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An trancel is complaining about how society has men be ashamed dating and loving them.
Loved how he calls himself an "paragon of feminity" lol what a loser
I’ve always been super fem, even before “officially” transitioning, and that has always put me in a weird place as an observer, watching my presumably cis, straight friends and associates play “musical partners.”
I had some fun with bisexual and curious straight guys, but I honestly never had much luck with actual gay men.
Within the last decade, though, the femboy and trans conversation has exploded. And now, in my mid-30s, it’s something almost everyone wants—pre-op, “girldick,” mind you.
From 20-somethings to those well beyond, I hear so many stories of people having no problem getting sex, just no commitment.
I can’t help but feel resentment when I think about the possibility that, by the time I’m in my mid-60s, straight and bi men might turn another corner—finally ready to settle down in a committed relationship with one of us. That thought PISSES ME OFF in advance.
We’re expected to endure their games, their lecherous comments, and their disgusting looks until, at some arbitrary point, society deems it more acceptable to openly date one of us.
We can have so much love to give, become obsessive in self-improvement, and even find people who are 99% compatible with us. But it feels like it means nothing because of our predicament. We’re left vulnerable, watching less compatible people—abusers, cheaters, addicts, thieves, and bad-built, butch bodies—easily couple up, while we, as paragons of femininity, catch their eyes but not their hearts.
So many of us are desperate for love, spending our prime years pining, waiting for the world to come around. And when that happens, it won’t be on our terms. Instead, these traumatized, divorced, lonely, and broken men will have their pick of the litter, while we stand in line, still eagerly hoping for a chance.
I had some fun with bisexual and curious straight guys, but I honestly never had much luck with actual gay men.
Within the last decade, though, the femboy and trans conversation has exploded. And now, in my mid-30s, it’s something almost everyone wants—pre-op, “girldick,” mind you.
From 20-somethings to those well beyond, I hear so many stories of people having no problem getting sex, just no commitment.
I can’t help but feel resentment when I think about the possibility that, by the time I’m in my mid-60s, straight and bi men might turn another corner—finally ready to settle down in a committed relationship with one of us. That thought PISSES ME OFF in advance.
We’re expected to endure their games, their lecherous comments, and their disgusting looks until, at some arbitrary point, society deems it more acceptable to openly date one of us.
We can have so much love to give, become obsessive in self-improvement, and even find people who are 99% compatible with us. But it feels like it means nothing because of our predicament. We’re left vulnerable, watching less compatible people—abusers, cheaters, addicts, thieves, and bad-built, butch bodies—easily couple up, while we, as paragons of femininity, catch their eyes but not their hearts.
So many of us are desperate for love, spending our prime years pining, waiting for the world to come around. And when that happens, it won’t be on our terms. Instead, these traumatized, divorced, lonely, and broken men will have their pick of the litter, while we stand in line, still eagerly hoping for a chance.
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T4T transbian joy gets tricky when one of them has hormones going haywire
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Sounds like a stealth detransition.
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I'm having some hard dilemmas, with a lot of chaos mixed in and I'm wondering others' thoughts/opinions. Its not a simple situation, so im hoping background will give some context. I've tried asking a few other places, but many don't understand not being trans. Please forgive if anything is triggering, I haven't slept well in a long time.
I'm 39MTF, my s/o is 31MTF, We have been together for 7 years, and we both have some issues with ADHD. We've always kinda had an odd soft switch dynamic which i've appreciated, although often i've felt forced more into the dom/masc roles (against my wishes at times, but i've tried to do my best). She has always been the more Fem presenting and acting of the two of us. For the record, I've loved her no matter what and would take her no matter what gender/sex/whatever, and i've always expressed that love to her.
During the past 9 months my levels went haywire, E went through the roof and T was non-existant (despite my consistent doses, it was near pregnancy levels). My dr did not catch this until recently due to a failure on their end running incorrect tests and assuming all is well despite my expressed concern. Thankfully we are adjusting things to get back to a safer state.
