Should I be worried about a incel I know?

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I suggested going to parties and getting drunk to become more pro-social (but he refuses because he says alcohol is disgusting and drugs are bad)
This guy is just bullshitting as self soothing:
"Sure I go to clubs and buy alcoholic drinks, but only so I can throw them at people"
"I don't care about jail / I want to go to jail" = "I'm terrified of going to jail."
If he has to brag about throwing drinks at people his assault case is similiar bullshit and he's getting a slap on the wrist for it, but at least he won't be able to get a gun afterwards. Depending on how much that trial is affecting his mood he may calm down afterwards. In any case the authorities already know about him and unless he reveals he is planning something concretely there's nothing to warn people about.
If he's lucky the court will throw psychological counseling at him and if he's dumb (he is) he'll refuse to engage with it. All you can do is to gently nudge him towards something less self-destructive and, if you spend years at it, maybe you'll help him to lightly unfuck himself. Your reward will be regular trauma dumpings.
It's not your cross to bear, but no one will stop from picking it up.
 
Your problem is as deep as his for wasting your precious time and attention on something like this.

you're so invested in helping him that you took the time to make multiple posts to explain his mess of a life.

Imagine what you could do if you focused that attention on yourself.

And then it's in your hands whether the advice is followed or discarded.
 
In theory, this should be easier to fix since personality can be worked on, but his mindset is so rigid it’s basically impossible
"I cAn fIx hIM!!!" No, no you can't. Blackpilled doomers like that need professional help, not another looksmaxxer in discord.
He even told me something like 'girls only like 80 IQ retards who talk like they’re on amphetamines,'
If he was right then he'd be getting tons of girls! Oh the irony :story:
 
Your problem is as deep as his for wasting your precious time and attention on something like this.

you're so invested in helping him that you took the time to make multiple posts to explain his mess of a life.

Imagine what you could do if you focused that attention on yourself.

And then it's in your hands whether the advice is followed or discarded.
You are writing these long posts about this guy when you dont realize the base problem is you are in these retard servers. Just leave and move on with your life.
You're completely right tbh

Imagine being such an attention seeking whore you air personal discord conversations you had with people who trusted you on the tranny harassment website.
The guy might be an insufferable prick but at least he isn't making threads about it here, kill yourself OP
Why are you defending someone who has repeatedly assaulted random people in fits of rage? This isn’t some lifelong friend. No, it’s an incel I barely know from discord for a few months.
Do you seriously think I owe loyalty to someone who’s a literal threat to others? You're acting like I stabbed a close friend in the back over something trivial like drugs, when in reality, this person is an unstable menace to society.
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Fly him to UK so he can fuck Lily Phillips and/or that other OF whore her friend, and when he has emptied his sack in their hole as No 275 he will no longer be an incel, but a whore-addicted punter, which is the next stage of his metamorphosis towards his full final form - serial killer.
 
Why are you defending someone who has repeatedly assaulted random people in fits of rage? This isn’t some lifelong friend. No, it’s an incel I barely know from discord for a few months.
Do you seriously think I owe loyalty to someone who’s a literal threat to others? You're acting like I stabbed a close friend in the back over something trivial like drugs, when in reality, this person is an unstable menace to society.
Then stop talking to him, nobody is forcing you to do so. How do you even know he is for real and not making shit up?
 
I clicked this thread thinking op was likely some dumb faggot trying to pull a PA request or or just spilling his spaghetti everywhere like so many other 2024 users this year. This is just kind of dumb. I don't even see any proof that the discord faggot did any of the shit he said. Kids these days are retarded about the internet and seem to forget that literally anyone can say literally anything, any time, regardless of the truth of those statements. Stop being a dumb faggot op just stop. Stop using discord, stop being a looksmaxing faggot, stop believing internet incel larps, stop posting retarded threads on internet forums that make you look just as retarded as the person you're posting about. Just make better choices op.
 
if being an incel is as much of a unavoidable reality to their innate being as being actually disabled is.
they should just accept it with stoicism like disabled people do. if someone looses their legs in an accident. they usually just accept it. nothing they can do about it and crying about does nothing.
according to them, a manlet dicklet nw6 brokeboy is scientifically as likely as someone without eyes to become the worlds greatest sniper, as they are to become happy and get pussy.
so just accept its a reality of your existence and focus on something else.
In reality people like Eliot roger are extreme narcists who are bitter nobody envies them
 
The word "incel" is thrown around so fucking much I'm not even sure what the definition is at this point.

