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One thing I've been starting to see slowly creep into discourse online is porn and the detrimental effects it has on society as a whole, especially when it comes to young men. However, despite the emergence of said discourse in recent years it has done almost seemingly little to nothing to blunt the usage and expansion of online pornography.
Most recent statistics claim that 9-11% of men are addicted to porn. I find this extremely hard to believe considering a lot of these "studies" just ask "Are you addicted to porn?" which is just asking for people to either outright lie, or downplay their usage. When has asking an addict "are you addicted?" ever worked?
It doesn't help that most of these "studies" are before the covid pandemic when people were shut in, and the prominent rise of OF. Now admittedly I'm pulling this number out of my ass, but if I were to take a guess it would probably at least be close to 20% or even 25%, especially among Gen Z. Maybe porn addiction is far lower in Boomers and Gen X, which is why it goes to the 11% figure. I'm not even exactly sure what the hell they're even counting as addiction. Is it watching it every day once, watching it for 5 hours every day, or just watching it 3 times a week? Personally, if someone smokes crack 3 days a week I would consider them a crack addict.
For those of you that hit puberty in the years before the internet, or during its infancy before it became commonplace among every household just imagine being 13 and instead of stumbling upon dads spicy magazine, you had a tool where you could look up "Im stuck stepbro!" or "tiny Asian slammed anally while being folded like a pretzel by 3 guys" every single day. I mean for fuck sake we have instances of men in their mid-20s being unable to get it up in front of their naked girlfriends because they jack off too much, something pretty much unheard of 30 years ago. When I first heard of this I thought someone was just trolling, but no "porn-induced ED" is a real thing.
I don't even want to think about the potential effects this will have on Gen Alpha. At least the oldest Gen Z grew up in a time when the internet was still growing, and smartphones weren't everywhere until they were teens. Gen Alpha will be having Big Tiddy Latinas on their screen on day 1, and parents give their kids smartphones like candy without even taking basic precautions to monitor their use.
Are there any solutions to this? Banning porn just doesn't seem feasible without going full Islam draconian on it, and I doubt that has popular support in the West. It would also drive it underground while making the material far worse and put it alongside CP. The coomers would do anything to get their fix, and booting up Tor Browser isn't the hardest thing in the world.
Now the oh-so-competent government will spend resources on cracking down on consensual porn between two adults (or now just straight-up sex slave porn since laws don't matter to a black market) which may take away resources from catching truly evil shit like CP, or just bloat the government even more which neither is a good option. You could convince me banning porn is the solution if you could prove there would just be "growing pains" and it would filter itself out after a couple of generations, but I fear the internet let a terrible genie out of the bottle.
We could scream from the high heavens about how bad it is, but EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME people do you immediately see coomer hands type on a keyboard "Ummmm it's a perfectly natural thing to do. Why are you just purity guilt-tripping yourself? Its fine to jack it brooo" A sexually frustrated 14-year-old is going to be like "Whew glad someone said it! maybe those other guys are just overreacting! I mean a lot of people say it's fine so here I go!"
Oh and while I'm sure you know this is mostly about men. While porn usage is growing amongst young women, its not really at levels to raise eyebrows at yet. We have to worry more about young women going into porn than consuming it.
Am I overreacting? It feels like I'm slowly going insane when I think about this topic.
Most recent statistics claim that 9-11% of men are addicted to porn. I find this extremely hard to believe considering a lot of these "studies" just ask "Are you addicted to porn?" which is just asking for people to either outright lie, or downplay their usage. When has asking an addict "are you addicted?" ever worked?
It doesn't help that most of these "studies" are before the covid pandemic when people were shut in, and the prominent rise of OF. Now admittedly I'm pulling this number out of my ass, but if I were to take a guess it would probably at least be close to 20% or even 25%, especially among Gen Z. Maybe porn addiction is far lower in Boomers and Gen X, which is why it goes to the 11% figure. I'm not even exactly sure what the hell they're even counting as addiction. Is it watching it every day once, watching it for 5 hours every day, or just watching it 3 times a week? Personally, if someone smokes crack 3 days a week I would consider them a crack addict.
For those of you that hit puberty in the years before the internet, or during its infancy before it became commonplace among every household just imagine being 13 and instead of stumbling upon dads spicy magazine, you had a tool where you could look up "Im stuck stepbro!" or "tiny Asian slammed anally while being folded like a pretzel by 3 guys" every single day. I mean for fuck sake we have instances of men in their mid-20s being unable to get it up in front of their naked girlfriends because they jack off too much, something pretty much unheard of 30 years ago. When I first heard of this I thought someone was just trolling, but no "porn-induced ED" is a real thing.
I don't even want to think about the potential effects this will have on Gen Alpha. At least the oldest Gen Z grew up in a time when the internet was still growing, and smartphones weren't everywhere until they were teens. Gen Alpha will be having Big Tiddy Latinas on their screen on day 1, and parents give their kids smartphones like candy without even taking basic precautions to monitor their use.
Are there any solutions to this? Banning porn just doesn't seem feasible without going full Islam draconian on it, and I doubt that has popular support in the West. It would also drive it underground while making the material far worse and put it alongside CP. The coomers would do anything to get their fix, and booting up Tor Browser isn't the hardest thing in the world.
Now the oh-so-competent government will spend resources on cracking down on consensual porn between two adults (or now just straight-up sex slave porn since laws don't matter to a black market) which may take away resources from catching truly evil shit like CP, or just bloat the government even more which neither is a good option. You could convince me banning porn is the solution if you could prove there would just be "growing pains" and it would filter itself out after a couple of generations, but I fear the internet let a terrible genie out of the bottle.
We could scream from the high heavens about how bad it is, but EVERY SINGLE FUCKING TIME people do you immediately see coomer hands type on a keyboard "Ummmm it's a perfectly natural thing to do. Why are you just purity guilt-tripping yourself? Its fine to jack it brooo" A sexually frustrated 14-year-old is going to be like "Whew glad someone said it! maybe those other guys are just overreacting! I mean a lot of people say it's fine so here I go!"
Oh and while I'm sure you know this is mostly about men. While porn usage is growing amongst young women, its not really at levels to raise eyebrows at yet. We have to worry more about young women going into porn than consuming it.
Am I overreacting? It feels like I'm slowly going insane when I think about this topic.
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