Myself and my S/O were on injections for Estrogen, and my s/o decided she wanted to change back to sublingual E as she deemed getting injection supplies was more work than she wanted to put in. I understand the risks involved with that, and how T levels can re-surge, but sadly she wasn't willing to hear me out, nor pay attention to how she was feeling nor how her body was responding.
I tried to be kind but after like 6-8months of the drs failing to check her levels, even after my suggestions to get it checked, as changes were apparent in MANY ways, she finally did so with E at like 100 and T at 900. I was watching the woman i loved fall apart, the sweet loving person got very angry and bitter very often. There were changes, most she was not happy about, she has made some attempts to sort things, but the damage has been done and she has an uphill battle, but it has changed her in many ways.
With our body chemistry where its at, it has been a big adjustment in our dynamics, I have to let her lead and take charge on things now. I'm not against it, admittedly some aspects have been fulfilling, and adorable to watch her look after me like that at times, but along with it has come some darkness.
Things between us have strained with several breakups because her ADD is now causing many issues. Shes dopamine seeking with marijuana, alcohol, nonstop gaming and has had sex with a few random people (this has really broken me). I am at my wits end at this point. I am unsure of how to try to talk to her about things, because she keeps shutting down when i try. I want to help her however I can to get things sorted, but i feel hurt and betrayed. I'm sure she feels a bit lost like I do, but its been such a struggle. I understand what effect high T can do, and coupled with ADD, those can be hard things to stave off. I'm not trying to give her any excuses nor myself. I feel so lost, We have a life together with a house and cat, now everything just seems so uncertain, unstable and in shambles.
UpbeatExchange3050
Not really sure how to approach this, but any thoughts are helpful.
TRIGGER WARNINGI'm having some hard dilemmas, with a lot of chaos mixed in and I'm wondering others' thoughts/opinions. Its not a simple situation, so im hoping background will give some context. I've tried asking a few other places, but many don't understand not being trans. Please forgive if anything is triggering, I haven't slept well in a long time.
I'm 39MTF, my s/o is 31MTF, We have been together for 7 years, and we both have some issues with ADHD. We've always kinda had an odd soft switch dynamic which i've appreciated, although often i've felt forced more into the dom/masc roles (against my wishes at times, but i've tried to do my best). She has always been the more Fem presenting and acting of the two of us. For the record, I've loved her no matter what and would take her no matter what gender/sex/whatever, and i've always expressed that love to her.
During the past 9 months my levels went haywire, E went through the roof and T was non-existant (despite my consistent doses, it was near pregnancy levels). My dr did not catch this until recently due to a failure on their end running incorrect tests and assuming all is well despite my expressed concern. Thankfully we are adjusting things to get back to a safer state.
Myself and my S/O were on injections for Estrogen, and my s/o decided she wanted to change back to sublingual E as she deemed getting injection supplies was more work than she wanted to put in. I understand the risks involved with that, and how T levels can re-surge, but sadly she wasn't willing to hear me out, nor pay attention to how she was feeling nor how her body was responding.
I tried to be kind but after like 6-8months of the drs failing to check her levels, even after my suggestions to get it checked, as changes were apparent in MANY ways, she finally did so with E at like 100 and T at 900. I was watching the woman i loved fall apart, the sweet loving person got very angry and bitter very often. There were changes, most she was not happy about, she has made some attempts to sort things, but the damage has been done and she has an uphill battle, but it has changed her in many ways.
With our body chemistry where its at, it has been a big adjustment in our dynamics, I have to let her lead and take charge on things now. I'm not against it, admittedly some aspects have been fulfilling, and adorable to watch her look after me like that at times, but along with it has come some darkness.
Things between us have strained with several breakups because her ADD is now causing many issues. Shes dopamine seeking with marijuana, alcohol, nonstop gaming and has had sex with a few random people (this has really broken me). I am at my wits end at this point. I am unsure of how to try to talk to her about things, because she keeps shutting down when i try. I want to help her however I can to get things sorted, but i feel hurt and betrayed. I'm sure she feels a bit lost like I do, but its been such a struggle. I understand what effect high T can do, and coupled with ADD, those can be hard things to stave off. I'm not trying to give her any excuses nor myself. I feel so lost, We have a life together with a house and cat, now everything just seems so uncertain, unstable and in shambles.
