Sounds like the guy is locked into a general self-destructive cycle of court->jail->court->jail and it's going to be a hell of a task to coax him out of it. If we want to stop another potential ER event, who do we even report him to? I understand your frustrations there completely.
I think the best thing you can do is challenge your own beliefs. For example, throwing drinks on the moid with the two femoids on his arms is only going to make them love him more. He's now a poor martyr who needs to be tended to, and he will be. Educate yourself on real human psychology and stop basing your worldview on self-destruction, then try to convince him of the same.
Stop forcing yourself to be unhappy, and positive things will follow!
I get where you’re coming from, and I don’t disagree with your intentions.
But you have to understand that over 90% of incels would instantly write you off as 'a coping bluepilled cuck' or 'gaslighting femoid' the second they hear something like 'Educate yourself on real human psychology.'
The problem is, it’s extremely hard to change the beliefs of someone stuck in that mindset, and the way you’re going about it might actually reinforce their worldview and make them even more angry and resentful
On the topic of looksmax.org, it does overlap with incels.is, but being an incel isn’t a requirement to join. In fact, plenty of incels dislike the site because 'normies' and 'chads' are allowed to post and brag, which fills them with envy.
For context, both sites are run by
@afounder, aka Master/Marquis/Lamarcus Small, who’s most known for owning sanctioned-suicide.net
I’ve been on looksmax.org, but I’ve never been 'blackpilled' or identified as an incel. I joined because I think lookism is more real than most people want to admit and wanted advice on looksmaxxing.
These days, I mostly shitpost there since I’ve already learned whatever I needed to, but I’ll admit the forum does have some entertaining and occasionally insightful members, even if most are clueless tik tok teens.
As for the guy I'm talking about in this thread, he’s a unique case. He says he lost his virginity at 13 or 14 but hasn’t had sex since and is now in his 20's, which is why he identifies as an incel.
He’s different from the typical incel in that he blames his personality (He wouldn't use the word 'personality', but that is basically what he means) and what he calls his 'non-NT brain' instead of his looks.
In theory, this should be easier to fix since personality can be worked on, but his mindset is so rigid it’s basically impossible
I’ve tried to convince him to 'personalitymaxx' in different ways. I suggested going to parties and getting drunk to become more pro-social (but he refuses because he says alcohol is disgusting and drugs are bad), or watching how successful guys in clubs act and trying to copy them.
Every time, he has some excuse. He even told me something like 'girls only like 80 IQ retards who talk like they’re on amphetamines,' so I told him, 'Then take stims and copy those 80 IQ retards.' But of course, there’s always a reason he can’t or won’t do it.
Every conversation with him goes like this. He’s stuck in a victim mentality where everything is someone else’s fault; his parents, women, society, the jews, whatever. At this point, I’ve pretty much given up on him because it feels like talking to a brick wall.
At first, I thought he was just a contrarian or trolling, but no, he’s genuinely stuck in this mindset, and honestly, even for an incel, he’s mentally buck broken.
