go away (comfort where there was none.)
Hypersexuality and paraphilias were the direct result of this. An enclosed, unsupervised, and welcoming environment that was more or less YOUR family. They were all you had, and why would you want to ruin that for yourself? You already lost one and if you get caught, could lose the one you live in as an unfaithful closet-case.
Now, follow along here. What would happen as the hurt, loneliness, and guilt were removed from the equation but the systems that were put in place were still allowed to exist and continue their shtick?
Part 2
Normalization and Romantical Decay
These days, things have gotten worse and much more open. Things are different. There is no discretion, the caution has been slowly eroded, and any amount of normalcy or innocence has been tossed to the wayside as practices like paraphilias become increasingly celebrated, inclusive, and able to recruit and convince more to try them out without criticism and social punishment. (Thanks, internet, thanks, porn sites.)
These days, kids aren't exactly kicked out of homes anymore for being gay, especially when the 2000s began to roll around I imagine. That's when the push to make gay men more accepted and acknowledged in the public eye really began to ramp up and beat itself over the heads of everyone. That they just want to find love with one another, marry, etc.
But there's one problem, as I'm sure you can guess.
These circles never actually promoted these values as they were advertised, and instead let kink and fetish become a core part of the gay identity if you were part of the label and community. You were probably led to grab onto all sorts of weird shit to add to your anal porking portfolio because that is now just part of the process. It's part of the found family experience, tradition. Baked into the culture itself even though it's not said or acknowledged even by most gay men themselves. They probably don't even realize it, it's NORMAL to them.
The actual gay 'romance' you will find is probably a sliver compared to the primary goal. The goal with lots of free sexual practices and the problems that come with that. Finding love as you would expect between a trusting, intimate, and trusting couple is very VERY VERY rare without some kind of 'buuuuut' or side-thing that should get you a side-eye.
If you make assume a gay person who has a boyfriend also has 10 side-pieces he's allowed to fuck, you'd be right! It's an open joke and open secret that only gay men can make open relationships work, because they've been doing it for decades and have disconnected themselves to the feeling of PURE intimacy and care.
Only a VERY few amount of gay men actually marry one another, because they aren't out to get married.
This is just how things ARE. No one questions it, and the mentality of not trying to hurt or offend your found family still applies. Glass houses and stones, etc. The philosophy has carried over despite the lives of gay men being more accepted than ever in the open, mostly due to ignorance to gay history.
Now that you understand the lack of self-policing, the eternal cycle of associating fetishes and pleasure with love, and mentally unwell roots of the homosexual man, put yourself into this mindset.
"Is having a weird fetish so wrong? We're already weird as is." Then remove the self-awareness. This leads us to...
Part 3
FDA Approved Monkey Pox Piss Orgies
Starting in the shadows of the shadows, the lackadaisical attitude towards condoms, chastity, and restraint are what truly led to the AIDS epidemic of the 80s.
Despite people genuinely wasting away in their beds, sobbing because their lives have been ended via behaviors that to them were normal, gay men have learned NOTHING from 1981 and onwards.
No amount of fear, warning, or their loved ones dying would stop faggots from fucking one another up the butt without protection. So much so that SUGGESTING safe sex as a gay man made you the weirdo. No, really. REALLY.
This attitude continues to this day.
The reason it hasn't stopped is because it hasn't been PUNISHED.
They've been HELPED and bailed out of their own consequences for disgusting actions. And what happens when something isn't punished, curbed, or properly made taboo?
That's right. It's normalized, but not just normalized. Escalated.
Gay men ignoring all viral consequences has now become such a norm, that guides for having safe and healthy sex pig parties are released by the FDA themselves because they know no matter what, the stupid brain damaged faggots will not stop doing gross shit.
And here's how bugchasing came about. You ready? The ultimate payoff for why it all happens, with all of this in mind.
Because gay men are FREAKS and have never had a proper support network to sort through their feelings.
A huge chunk of them are statistically mentally unwell men who need actual help and guidance. Being gay is not the norm, it is not 'normal,' and the culture of being gay has been allowed to rot and turn into things FAAAAAR worse than they were in the sixties onwards. Keep the door open, and everyone is allowed in to normalize new rot.
Who's going to give them that guidance? The old heads have died out, been exiled for going against the norm, or continue the cycles they started back when their parents kicked them out for kissing their best friend in their room or some shit.
That's right, everyone. The INTERNET. With all the porn and niche forum advice someone could want for those young vulnerable feelings. Far removed from actual physical contact and intimacy until they've already been convinced the REALLY weird shit is all fine, and it's all part of the process.
Away from the prying eyes of parents, who don't even kick kids out of their homes for this to happen. Before the internet blew up, Bugchasing was kept to the physical space and not given much a platform to spread. With those abandoned guys and their fucked up friends.
After the internet? All the above factors and the age of social media and lack of social punishment has made it a dark, open, secret in the rainbow community.
Now apply that to ALL sexual fetishes. Getting worse, more vile, and more extreme as time goes on until people are frying their brains on poppers and porn, their stomachs with intestinal parasites, and their skin with monkeypox. Oh, and their anuses from incontinence. They don't care though, they probably aren't aware and don't think about it.
That's just how it is.
That's where we are right now with the gay community.