What the fuck is with her and being trans? I remember she once said she chickened out going down on a girl then booked it out of there and I think that is when she started dating Jerry?
I am not sure if she has hooked up with any chicks since, especially in her new nympho era. But at least like 4 different dudes and an Interdimensional alien at this point. And as you all have pointed out, she presents and acts mostly female. So does she identify as a gay guy?
Trans ideology these days posits that anybody who doesn't fit within or struggles to live up to traditional gender norms is actually trans. You want regressive sex stereotypes straight out of the 1950s? The trans community's loaded with them. So a tomboy who isn't obsessed with shopping and makeup is actually a boy; and a 45-year-old man who gets off on imagining himself as a woman must be one.
But it goes further than that. The category of "trans" allows a lot of resentful, unfuckable failures and nonentities to to rebrand themselves into the category of an oppressed minority, and thus gain social currency they never had access to before.
So a bored, horny, fat, slovenly, intentionally repulsive NPD failure of a suburban wife and mother, who has embraced the current brainwashing that white women like her have to take a backseat to every single group that claims marginalized status, can join in as a marginalized person by identifying as trans.
Kelly's been doing this for a long time, claiming neurodivergence and disability, as well as fatness, as her basis for being counted as a marginalized person. So it's not surprising to me at all that she'd identify as trans, too. She can't compete with other women on looks, career success, or being a good wife and mother, so she's just decided to identify right out of being a woman at all.
And being trans, even in the zero-effort way Kelly does it, allows her to dictate how others must think about and talk to her. They have to use her pronouns; they can't refer to her as a woman; and they have to accept whatever she says she is, no matter how stupid and ridiculous, lest they be accused of transphobia. Se says she's a gay man? She's a gay man, and nobody in the social circles she's in will support you if you say, "No, you're fucking not"; they'll excommunicate you for telling the truth.
And Narcs absolutely
love having that kind of power, which is why whenever I see somebody with alternate pronouns I assume I'm dealing with somebody who has a Cluster B personality disorder.
It is absolutely ridiculous and sad for a woman Kelly's age to be this excited over being objectified by freaks. Being pursued by degenerates in sexually-charged spaces like fetish platforms and furry conventions doesn't mean that they desire you as a human being or that you're too hot for normies to handle, it just means that those men are looking for some extreme ass and they know you're desperate enough for male attention to give it to them. No amount of prose or navel-gazing is going to change the fact that you're ultimately just the body required to fulfill a perverse fantasy, which is why they don't care about your health and just want you to crush them.
I've always said that a woman bragging about how many guys are willing to fuck her is like a teenage boy bragging about how many potato chips he can eat. It's not even remotely an accomplishment; it's not good for them; and the actual adults in the room know this and are grossed out by it.
Kelly's writing, descriptions, the general vibe of the furry con blog post- reminds me of a teenage girl writing in her diary about going to the big dance. The manic, babbling way she wants to remember and record every detail- "I wanted coffee with cream, but forgot the cream, so I went back and got some cream..." She's not stupid, and can usually craft a better narrative than this.
It's oddly juvenile for something so degenerate.
She's getting massive doses of narcissistic suppy for the first time in years, and probably the most she's ever received in her life, so she's high as a fucking kite on it.
Being the center of attention, being desired, being in control, doing transgressive shit that she knows freaks out the normies she resents so much—she's loving it. That none of the people she's doing scenes with actually care about her as a human being, and are only decent to her because they might want to use her to play out their fetshes again in the future, doesn't register with her, but even if it did, I'm not sure it would matter. Nothing matters but finally getting the kind of attention, in-group social status, and power over others that she's always craved.