Sounds like a stealth detransition.
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So sexual preference can be a matter of fashion and not inborn?
Doesn't that make this guy some variety of heretic?
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It's okay for troons to say it because sexuality isn't actually something they believe in. It's why they imagine saying "actually I'm a real valid woman" will make every lesbian in a thousand-foot radius suddenly beg to have sex with them.So sexual preference can be a matter of fashion and not inborn?
Doesn't that make this guy some variety of heretic?
You have to remember, its always a fetish first for these people. The "become the girlfriend" types don't really want a girlfriend, they just imagine that by trooning out, they'll have as much sex as their porn-fried brains think the average woman has.
Holy shit the standards for care for troons are absolutely abysmal. Two separate patients both have zero oversight while injecting (knowing troons) ridiculous amounts of hormones into their bloodstream. One man has no testosterone at all in his body, and the other one is taking bodybuilder doses. This shit goes on for almost a year before anybody finally figures out how to run a blood panel.
The doctors responsible should be getting absolutely assblasted for that. In any sane world, this kind of Mengele science would never be allowed, but even in the clown show that passes for medicine the medical board should be disciplining them for this kind of patient abuse.
The worst bit is, I guarantee that the first troon in this story was absolutely in love with taking enough estrogen to pan-fry his entire endocrine system. They're so stupid they believe that "if E number big, T number small, me woman" and the opposite for pooners. If the second troon in the story had the same issue as the first, they'd probably both be tugging each other off to how valid and womanly they are now that the science™ says so.
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Gigabased father comes in with an argument, trannies on r/truscum can't find a real answer
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How do I overcome this argument point?
“ how do you feel like a boy when you’re not one”
I would like to say this argument with my father spiralled very quickly and aggressively. The things he said I can’t repeat but we will no longer be in contact. but I would like it answered for my own personal clarity.
I’m ftm, almost 18 and came out to my family at around 13. I have never socialised as a girl, only wanted to play sports and football as a child so it wasn’t anything specifically feminine. Me and my dad were always the closest and then my brother and my mum. That’s just how it was for a while, but as puberty hit with the dysphoria intensifying ( i had known I wasn’t like everyone else since 5ish ) I knew it wouldn’t benefit me to wait any longer, it was a very tough choice, but after about a year of struggle I was allowed a male range haircut, I knew instantly this was the feeling that I needed to lead with, it felt instantly right ( although I admit it was a little strange seeing myself so differently at first ) I was the happiest I had ever been . And everyone including my dad could see this,
This year I have been on testosterone with the helps of my mum, she hasn’t found it easy and has tried to convince me to not to ever since I came out, but she saw how much I needed this. I can’t thank her enough.
He refused to see this side, and today’s argument left me feeling like I had lost my dad. This isn’t our first but I can promise it will be our last time trying to find middle ground.
While my mum was present in this argument there was alot of “ look at you women, you think the same “ “ a man would never talk like that “ “look.. too emotional just like a woman “
All these jabs hurt but I just wanted to see why he was so.. well sexist.
My brother is incredibly feminine, and has been since birth really, he used to play with makeup and had girl friends, he hated ( and still hates ) all sports. basically the typical lad was more in me than it ever was in him. But my dad insisted that “ your brothers brain is clearly male and yours isn’t “
Again, it left me confused, as I have never once expressed myself or talked to women my whole life, I had a friend who was a girl for maybe a year or two before puberty. But boys can get along with girls too right ? My brother does
Anyway, the question “ how do you know you’re a boy.. how can a girl feel like one “
I first answered with “ but I am a boy, my body just developed as a female “ And this sent him into somewhat of an outrage, Saying boys and girls are clearly different and I will never be one. I had given up trying to share my experience with him, because his understanding of me would never change.
