Kelly Lenza / LividLipids / softbodytendermind / ass_child / photopotamus - "Radical body liberationist”, Intentionally Repulsive, Uber woke middle-aged SJW influencer wannabe, doxed her former therapist for getting WLS, ate her way to heart failure

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Apparently she is a DID LARPer now.
 
She has written that her children are also dealing with abandonment and anxiety issues. One can't be in a room alone. I am not one to say parents can't enjoy nights out. However , I do think Kelly may be endangering herself if all these escapades are true. I also think she doesn't have a handle on herself let alone her children in dealing with confrontation and hard feelings.
She must spend so much time and effort in her cruising, sexual oddities, and time spent online in hook up/fetish spaces. Imagine if she took half that effort to do something just for the kids or anything at all!
Does she ever take the kids anywhere asides to the park to eat McDonald's? I think one of the kids may go to music lessons. But I don't hear a lot about days at the water park, going to the movies, taking the kids to a museum or something.
I know the kids have gone to her historical costume people events but what about something they will enjoy.
Anyway, she started Ozempic, right ?
I wonder how that is going for her.

Edit: Oh, and her new sexually transmitted DID! I wonder if alters will start in her real life or it is just an other addition to her weird sex stuff. I hope we get to meet the alters.
 
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This is a time of year When I enjoy reflecting on the year past. I enjoy the family gatherings and the essentially wholesome nature of the season.

And then the Kelly thread updates. I made the mistake of reading it and now I feel very… unclean. And angry.

Her girls are still of the age where the season, with very little effort from parents, is sheer magic.

Have Kelly and spouse taken the girls out to walk or drive through a neighborhood with an outstanding display of lights and decor? Every large community has at least one.

Has Kelly helped the girls bake holiday treats; for Santa and the family?

How about buying and wrapping presents or teaching them and singing carols?

For those of us who grew up in dysfunctional families, Christmas can be something to dread, until we realize that as adults, we’re free to create our own, wholesome and enjoyable holiday traditions with and for our families.

Sadly, I don’t think Kelly is able to think beyond herself and I only hope others in the family are ensuring the girls are experiencing the magic of the holidays.
 
I read it as the friend's alter was fronting. That's why Kelly had additional feelings of power-- maybe the friend "doesn't know" the scene happened.

I don't even know what to make of this "I felt too vulnerable to let someone make me cum" nonsense. For one, she's too fat for someone to make her come. Second, ew, I hate that I'm thinking of this. Third, girl, have you not been coming this entire time??? What's the point?

It is pretty gross that she's not taking a break from kink to focus on family this one week. Maybe she's just going with the flow of her new kink friends, but THEY might not have kids.

OTOH I feel for the girls if Kelly does try to engage with them at this point. I had pretty fucked up parents (in a different way) and the times when they had moments of clarity and tried to "make up for it" were, IMO, worse than the neglect. The girls are old enough that their attachment styles are pretty much set, and suddenly treating them differently will at best be uncomfortable and at worst be distressing. And they probably have an ordinary desire for a fun family Christmas and for mom to do these things, but the reality of it will not be happy, and the dissonance will be hard for them to process until they're older.

And with Kelly's narc tendencies (something I gratefully didn't have to deal with), the girls failure to perform sufficient gratefulness and manage Kelly's feelings will spoil things further.

Either way, the girls have already learned on a subconscious level that either Mom doesn't love them, or is only capable of loving them secondary to her desires for food or otherwise pleasing herself. They'll see mom genuinely struggling to enjoy spending time with them and internalize that they are difficult to love. And they may very well, like Kelly herself, BECOME difficult to love.

I'm not saying Kelly and Jerry shouldn't try. It's just... it's gonna be hard. And the trying might not make any difference except one day the girls will say to their therapist "I know they tried their best, and I forgive them" and maybe feel less angry, but the rest of the damage will still be there. Hopefully they'll be more self-aware than Kelly is herself about dealing with their problems.
 
