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I’m a trans woman and feel like a lot of cis men will never really accept me as or see me as a woman.
On my dating apps, out of fairness to the guys and also to protect my own safety I am extremely open about the fact that I am trans. I go fully into detail about my HRT, where I am with “the surgery”, and what my future plans are.
I can be kind of tomboyish but I also want the same things a lot of cisgender women want. A husband, a family, kids. Actually, it’s been a great source of dysphoria and depression for me that I’m unable to become pregnant.
I have worked on my voice, walk, mannerisms etc. I dress completely feminine a lot of the time. And while I don’t pass 100%ly sometimes, I feel like the effort is clearly there, and people still “sir” me, and it feels intentional because it’s emphasized (as in they bolded that specific word to a different tone and volume than the rest of their speech)
I feel like the world isn’t really set up to give straight trans women an easy go of it. It’s made harder by the fact that when realizing I’m a tomboy, some guys will ask me “why did you become a girl if you still want to do guy things”. I have a hard time explaining to them that if cis girls can be Tomboys why can’t trans girls? For example I absolutely love hockey and football. (Watching moreso than playing)
I like cars and working on them, I have worked as an aviation mechanic in the past, but I’m now in healthcare and pursuing a career in nursing, a more female dominated industry. (Not to satisfy any stereotype or to fit in or be one of, it’s genuinely what I want to do and I have a passion for it).
I’m as “normal” as someone can be. I go to work, I love my puppy, I like a lot of the same shows movies and music a lot of other people like, I just also happen to be trans.
Most of it isn’t overt, it feels more like people just don’t want to hurt my feelings, and so they tiptoe around me, or alter their manner of conversation with me versus with others.
I just feel kind of lost right now, because I definitely want a family and more of I guess a traditional marriage (by that I mean the white picket fence trope, not the woman just staying home all the time and not actually having any of her own views). But it feels empty because I feel like a lot of cis guys who would want that, they want a natural born woman. Not someone who in their eyes “turned into one but still used to be a man”.
Most guys who want kids want to be natural fathers, they want a woman they can get pregnant and have their own biological kids together, and I wish I could give them that too. It just isn’t in the cards for me. Even though I do hope to adopt once my career stabilizes and I’m on a good solid financial footing (assuming Texas doesn’t ban people like me from being able to adopt like they’re already trying to do) I think a lot of men, from my conversations I’ve had with them they see that as a last resort and “settling” almost.
Men want their own kids that are actually theirs, and I feel that. Because the fact I’m unable to become pregnant as been a great source of dysphoria and pregnancy for me. Even before my egg cracked I used to fantasize about being pregnant and being a mom but I didn’t really understand why at the time. If I only knew right lol?
At this point I’m just focusing on loving my puppy and advancing my career and praying that one day I will meet a good guy who’s the right guy for me and is good to me (yes I’m also a Christian). But I know the competition is heavily stacked against me and I just quite frankly to be blunt about it don’t measure up to cis women, and never can. It’s just got me down today, I guess.
Since I forgot to say it at the start, I’m 34. In 2 years into both HRT and social transition. I’m having my first laser session for LHR on my face yesterday, and I’m currently really working on voice training. So I’m moving right along. Just can’t shake the feeling I’m gonna end up being alone forever.

This guy is sad that he can't get pregnant and clearly the only reason why men won't date him.

Also found these comments to be funny, he refuses to date bi men because he knows they'll never see him as a woman.
And transmen don't have penises so their out as well.

Bi/pan men are honestly the best bet for most of us. They’ll see us as people first and foremost and at least to me that’s the most important thing


[–]virtualmentalist38[S] 5 points 2 hours ago*
I can’t get past my own insecurities to date a bi man. Since he’d be into both men and women, I’d be constantly wondering if he really sees me as a woman, or is just saying that to be polite and not hurt my feelings. Since he’s into both women and men, he wouldn’t need to see me as a woman in order to date me or “do stuff” with me.