Even so, if this question can be answered more deeply, something with evidence to claim other than my words I would love to try and share with what’s supposed to be my family.
Love to you all, sorry I needed this rant.
“ how do you feel like a boy when you’re not one”
I would like to say this argument with my father spiralled very quickly and aggressively. The things he said I can’t repeat but we will no longer be in contact. but I would like it answered for my own personal clarity.
I’m ftm, almost 18 and came out to my family at around 13. I have never socialised as a girl, only wanted to play sports and football as a child so it wasn’t anything specifically feminine. Me and my dad were always the closest and then my brother and my mum. That’s just how it was for a while, but as puberty hit with the dysphoria intensifying ( i had known I wasn’t like everyone else since 5ish ) I knew it wouldn’t benefit me to wait any longer, it was a very tough choice, but after about a year of struggle I was allowed a male range haircut, I knew instantly this was the feeling that I needed to lead with, it felt instantly right ( although I admit it was a little strange seeing myself so differently at first ) I was the happiest I had ever been . And everyone including my dad could see this,
This year I have been on testosterone with the helps of my mum, she hasn’t found it easy and has tried to convince me to not to ever since I came out, but she saw how much I needed this. I can’t thank her enough.
He refused to see this side, and today’s argument left me feeling like I had lost my dad. This isn’t our first but I can promise it will be our last time trying to find middle ground.
While my mum was present in this argument there was alot of “ look at you women, you think the same “ “ a man would never talk like that “ “look.. too emotional just like a woman “
All these jabs hurt but I just wanted to see why he was so.. well sexist.
My brother is incredibly feminine, and has been since birth really, he used to play with makeup and had girl friends, he hated ( and still hates ) all sports. basically the typical lad was more in me than it ever was in him. But my dad insisted that “ your brothers brain is clearly male and yours isn’t “
Again, it left me confused, as I have never once expressed myself or talked to women my whole life, I had a friend who was a girl for maybe a year or two before puberty. But boys can get along with girls too right ? My brother does
Anyway, the question “ how do you know you’re a boy.. how can a girl feel like one “
I first answered with “ but I am a boy, my body just developed as a female “ And this sent him into somewhat of an outrage, Saying boys and girls are clearly different and I will never be one. I had given up trying to share my experience with him, because his understanding of me would never change.
Even so, if this question can be answered more deeply, something with evidence to claim other than my words I would love to try and share with what’s supposed to be my family.
Love to you all, sorry I needed this rant.
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Based father can cut through the bullshit like a hot knife through butter, and pooner responds in a very masculine way by throwing a trantum and refusing to talk to him. Let's see what the other real bros on r/truscum have as advice to defeat this simplistic argument.
"Logic doesn't work with these people's arguments!" proceeds to make zero arguments
Logic doesn't really work with these people and their arguments.
But I get what you mean about your brother especially. If your brother acted exactly like you do, they wouldn't believe he's a trans woman. It's all about their (flawed) perception of you that colors how they interpret your behavior.
There's been studies that kind of relate, where adults watch babies/toddlers playing and some are told that the kid is male and some are told that the kid is female. Depending on what sex they think the kid is, they interpret their actions completely differently in a way that "matches" what sex they think the kid is.
But I get what you mean about your brother especially. If your brother acted exactly like you do, they wouldn't believe he's a trans woman. It's all about their (flawed) perception of you that colors how they interpret your behavior.
There's been studies that kind of relate, where adults watch babies/toddlers playing and some are told that the kid is male and some are told that the kid is female. Depending on what sex they think the kid is, they interpret their actions completely differently in a way that "matches" what sex they think the kid is.
This genius explains that actually, pooning out is not at all about feeling like a man! It's about concrete dysphoria, which is where you really want a penis. No, its not a fetish caused by porn addiction, why do you ask?
I don't think you can reason with this type of person, he just doesn't want to listen and is not open to changing his mind at all.
