How to deal with a IRL creeper?

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I'm a long-time lurker, finally got the courage to join this community and figured I'd post on here for advice. Forgive me if this isn't the appropriate place to post.

Spoiler: Sperg

Without power-leveling too much, I am heading into my last year of college. I live at my college's dorms and there's this guy (basically a "send vagene bob" lookalike) who lives in the same building as I do. Perhaps by coincidence or whatever, I would see this guy almost everywhere I go on campus. He would lock on eye contact with me and even when I looked away and looked back, he'd still stare at me. (I started seeing him less once school admins spoke to him though). Then, when I'm not aware of my surroundings, he'll come up and brush up against me. WTF. And simply his presence alone makes me uncomfortable. I've made it clear that I'm not interested in the guy and would do the obvious by walking away and not engaging with him, but the guy still does the staring and brushes up on me whenever passing by.

After school admins finished speaking to him, they told me that:

1. The guy denied everything and anything about having malicious intentions with me
2. They don't believe that this is a serious case and don't see anything wrong with the guy's actions

Most recently, I called my college's police department (for the third time), and the officer I spoke with, tried arguing with me and said that the guy did nothing wrong, and refused to make a report log.

tldr; guy makes me uncomfortable and tried reporting it to school admin but they won't do anything about it.

I feel like I'm at a loss with dealing with school admin. What should I do?

 

[NOT Sword Fighter Super]

Bad smells are to Indians as ceiling birds are too black people.

For real, I have to occasionally go to this somewhat ghetto area for work and for at least six+ months one of these houses has a chirp alert still going.

I just don't get it.

 

[Party Hat Wurmple]

tldr; guy makes me uncomfortable and tried reporting it to school admin but they won't do anything about it.

You're going to have to vagina up and learn to live with the staring. You can't control where other people's eyeballs go and punishing someone for staring at you in public is schizo tier behavior. No matter how much you complain or cry, nobody gives a rats anus if him staring at you makes you uncomfortable. Your discomfort in him doing it probably makes him want to stare at you more, just to piss you off. Get over it. You'll never be able to stop it.

Now as far as him brushing up against you goes? It sounds like you've already tried being a Cunt-a-saurus rex about it to him, but do what women do best: Make A Scene. Make a scene of it in public, humiliate the ever loving shit out of him and make everyone stare at him. Regardless of how much the world has changed, people aren't going to look at some random girl screaming at a guy to stop touching her with any mercy for the guy. Don't stop doing this till he leaves you alone. Make sure he gets the reputation as the campus creep. Complain to all of your friends and don't stop ever being vocal about how you don't want him near you. If you can't legally fuck him up, you can always socially fuck him up.

 

[Anus Lemonade]

To reiterate what some folks have said, I advise carrying a firearm. If that can't be done, try weapons that are that are non-lethal. The Byrna launcher, I hear, is pretty effective though it might be a little expensive. You'd be surprised how much more confident you are when you have more control of your safety.

There is nothing you can do about his staring other than letting him know how you feel about it. Of course you could make a scene and humiliate him, but he might be one of those weirdos who gets off on that shit. He already seems like a big weirdo based on what you are saying.

Tl;Dr: Have the tools to protect yourself in case he makes a move. For everything else, waive your meekness and let him know that you dislike his rudeness.

 

[dick brain]

To reiterate what some folks have said, I advise carrying a firearm.

Firearms are not allowed on college campuses (campi?) because college is extraordinarily gay and everyone working at or attending one is so insulated from real world problems that they can't fathom the use case of a firearm for person protection. OP is going to have to learn to train rats to maul and carry them around in her pockets.

 

[We Are The Witches]

Firearms are not allowed on college campuses (campi?) because college is extraordinarily gay and everyone working at or attending one is so insulated from real world problems that they can't fathom the use case of a firearm for person protection. OP is going to have to learn to train rats to maul and carry them around in her pockets.

It's obvious why students cannot have guns on college.

Maybe you should take a peek at the "post videos of people dying" to have an understanding why that's a bad idea.

 

[Poppavalyim Andropoff]

It's obvious why students cannot have guns on college.

clock towers?

 

[macrodegenerate]

Firearms are not allowed on college campuses (campi?) because college is extraordinarily gay and everyone working at or attending one is so insulated from real world problems that they can't fathom the use case of a firearm for person protection. OP is going to have to learn to train rats to maul and carry them around in her pockets.

The main reason is because most people have no concept of backstop tracking.
Sure the dorms and buildings are generally made out of concrete, but the populated wide open spaces on campuses aren't. So if OP redeems the Jeet with hollow points and misses a shot doing so, they've probably hit some other guy a couple meters away.

The same goes for hospitals. Modern ones have no cover between rooms.

For people in a self defense situation, It's understanable the threat is immediately in front of them, and you eliminate the threat.