My thoughts on incels from the movie that spawned 1000 memes.

Anyone so angry bitter and entitled and clearly refusing to show any sign of change or personal growth after years in the prime of their life I almost feel should be put down the same way you see an animal struck by a car slowly dying, you just might as well just go into the trunk find the tire iron and end it's suffering. I'm sure I'll be called a nazi for expressing this: If you have nothing to contribute to society and your life itself is so self described as "joyless" just kill yourself. They're not just suffering they are inflating women's egos and driving a wedge between the sexes dragging us all down. For a long time I described myself as a nihilist and did all the drugs and fucked as many random girls as possible. I'm no better looking than the average guy I spent a lot of time in the gym I guess. I didn't see my life going anywhere great I just wanted to have as much fun as possible before I died. Today I am monogamous, ambitious and most importantly happy and contributing something to society.

Men come back from war or just common daily horrible accidents missing limbs or even the ability to fuck a woman and they still get up every morning and play their part just putting in 40 hours a week. They have goals and plans they focus on instead of just giving up and blaming everyone else. I see this person as either a NEET and or waste of oxygen or its just all bullshit and they are lying about most of it and should be ignored. Misery loves company, block and move on with your life.
 
Personally, I wouldn't hang around on a place full of guys that worry about their physical appearance that much. It's probably full of literal faggots. When dudes start exchanging "beauty tips" I would say there is a fucking problem.

Since I would rather help others than let OP's discord buddy hurt someone, here are the Shroom King's 5 beauty tips for looksmaxxing:

1) Bathe regularly: This means actually using soap and shampoo and lathering up your whole body instead of just standing under the shower head while you piss down the drain. Don't forget to wash your feet.
2) Brush your teeth: You need to floss too.
3) Jewelry: No earrings, nose rings, eyebrow piercings, lip rings. Don't look like a Hot Topic burnout.
4) Shave regularly: There is a difference between "growing a beard" and "not shaving."
5) Fashion: Dress for the occasion. I remember seeing online a story about a Juggalo couple that held a funeral for their infant daughter and they showed up to their own daughter's funeral wearing fucking sweatpants. Don't be like those people.

Something tells me the people who are incels (or larp as incels) don't follow my 5 rules.
 
you have to understand that over 90% of incels would instantly write you off as 'a coping bluepilled cuck' or 'gaslighting femoid' the second they hear something like 'Educate yourself on real human psychology.'
I realized a little while after I made that post that I'd spoken one of the two trigger phrases that I know of. The other being "just don't be creepy."

On the topic of looksmax.org, it does overlap with incels.is, but being an incel isn’t a requirement to join. In fact, plenty of incels dislike the site because 'normies' and 'chads' are allowed to post and brag, which fills them with envy.
For context, both sites are run by @afounder, aka Master/Marquis/Lamarcus Small, who’s most known for owning sanctioned-suicide.net
Be honest, you're not actually a looksmaxxer, you're writing a thesis paper and this thread is part of your research.

He’s different from the typical incel in that he blames his personality (He wouldn't use the word 'personality', but that is basically what he means) and what he calls his 'non-NT brain' instead of his looks.
Ah yes, because personality is something you can work on, whereas having Asperger's is not. Although actually, even a full-blown autist can learn and train to act less spergy.