[–]CheesecakeMother28 3 points an hour ago
I lived as a gay male before finally facing my dysphoria head on. Gay men are actually cautious about bi men because many were said to be using gay men for unlimited sex but prefer being with women for relationships. So, i don’t think you have to worry about them not seeing you as a girl









[–]No_Dragonfruit8254 0 points 2 hours ago
date trans men


[–]virtualmentalist38[S] 6 points 2 hours ago
I can’t and hopefully I don’t get downvoted for this but I can’t because I have a genital preference. And a lot of trans men don’t have the “thing” I like, and it’s rude to just ask them if they do. They’re 100% men to me and I’ll always respect them and their identity and validity of course. They aren’t less men because they have or don’t have some parts or others. But I can’t help where my attraction is pointed. Trans women also aren’t an option for me because I’m attracted to the male look and appearance, which a lot of trans women obviously understandably want to shed as soon as possible, assuming they hadn’t already by the time I met them.
It was not my intent or mission to invalidate anyone or make them feel less with this comment so I hope I didn’t do that. Please tell me if I did and I’ll reword it.


[–]No_Dragonfruit8254 -9 points 2 hours ago
genital preferences are such bullshit. what, you need to know what genitals someone has before you can develop an emotional connection? it’s nonsense.


[–]leftward_ho 1 point just now
Some people have sexual desires


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Ah—a reading comprehension issue. Understood. I kid.

I get the sense that other people actually disagree, though. I'll drop it for the time being.

I think it's just austism and/or porn addiction. If you could ban porn and fix the autism problem you'd have zero AGPs.
The autism question is more interesting than the porn addiction. It seems like a lot have problems forming a clear sense of identity.

I think it has to do with how being locked into certain states of attention puts you out of touch with yourself, so you replace your intuitive sense of self with an easily memorable mental construct—OCs; fursonas; trans aspirational self-images.

I'm no expert on autism, though.
 
The autism question is more interesting than the porn addiction. It seems like a lot have problems forming a clear sense of identity.

I think it has to do with how being locked into certain states of attention puts you out of touch with yourself, so you replace your intuitive sense of self with an easily memorable mental construct—OCs; fursonas; trans aspirational self-images.

I'm no expert on autism, though.
For one reason or another that isn't quite clearly understood autistics have a higher propensity for developing paraphilias and fetishes. They tend to be more impressionable, gullible, and have a near OCD tendency to fixate on things (special interests/hyperfixation). I suspect many of them were exposed to hypersexual content/communities online like a lot of people but due to their mental vulnerabilities got "caught" by these things so to speak more often than non-autistics would. Another reason could be the need to seek extreme stimulus, similar to how some asocial personality types get into extreme things or drugs to compensate for their lack of normal response to what gets and keeps normal people going.
 
For one reason or another that isn't quite clearly understood autistics have a higher propensity for developing paraphilias and fetishes.
It's a three-pronged attack: first, they're typically isolated (you might as well dream up anything if no-one is coming); second, they're shielded from some of the impact of these fetishes on their ego—they have a weakened cringe response; third, they develop hyperfixations that expedite the initiatory process.

I do happen to be an expert in this area.

I suspect many of them were exposed to hypersexual content/communities online like a lot of people but due to their mental vulnerabilities got "caught" by these things so to speak more often than non-autistics would. Another reason could be the need to seek extreme stimulus, similar to how some asocial personality types get into extreme things or drugs to compensate for their lack of normal response to what gets and keeps normal people going.
They're also perfect cult targets. They're typically deeply unhappy, and society would rather "validate" them than help them; part of this is because helping them would involve explaining many human realities that our society actively tries to cover up on an institutional level, and that normalfags would rather not think about.
 
[–]No_Dragonfruit8254 -9 points 2 hours ago
genital preferences are such bullshit. what, you need to know what genitals someone has before you can develop an emotional connection? it’s nonsense.
I'm astonished the trans utopia of reddit downvoted this comment (minus 9!)

