matter of fact: i can stop them from doing that. unfortunately, there's strength in numbers and annoying the fuck out of me and threatening me.
I'm not going to pretend I have a magic bullet solution.
What I would personally try to do is to create a solution, a final one if you will, to the sticker question, one that more or less fits your vision for how the site should work and how reactions should be handled. Once that solution is ready, integrate it with a post explaining why exactly it's happening.
Yes I know people will still bitch, yes I know people will be mad, but I sincerely, truly doubt anyone is going to do anything other than screech for a while before quietly falling in line. A few might leave, but you're unfortunately the head of a website that is large enough that, no matter what course you choose, you will upset some number of users.
I'm sorry if this isn't helpful, but I'm genuinely trying to come up with some ideas to issues you're describing. I also personally believe that, at this point, you need some kind of community manager. It sounds fucking gay, and I know your initial reaction is going to be negative, but I genuinely do recommend that you try and find a member of the forum that will volunteer to be your PR guy. It's obviously very stressful for you, and, let's be real, you aren't the easiest guy to get along with.