To answer your question about what might be best to say though:
When people say something like "how can a trans person know how if feels to be the other gender when they aren't that?" I tend to reject the idea that it's about some vague magical feeling, but rather very concrete dysphoria. For example, saying "I need to have a penis" is not about knowing how being a man feels, it's expressing a very concrete need and an indication that you are likely male.
There is no "feeling like a man" or "feeling like a woman" unless we're talking about living up to the stereotypes and ideals of these genders. E.g. when I dated a straight girl in high school pre medical transition, it made me "feel like a man" because this is what's often expected of men in a hetero-patriarchy and comes with certain powers and privileges. We all know these ideals so when we act them out they affirm the gender we are to some extent. This is more complex obviously and a lot of interesting cases can be discussed in this way, but I hope what I explained so far makes sense and can be of some help!
To answer your question about what might be best to say though:
When people say something like "how can a trans person know how if feels to be the other gender when they aren't that?" I tend to reject the idea that it's about some vague magical feeling, but rather very concrete dysphoria. For example, saying "I need to have a penis" is not about knowing how being a man feels, it's expressing a very concrete need and an indication that you are likely male.
There is no "feeling like a man" or "feeling like a woman" unless we're talking about living up to the stereotypes and ideals of these genders. E.g. when I dated a straight girl in high school pre medical transition, it made me "feel like a man" because this is what's often expected of men in a hetero-patriarchy and comes with certain powers and privileges. We all know these ideals so when we act them out they affirm the gender we are to some extent. This is more complex obviously and a lot of interesting cases can be discussed in this way, but I hope what I explained so far makes sense and can be of some help!
This one cuts right to the core, and goes directly to "if people don't listen to your wild claims that you can't back up, just cut them off!!!!" It's not culty at all to cut people off for any disagreements or confusion on your beliefs. You just need to live your best life as a short king!
How do you feel like a boy? Try your best to explain it. If you can't it's pretty hard to get people to respect it, and it just looks like you mixed up being masculine for being a boy, which of course its not. Some people aren't gonna wanna listen even if you gave them the best answer and scientific studies supporting your experience so if you need to seperate/cut them off hey do what you gotta do.
In conclusion, there's no counterargument, just a lot of salt that some random middle-aged dad can blow the entire movement apart. I pray for this dad that his daughter finds sense, detransitions, and doesn't groom the brother in the meantime.
And a bonus round that I saw while collecting the post above
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Why are trans women drawn as full cis passing women in online art communities but trans men are drawn as childish uwu soft feminine "boys"
Just something I noticed. Is it because of misandry or smth else
Just something I noticed. Is it because of misandry or smth else
Malding aside, I love the implication that "misandry" is responsible for these
Sean Andalou
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Troon or pooner, it always comes down to porn fantasies.
Lesbians are not laughably promiscuous like hot girl-on-girl porn.
Gay men are not laughably whatever the hell yaoi is.
Most straight people know this somehow, just from incidentally observing social behavior.
Observing social behavior? Or even just admitting it exists?
There's a concept for you.
Gondolindrim
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Sounds a little rapey, the first red flag
I feel like I'm taking a chemistry class reading this
This is so sad but I can't take it too seriously because it sounds like the only actual problem is that your SO is more interested in games than sex this week.
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Diamonds are worthless. Don't let anyone you know buy a diamond. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1982/02/have-you-ever-tried-to-sell-a-diamond/304575/
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"Everyone wants my tube tits, ugly mug and autistic personality" Sure, bud. Totally not narcissists, btw.
An trancel is complaining about how society has men be ashamed dating and loving them.
Loved how he calls himself an "paragon of feminity" lol what a loser
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So a pooner in my neck of the woods killed herself on Christmas Eve and her family were notified on Christmas Day.
Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas.
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Bit selfish to let them buy the presents first innit
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Lol, let me know when that particular klownshoe gets tripped over.
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A trans comes to the sober realisation that yes xhe doesn't pass and that yes people are just humoring xer despite "conforming to a very feminine ideal of appearance, I wear makeup every night at work, and you know, I have my hair long". Because that's what makes a woman.