I have lots of emotional connections with people without knowing about their genitals. But, surprise!, whether I want a sexual connection with them would, in fact, depend on their genitals. Which depends on their sex.
 

Troons are hounding this guy with death threats for exposing that one of their own is running a rape cult in a women only dorm.

I hope that someday, somebody bites the bullet and kills as many of these fuckers as humanly possible.
I love the laundry list of excuses
"RAs can't choose where they work"
"You're not in college, why do you care?"
"The students didn't have any complaints"

I wonder about that last one. Would you feel safe as a woman if you started talking about about your RA having a penis?
 
I love the laundry list of excuses
"RAs can't choose where they work"
"You're not in college, why do you care?"
"The students didn't have any complaints"

I wonder about that last one. Would you feel safe as a woman if you started talking about about your RA having a penis?
I'm convinced most women only go along with this madness because they know that if they speak up, the tranny is likely to rape and/or murder them. It's the same reason women give out fake phone numbers to guys they feel intimidated by. They go silent because they know men will kill them if things don't go their way.
 
This one is from r/truscum, which claims to be the rational, science side of the troon movement. Here we have a man shaken by the presence of other men on a sapphic dating app.
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what pisses me off the most is this tranny acts like trans women are only "tolerated" on Her and not outright sheltered and catered to, when True and Honest lesbians have been BANNED from that app thanks to troons.
You did this to yourselves. You're the ones who pushed and pushed and pushed for trans acceptance on every single platform and single-sex space. It's not even a Truscum v Trans Trender thing, it's just outright a tranny made issue. We have a whole thread dedicated to transbians on dating sites. Inb4 "but feminism caused this."
 
I'm convinced most women only go along with this madness because they know that if they speak up, the tranny is likely to rape and/or murder them. It's the same reason women give out fake phone numbers to guys they feel intimidated by. They go silent because they know men will kill them if things don't go their way.
side note: cant see the video cause no Xit account.
I wish girls and young women would start slapping their big balls on the table to these tranny huns. Go on your social media, call the tranny by name, say i didnt want to do xyz when they asked me, they freaked out, they\he started acting weird, what should i do?.

Im a little too much of a bitch, or too fucking gun wielding to care, but if i didnt want to talk to a dude even in college, i didnt talk to him. Done! Yeah i know how it feels, but just dont talk, or if youre having an interesting conversation and he tries hitting on you just be straight up 'im not interested in a relationship and no i dont have sex outside of a relationship' done.
 
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Im a little too much of a bitch, or too fucking gun wielding to care, but if i didnt want to talk to a dude even in college, i didnt talk to him. Done! Yeah i know how it feels, but just dont talk, or if youre having an interesting conversation and he tries hitting on you just be straight up 'im not interested in a relationship and no i dont have sex outside of a relationship' done.
Unfortunately this is learned behavior, just like being polite and not trying to cause a scene or "be a bitch" are learned behavior. It took a lot of "unlearning" of "normal" female behavior for me to start sticking up for myself again. And even if you're clear about not being interested, there are certain "types" of guys that don't take no for an answer. I assume a college guy who chose to live in the dorms with a bunch of barely legal girls away from their parents for the first time is one of these "types". Usually only first year students live in the dorms, and only freaks become RAs because they can't find roommates due to being tattle-tale faggots that everyone hates.

From the article:
"Stalzmans’s said at some point during “Marcie’s” move-in one of the female students who lives in the dorm spoke with “Marcie’s” mother, who not only confirmed “Marcie” is in fact a “trans” person with specific pronouns to use, but wanted to make sure the female students“felt comfortable” her son was moving in with them. I was able to independently corroborate this part of the story."

He had HIS MOM come in and try to henpeck and handmaiden the other moms and his potential skinwalking victims into complying. Lmao.
ETA this is less funny now that I realized that the student wasn't comfortable talking to the troon and spoke to his mom instead so it actually worked

"Saltzman shared a photo with me depicting a strange introductory collage “Marcie” apparently created and publicly posted on a large wall in the dorm for all the girls to see."

