How to deal with a IRL creeper?

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I'm a long-time lurker, finally got the courage to join this community and figured I'd post on here for advice. Forgive me if this isn't the appropriate place to post.
Without power-leveling too much, I am heading into my last year of college. I live at my college's dorms and there's this guy (basically a "send vagene bob" lookalike) who lives in the same building as I do. Perhaps by coincidence or whatever, I would see this guy almost everywhere I go on campus. He would lock on eye contact with me and even when I looked away and looked back, he'd still stare at me. (I started seeing him less once school admins spoke to him though). Then, when I'm not aware of my surroundings, he'll come up and brush up against me. WTF. And simply his presence alone makes me uncomfortable. I've made it clear that I'm not interested in the guy and would do the obvious by walking away and not engaging with him, but the guy still does the staring and brushes up on me whenever passing by.

After school admins finished speaking to him, they told me that:
  1. The guy denied everything and anything about having malicious intentions with me
  2. They don't believe that this is a serious case and don't see anything wrong with the guy's actions
Most recently, I called my college's police department (for the third time), and the officer I spoke with, tried arguing with me and said that the guy did nothing wrong, and refused to make a report log.
tldr; guy makes me uncomfortable and tried reporting it to school admin but they won't do anything about it.

I feel like I'm at a loss with dealing with school admin. What should I do?
 
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Get a weapon, if it's not possible to get a gun in your state get some strong mace, pajeets have some natural resistance to capscacian so get the strong stuff. If you can, record everything when you are around him. Start working on your cardio, learn how to run and run fast.

Good luck, don't let him attack you and if you don't think this school is worth all that effort it's not worth potentially being raped by a street shitter. Just leave the school.
 
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He may be a creeper, and you should get some self-defense options just in case (like a spray and such).

However, the only wrongdoing here is him brushing against you, which depending on where you live, it could be assault or battery (I am reaching with this, though) if done intentionally.

There's several things you can do: you may go with friends around if possible so that they witness this, and specially if it happens several times; if you can somehow get it on camera, that would be definitive but we don't expect you to carry a camera on campus.

In any case, if you can prove somehow that this incident happened multiple times, you can argue that it's some form of assault and not a coincidental bumping, and that is a wrongdoing.

You may also take the route of damaging his "status", although I generally hate this approach. That would be by making a scandal, specially if he does this in a crowded place, and shout him to leave you alone, you creep, and to stop touching you. You then may tell this to anyone like you've told us, and not just admins/police, but all your friends. And of course, immediately every time it happens, to the admins again; if you go late to class or something, you may also tell the teacher that was the reason, so everyone.

But it's better if first you can get friends to witness it, before making a scandal.
 
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Well dealing with creepers is tricky business. You'd want a long weapon such as a pike or ranged weapon so you dont step within their detonation radius.

If going with a gun youd probably want some kind of rifle so you can stand way back when that sunuva bitch goes off since their veins are full of gunpowder.
 
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I would absolutly let everyone you're close to on campus and other IRL friends that you're in this situation, though unfortunatly that can backfire especially if you post anything on social media like "Hey, this weirdo won't leave me alone and I'm scared"

I was in a stalking situation back in college, specifically it was someone who had given me trouble on and off since high school, and made the mistake of being to public about it. Guy found the post (I should mention I didn't even name him in the post) and went crying to the administration that I was bullying him. Thay actually took his side and I lost an on-campus job and nearly lost my position in student government.

What DID happen is that my college friends all saw what went down and they refused to have anything to do with him, many had on-campus jobs in various student services so he got stonewalled out of those. I had a friend (who was a KF lurker!) who served as an informant on what the guy was up to. I had friends crawling out of the woodwork offering me help, since even though I never said the guy's name in the post they ALL knew who the fuck it was. I kind of suspect he got a beatdown from someone since I haven't had issues with him since.

I don't wanna discourage you from speaking up or taking action because that's 100% the right thing to do, but just be aware that being a creeper and a giant crybaby gigafaggot sometimes go hand in hand.
 
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It's ok to feel intimidated by this kind of behavior and assume the worst. I don't think the guy has the courage to do anything serious.

If he's a pajeet he's too pussy to do anything, so you're safe.

Or he might be just a retard autist trying to get your attention. He might lose interest if you get a boyfriend, or he might pus out and get out of your sight if you walk along a male friend.

Don't carry pepper spray or anything because spraying him without 'proper' escalation is assault and can land you in A LOT of trouble. Brushing against you while maintaining eye contact might seem intimidating to you, but it might sound schizo to cops or campus admins (especially if you called them before).

That's the most reasonable advice you'll get here.
 
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Like others have said, make sure as many people you know are aware of the guy, especially ones that may know him. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt, assume the worst, especially since he is Indian, it's better safe than sorry.

A stiletto knife would probably work well for you if you need to defend yourself and it's only illegal in 16 states. It's easily concealable and has the element of surprise. A sudden quick thrust into the throat or gut will probably put him out of commission, or scare him enough to back off. Make sure you are legally in the right or can make it look like it was legally defensible. When the cops come tell them it was self defense and don't talk to them until your lawyer is present.

Just having a knife on you will probably make you feel a lot safer. I usually carry a normal 5 inch camping knife since my pockets are big enough that it's not noticeable. Giving the knife a name also helps to remember to grab it before you go out.
 
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Op all the colleges I went to offered campus police escorts that could pick you up and drop you off other places. Only other advice is to make lots of friends and don't travel alone. Ideally find a suitor who would be happy to escort you as often as possible.

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