It's 20 minutes of beautiful sneed, I highly recommend
bonus quote: "Transition has not helped my body dysphoria at all". Uh oh!
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they don’t care if we’re self aware
this comes from the tranny L thread on kiwifarms, i was checking for leaks and saw this post.
if you haven’t seen the video this woman discovered that she wasn’t as stealth as she thought and all of her coworkers were humoring her. very heartbreaking video.
anyway, people just hate trannies for everything. it doesn’t matter if you present as in offensively as you can or recognize that you aren’t really seen as a woman. you can’t be one of the good ones, they just want you to suffer. side note, this poster has severe TDS. he somehow stumbled upon this 9 year old video which i’ve seen posted in one of the subreddits once like several months ago
this comes from the tranny L thread on kiwifarms, i was checking for leaks and saw this post.
if you haven’t seen the video this woman discovered that she wasn’t as stealth as she thought and all of her coworkers were humoring her. very heartbreaking video.
anyway, people just hate trannies for everything. it doesn’t matter if you present as in offensively as you can or recognize that you aren’t really seen as a woman. you can’t be one of the good ones, they just want you to suffer. side note, this poster has severe TDS. he somehow stumbled upon this 9 year old video which i’ve seen posted in one of the subreddits once like several months ago
You hear that @NSA Intern ? You’re an autistic closeted tranny, that’s the only explanation of why you’d ever write such a thing
Ah yes, always with the «this man is achsually more womanly than women!»
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Yup.
Anyone who's been in dire straights and selling jewellery to pawn shops gets the soeeche that yeah, this diamond ring is like £8. Because all that matters is the gold weight, the diamond isn't worth shit.
That was the exact pathway to me sitting seethewatching youtube videos about how diamonds are a total marketing scam.
Boohoo.
I feel quite sorry for the post above.
The main problem is that all troons, wether they have an amount of weight they aim to lose or not, will all end up dropping fat from the face because this is what happens with aging.
It happens to women too, but we have a female skull underneath.
FFS won't especially help either. They've spent that long in the mindset that obsessing over appearenace with view to change it, that the physical world is wrong, don't deal with reality.
There's a phrase that "every beautiful woman dies twice". Which is worth taking to heart. Everyone gets old, everyone has to deal.
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Being self aware about a problem doesn't mean you earned something. Changing does. Actions speak louder than words.
Being self aware about a problem doesn't mean you earned something. Changing does. Actions speak louder than words.
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It doesn’t matter how “clocky” (I hate that word) people on Reddit think he is. Firstly, because Reddit is an echo chamber where people convince each other that they all pass, even if they have a chin like the back end of a boat and men’s glasses. But more importantly, he got clocked. So clearly he isn’t feminine as compared to women.
Ah yes, always with the «this man is achsually more womanly than women!»
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A man who claims to be a woman isn't self aware.
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You have only heard the troons side of the story. Always assume that the troon will lie and shift blame on others.
100% home made troon-shine is involved in this story.
Odds are that the doctor didn't really see it urgent to check T and E levels because the dosage he scripted them was so low that catastrophic levels of E/T would be unheard of.
I bet they were self-medicating and shooting-up troon-shine like there was no tomorrow and the doctor was not aware of this.
You think a doctor would prescribe a troon levels of T that surpasses even what Arnold was taking at the height of his bodybuilding career?
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As delusional, irritating and dangerous as 'truscum' binary trans ideology is, at least 'male' and 'female' are categories that exist. Of course, it's impossible (in humans) for a male to become a female (or vice versa) but at least I can imagine what a trans woman is talking about when he says he is a woman. He's wrong, obviously, but there's a referent for 'woman' in the real world.
A non-binary sex does not exist, so there's no real-world referent. It is solely and completely narcissism dialed up to 11. If you asked me if I could be attracted to a non-binary person (not to their personality, obviously), I'd have to ask: do you mean male non-binary or female non-binary?