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This is just a strange but very male way to claim your territory. He's totally going to end up hoisting the more feminine duties like decorating bulletin boards and planning activities onto some of the weaker girls. I hope the bad girls band together and torture him a bit like we did to ours.
 
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"Bro I fuck either gender I don't care, i'm freaky".
"ummm.. so i'm not a women to you?"
????? There's no winning with these people.

Go look up any video interviewing a lady of the night in a non-sexy part of asia and theyll just say "sure im whatever makes you pay me". Or hell some call themselves ladyboys without throwing a tantrum.
 
The autism question is more interesting than the porn addiction. It seems like a lot have problems forming a clear sense of identity.
That may be a result of aphantasia, or an inability to visualize things in their head. The rates of aphantasia amongst autistics are much higher than in the general population (see Dance et al. 2021 archived below). Autist Temple Grandin describes this phenomenon to Jordan Peterson and the conversation was labelled “thinking in pictures vs. words”. Midwits often assume that aphantasia means someone is an “NPC” or severely retarded, but it actually might confer some unique advantages. It might be good for meditation, scientific research (see Galton, 1880), maintaining emotional control (archived below under Wicken et al.) or focusing on things.

It also means that autistic people struggle to imagine the future, specifically their own future. They may have a harder time picturing themselves out of time and space, and this can affect their level of motivation. If you can’t visualize something like, say, you and your spouse standing in front of a newly purchased home, it can be difficult to pursue such a thing. Why do you think normies like “vision boards” so much? It’s a way to reignite one’s sense of motivation. Autistics often lack this capacity, and, combined with their apathy towards social measures of success, can sit around doing nothing for decades at a time.

I think it has to do with how being locked into certain states of attention puts you out of touch with yourself, so you replace your intuitive sense of self with an easily memorable mental construct—OCs; fursonas; trans aspirational self-images.
I think a simpler way to say this would be, “autistics spend a lot of time online so their sense of self is rooted in their online persona”. If you don’t have a job or IRL friends, who will know you as Joe Blow? If you stream on Twitch, make furry porn, and have some caché in a remote Internet community, then you have a bunch of people referring to you as Lily Alice Athena Romanov III. Autistics may lack the social awareness of neurotypicals, but group consensus does affect them. If everyone you know treats you like XYZ, why wouldn’t that affect your self-concept?

For one reason or another that isn't quite clearly understood autistics have a higher propensity for developing paraphilias and fetishes. They tend to be more impressionable, gullible, and have a near OCD tendency to fixate on things (special interests/hyperfixation).
Another reason could be the need to seek extreme stimulus, similar to how some asocial personality types get into extreme things or drugs to compensate for their lack of normal response to what gets and keeps normal people going
Yes. One theory of autism is that it produces a monotrophic mind, that is, a mind with few interests and immense capacity to focus on said interests. That definitely conforms to what you’re saying regarding fetishes, repetition, etc. It even explains how a sperg like CWC remains fixated upon the same children’s toys and games from when he was a child, despite being a grown man.

As for fetishes… well, that’s complicated. I’ve seen lots of psychoanalytic breakdowns of fetishistic behaviour, and those can wax pretty poetic. Fetishes are barriers to true love, fetishes are rooted in trauma, fetishes replace the genitals in the mind of the fetishist, etc. I think there might be some logic there - especially for female autistics who find touching themselves to be overwhelming from a sensory perspective - the clitoris does have more nerve endings than any other human body part. However, I’m not especially partial to any theory that lacks a means of substantiating it.

Honestly? I think that evolutionary psychology is the best explanation of this sort of behaviour in male autists. I know evolpsych has been bastardized by midwit cunts looking to rationalize why they want to fuck barely legal blondes, but that doesn’t render the ideas stupid post-hoc. The fact that females have higher reproductive fitness than males means that the men have a good incentive to find visual shorthand for “available vagina”.

