The weird thing is, I didn't refer to him by name too much. I think it's because I felt weird calling him either Shmorky or Daisy. So usually when I wanted to get his attention I'd just yell "hey!" And yes, I was forced to call him either Shmork or Daisy.
We talked about 3 months before we met in person. I think we started talking in March of 2014 and we finally met June 1st of 2014. I think compared to Carefully's chat, there was actually less ERP in mine because we had more mutual interests to talk about. Shmork would only talk about things that interested in him and we were interested in a lot of the same stuff, particularly retro gaming, obsolete technology, bad movies, and outer space. We would just have normal talks for a few hours and then the diaper fetish ERPs would happen for an hour or so every couple of nights. I would try and steer the ERPs back into normal sex, but he'd always steer it back into something disgusting. I knew it was a real life fetish with him because he told me he got his other girlfriends to shit in diapers for him while he wiped their asses. Now that I think about how much he used to take advantage of disabled and disenfranchised women, I really wonder how much of that stuff was comfortably, mutually decided upon and that there was no element of coercion involved. Shmork had less leverage on me than he did his other girlfriends because I didn't NEED a place to stay and had my own source of income and my own car/license. He actually needed me a lot more than I needed him, so he was okay when I told him that real life diaper stuff was not something I was into or
comfortable with, but when I got there he kept trying to get me to try it. That's how he was with everything, actually. I told him right from the beginning of our relationship that I wasn't a feminist or a democrat, that I didn't really subscribe to a political party but leaned more towards conservatism. He just said, 'that's okay, but I'm a feminist and very left leaning.' and would just keep selling me and selling me on feminism and SJWism until I bought into it. So with diaper stuff, it's not that I didn't know he was into it in real life, I just thought, stupidly, that he'd respect my wishes not to engage in it in real life. Shmork makes himself seem like a much nicer person
online than he is in real life. If someone has knowledge of how to do this, maybe you can help me recover Shmork and I's old Skype logs? It's hard because I don't remember which account it was, and it might have been a skype account that's tied to a facebook account I don't have anymore, plus the logs would be almost 3 years old at this point. But, if anyone well versed on E-digging can help me, that'd be grand.
I certainly didn't bring it up when I met his family lol, but I think if there was anyone who would have been aware of it, it would be his brother,
@Cynister , since they seem to be the closest. The only other person I can think of who might have had an inkling would have been her - (yikes, she lives close to me)
https://www.facebook.com/nanette.lamoreaux?fref=ts Shmorky's witchcraft practicing dyke babysitter/best friend (maybe more) of his mom. His parents were definitely the liberal, permissive type, so they probably wouldn't have pried into what he was doing online. I still remember this one thing that sticks out in my mind though (forgive me if I've mentioned it before). Shmork, his mother and I were sitting at the table together, and Shmork's mom turns to him and asks "So, does Mandy know about you? You know, does she know (putting a lot of stress on the word) ABOUT you?" He never answered the question and just changed the subject. She couldn't have been talking about the gender stuff because he was openly troony in front of his parents (though they still called him Dave), so I obviously knew about that. To this day I still wonder what she could have been talking about because she took a dead serious tone when she asked it. He told me that he never told anyone in his family about blowjob roommate, and I don't know why she would have been asking about his diaper fetish right there at the table. It seemed like she was alluding to something really serious about him. It could have been, perhaps, an actual diagnosis to his mental illness. Shmorky actually threatened suicide once in high school and someone told the guidance counselor, who called his parents and told them he had to have a mandatory psych evaluation. So, he might have received an actual diagnosis to his real problem at that evaluation, and that might have been what his mother was alluding to. By the way, someone earlier in the thread asked if he had ever received psychological help before and I forgot to mention that. I think that was the only time he had a psychological evaluation (not counting his current stay in the hospital), and he's never WILLINGLY received any help.
@InLivingTuna , (I haven't read all the new pages of the thread yet so forgive me if this question has been answered) Do we have any update on the hospital situation? Is he still there? I don't know what the law is in Virginia, but here in New Jersey, if it's your second psych hold and suicide was attempted, by law they have to keep you for a 10-day evaluation.