 

[pizzawithme420]

if he has a pet, or smaller sibling, kidnap it and blackmail him into changing schools

 

[dick brain]

The main reason is because most people have no concept of backstop tracking.
Sure the dorms and buildings are generally made out of concrete, but the populated wide open spaces on campuses aren't. So if OP redeems the Jeet with hollow points and misses a shot doing so, they've probably hit some other guy a couple meters away.

The same goes for hospitals. Modern ones have no cover between rooms.

For people in a self defense situation, It's understanable the threat is immediately in front of them, and you eliminate the threat.

So make it part of the curriculum.

 

[Alex Hogendorp]

Implement border control to keep them out of the country.

And implement this sign on any border wall.

 

[Xev]

Stalk him in return. Breeze up on him when he's unaware and body check him while maintaining eye contact. This will establish dominance.

 

[The Backwards Man]

If u get a skeleton to shoot him he drops a music disc

 

[Grub]

There was this girl I went to school with and worked together with for a little while who ended up with her own creepy pajeet stalker. It was a dude we worked with but was in a different program at the school. He was accounting or some shit like that. He found out she was religious and wouldn't stop hounding her about evolution and shit like that. He'd try and follow her around for her entire shift and she'd take breaks in a locked computer room that was only available to students in the program we were in to get away from him.

When my classmate wasn't working but I was, the dude would ask me about her and shit like that. My friend was a fairly tough farm girl who was considering a career in law enforcement related activities at the time so she basically ended up telling the dude fairly directly that there would be consequences if he didn't fuck off and never approach her and speak to her again and she ended up having to talk to our boss and arrange it so they wouldn't be on shift together.

Pajeets are densely retarded and persistent but cowardly. Standing up to pajeets, threatening them and telling them to fuck off has worked in every confrontation I've had with them, no matter how much they huff and puff and bluster back, even when I've been outnumbered.

 

[rel=alternate]

I think you may have unironically made the wrong decision by pursuing this aggressively after seeing no results. Because it makes you a prime suspect if something happens to him.

I would just surround myself with friends, alert them of the issue, or alert my own family of the issue. Just stay away, let someone beat the creep black and blue.

If this happened to a sibling of mine, I don't think there would much issue gathering family to make it stop if police refuses to do so. Similarly, if it happened to a friend of mine, it would have probably stopped happening pretty soon too.

Best of luck to you. Get the little creep beat up over and over again, intimated every time you feel uncomfortable etc...

 

[Habbiegedah]

Is he still starring after administration talked to him? Regardless, all he has done is made you uncomfortable and that's not a crime. Regardless if things do escalate -- which I hope they won't, he seems like an oblivious/retard type more than reactive or scheming -- I honestly doubt your school will do anything. Personally confronting him probably won't do shit, i think your only options are to deal with it or move to a different building over the holiday break. Hope that if you have new classes your paths don't cross so much

Spoiler: speaking from experience

a friend of mine has been in multiple title IX lawsuits during her time as a student worker. What I can relate the most was where this pajeet graduate student would, multiple times a day, harass his female coworkers, try to ask them out, etc. Her boss didn't suspend or fire him for months after complaints were initially filed. After he was suspended he would still stalk her on the job and try and ask her out. Nothing happened from the school's end. I don't even know if she got a settlement. This is a very liberal and wealthy public school. As long as things aren't physical, your school won't do shit

 

[Talibama]

This is probably not good advice but in my twenties I was fond of “I already said no three times. Next time I’m going to say no with a beer bottle upside your head.”

it works. I mean. They do it again. and they get a bottle. but they neeeeeever touch you again.

course now I’m old and I’d probably pay some gross pervy fucker to touch me again.

 

[stares at error messages]

Wear a button that says "Smile you're on TV" with a hidden camera in it. Document everything that happens. Then try to get a restraining order or scream that you're being attacked when he gets too close or pushy and then scream that you are defending your self and shoot him. After he's dead you can use the video tape from the camera button to support your version of events. (this is not legal advice)

 

[Frederica Bernkastel]

Record the guy and make him famous on social media

 

[Sean Shemmy]

Like others have said, make sure as many people you know are aware of the guy, especially ones that may know him. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt, assume the worst, especially since he is Indian, it's better safe than sorry.

A stiletto knife would probably work well for you if you need to defend yourself and it's only illegal in 16 states. It's easily concealable and has the element of surprise. A sudden quick thrust into the throat or gut will probably put him out of commission, or scare him enough to back off. Make sure you are legally in the right or can make it look like it was legally defensible. When the cops come tell them it was self defense and don't talk to them until your lawyer is present.

Just having a knife on you will probably make you feel a lot safer. I usually carry a normal 5 inch camping knife since my pockets are big enough that it's not noticeable. Giving the knife a name also helps to remember to grab it before you go out.

I don't think you'd have to kill him, just showing him it would probably scare him off.

 

[analrapist]

The ability to do so varies wildly on jurisdiction, but if you can get a restraining order, that either ends it or jails Pajeet. Win-win, IMO.

He's on track to help you qualify!