I’ve tried to convince him to 'personalitymaxx' in different ways.
I am formally begging you to drop all the gay and cringe incel lingo from your vocabulary and find alternative words for it even when speaking to incels. If I know one thing for sure, it's that incel lingo is a net negative on the entire human species. I'll try to find better phrases than 'educate yourself' and 'creepy' as well, although I don't think they are necessarily that bad.

I suggested going to parties and getting drunk to become more pro-social (but he refuses because he says alcohol is disgusting and drugs are bad), or watching how successful guys in clubs act and trying to copy them.
I think this is not the right mentality. I used to look up to guys who could pick up random club chicks and smash mad box while high off MDMA night after night, and then (most importantly) brag about it later, but I think casual sex addiction and drug abuse is just another way that these outwardly successful guys cope with ennui.

Simply put, I think bars and clubs fucking SUCK and are not actually pro-social. I would suggest looking into real pro-social activities like local athletic or even dance activities that do not involve dingy drinking holes. Especially ones that attract an equal or greater number of women than men. I used to joke with an irl friend who kind of identified as an incel that we should both sign up for Zumba to talk to girls.

Once you're speaking to women, don't try to put up a barrier in the form of pick-up-artistry or the expectation of sex, just empathize with them and learn to love them. The biggest danger to the incel is that they begin to hate women so much that they turn gay and/or troon out. See Nick Fuentes and the rogues gallery of troons on this site.

Every time, he has some excuse. He even told me something like 'girls only like 80 IQ retards who talk like they’re on amphetamines,' so I told him, 'Then take stims and copy those 80 IQ retards.' But of course, there’s always a reason he can’t or won’t do it.
Personally, I like your pro-drug attitude and I have been known to indulge now and then, but I think women will be turned off by a tweaker.

He’s stuck in a victim mentality where everything is someone else’s fault; his parents, women, society, the jews, whatever. At this point, I’ve pretty much given up on him because it feels like talking to a brick wall.
This is THE quintessential incel mindset and you're absolutely right in that his mental fortress of self-pity is probably unassailable. It's not really worth your time to try and break those walls down with a stranger, but I understand the temptation to try.

Why are you defending someone who has repeatedly assaulted random people in fits of rage? This isn’t some lifelong friend. No, it’s an incel I barely know from discord for a few months.
Do you seriously think I owe loyalty to someone who’s a literal threat to others?
I personally think you do owe him a bit of honesty, just because it's virtuous and the right thing to do. Getting arrested because he opened up to a random discord contact, without even telling him, would just make him worse and more bitter.

Anyone so angry bitter and entitled and clearly refusing to show any sign of change or personal growth after years in the prime of their life I almost feel should be put down the same way you see an animal struck by a car slowly dying, you just might as well just go into the trunk find the tire iron and end it's suffering.
I think you're right, but that is a lot of young white men we'd have to put down.
 
I think you're right, but that is a lot of young white men we'd have to put down.

Possibly true. I stand by my statement. What do you call a "lot" exactly? I'm still not certain what meets the criteria of an "incel". To me a literal incel has a medical condition preventing them from some form of sex, something like irreversible erectile dysfunction that pills cannot fix; their dick was blown off by an antipersonnel landmine in Iraq. Maybe it's just me but, I've never put a name to them, "incel" is not accurate I've just considered them whiny faggots who can't get laid because they refuse to put in the effort.
 
I will never understand incels and how they feel like life is meaningless if they aren't getting some feel-good chemicals from bumping uglies. literally just get a hobby, create something, start a collection, find people with the same hobbies or collections and bond over shared human experiences. Life is so full of wonder and whimsy even outside the bedroom, I can't fathom sex being worth going into a blackpilled doom-spiral over. Men like the one OP is talking about are lost causes if they don't get out of their porn-addicted woman-hating echo chambers.

literally just go outside and take a walk. sit in the shallows of a lake and rub rocks together. sniff lichen. pet a dog. exfoliate your skin. there's joy and beauty to be found when you get your head out of your backside and look
 
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