This wretch actually wrote that she has issues feeling that “her only value as a person comes from what she can do for others…”.
I sure hope she has time this holiday season to reflect back on all the absolutely selfish, low-effort, bitter, passive-aggressive and hostilely pathetic things “she did for others” this past year. Ya know, like for her kids and Jerry.

Hopefully the ghost of Christmas future will be paying her a visit and she can get scared straight into being nice to her kids for once. Pun intended.
 
Kelly picked herself an introvert who just wanted to check the boxes:

✅wife
✅career
✅house
✅kids

Unless something totally derails his normie life of eventually getting the girls out of the house and into the next generation of being Jerries so he can just retire and play vidya all day, I don't think Jerry really cares. He's just kind of this white male liberal NPC. Unless the girls die or fail to launch or Kelly screws up the finances, I think he's checked out.

It's a shame he married some college liberal fat girl and he just drew a losing ticket. With any luck, the girls will just grow into two more fat and boring engineers with a mentally ill mother. The good news about Kelly being so disconnected from their daughters is they're not really learning how to behave from Kelly, just that the type of man to pursue is old, fat, passive Daddy.
 
Kelly picked herself an introvert who just wanted to check the boxes:

✅wife
✅career
✅house
✅kids

Unless something totally derails his normie life of eventually getting the girls out of the house and into the next generation of being Jerries so he can just retire and play vidya all day, I don't think Jerry really cares. He's just kind of this white male liberal NPC. Unless the girls die or fail to launch or Kelly screws up the finances, I think he's checked out.

It's a shame he married some college liberal fat girl and he just drew a losing ticket. With any luck, the girls will just grow into two more fat and boring engineers with a mentally ill mother. The good news about Kelly being so disconnected from their daughters is they're not really learning how to behave from Kelly, just that the type of man to pursue is old, fat, passive Daddy.
i think they did really love each other at the beginning of their relationship. it wasn't just jerry trying to live a normie life, he really thought she was the woman he wanted to start a family with. they met because they were both furries, though, so being in a normie marriage was never an option, but it could have been a happy one if they stayed furries. they both grew out of the furry fandom and got different interests. kelly happened to drink too deeply from the SocJus koolaid, and there's no way he can get another woman since his new interest is being a fat gamer slob. neither of them are the 20-something wacky furry artist they originally fell in love with, and that's sad.
 
Sucked her dick? I don't understand what that means here. Like her clit, possibly helped by testosterone if she really started taking it. And it's on video? This can get worse and most likely will. She is making amateur porn. Where is her next stop on her on this very slippery slope of depraved debauchery?

I sort of hope like the munchies who perform for the Internet hoping for ass pats about their chronic illnesses, maybe she writes this shit for attention?
 
I wonder how Kelly spent NYE. That time when people come together to spend with their loved ones -

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My question for Kelly is why can't she have this as a private thing between just her husband and her? I'm not saying that every half naked Instagram babe that looks perfect should share this and Kelly shouldn't. I'm saying maybe explicit sexuality is private. Maybe spoken modesty has its virtues. Maybe she should try it for a week. The older I get, I care less about visual modesty because that is culturally based. It's hard compare to a child prostitute being instructed to wear certain clothing by a handler to a really sexually immodest woman who is wearing the clothes for a purpose and trying to cause problems to someone who just believes tube tops are normal summer clothes for any female aged 12 to 60. But I get what Kelly's doing very clearly, and I don't like it.

I like how sex has replaced her interest in furries, black people, gay people, and fat people. I wonder what's next. Some people go through a phase where they're really into running, miniatures, or board games. I hear a lot from people like Kelly that people with these shallow, passing fancies are shallow. Sure, passing fancies are often shallow, but when those passing fancies are people, forgetting your children like old box set Community DVDs seems a little more dire.
 
My question for Kelly is why can't she have this as a private thing between just her husband and her?
She's trying to convince someone else (the negative self talk in her own head) that she's desirable. It's the same thing Anna or Chantal do, just a different and much grosser flavour.

Unlike them, though, Kelly actually has a husband who at least had affection for her at one point.
 
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