I sort of went into this in the Anisa / IDubbbz thread to explain why nerds like IDubbbz obsess over “alt” girls, but everyone there got mad because if you don’t pretend Anisa is the new Joe Merrick, you’re “simping” for her. OKCupid used to have page (that I cannot find and archive, mea culpa) where they explained how women with “divisive” appearances garnered more intense positive (and negative) reactions than plain janes who were merely “pretty”. In other words, a regular “pretty” girl would be rated a 6. A “goth” or “punk” girl would be rated either 1 or 10. Some men will call her disgusting trash, but another cohort of men will trip over themselves to talk to her.

I think that, from an evolutionary perspective, going after a girl with a more divisive appearance helps the man to limit competition. If most men and women concede that your girlfriend is “cute”, then there’s a world of potential threats. If half the male population goes, “ew, she has tattoos, yuck!” then you have half the competition you would have otherwise. I always assumed that the obsession with “big tiddy goth gfs” was rooted in the belief that such girls are unappealing to “chad” - males they can’t compete against - but amenable to nerds like themselves.

And that’s what I think a lot of fetishes are… cues that say which sexual targets are more likely to say yes to you, say no to other people, and keep men higher on the social hierarchy away. The fetish is a cue that means sex is possible or imminent, so it makes sense from a Darwinian perspective why men would have more fetishes and become horny when prompted by such stimuli.

With normal men, the cues are probably more subtle (ex. Hair twirling) compared to autistics. You made a good point about how some cohorts (ex. Antisocial PDs) need more intense stimuli to get off, and that could definitely be the case here. If an inflation scene in a cartoon lets you see a woman’s cleavage, that might be ingrained as short hand for seeing titties (archive here but it’s less the video and more the comments). I also think the lack of social skills means that they may struggle identifying what cues mean what. Goth girls might seem nice and accessible in children’s cartoons, but in reality, no frat boy is going to turn a hot chick away because she has purple lipstick. In reality, any chick who spends that much time on her makeup probably has high standards. There’s still this impulse or urge to identify possible mates, but it’s distorted by an over-reliance on representations of reality.

As for female autists, I think the Tumblr Sexyman fits this theory well. They see a bunch of cartoons where the skinny beanpole boy with a metrosexual haircut is the nice, accessible guy… and then wonder why so many other women want to fuck Timothy Charlamagne or Jughead or whatever. They’re looking for visual cues, but troll themselves by focusing on representations of reality rather than reality itself.

TLDR: The reason CWC has a thing for Meg Griffin is because he sees her as accessible, and this drive to find accessible females fosters the development of fetishes for these men. I knew a man with some pretty advanced degrees who worked with autistics, and he said that they tend to fall in love at first sight and be difficult to shake off. I think this is why.

They're also perfect cult targets. They're typically deeply unhappy,
Agreed. Transgenderism is a cult. Cults operate on lovebombing. If you’re a socially oblivious sperg with few friends, that could completely overwhelm and dupe you. Cults also appeal to “seekers”, or people looking for some grand narrative to explain their lives. Spergs often refuse socially appropriate explanations for things because said explanations are not justified enough in the sperg’s mind.

part of this is because helping them would involve explaining many human realities that our society actively tries to cover up on an institutional level
And those would be? Post on my profile or DM me if you think it’s off-topic.

It took a lot of "unlearning" of "normal" female behavior for me to start sticking up for myself again. And even if you're clear about not being interested, there are certain "types" of guys that don't take no for an answer.
Exactly. These dudes are by their nature obsessive. Tony “Erin in the Morn” Reed took the name of a girl he played with decades prior. Stalking is like a curse because it makes little sense, comes out of nowhere, and rarely lets up. If you’re a woman, risking having some freak obsessed with you for decades seems like a huge liability for… what…? Standing up for a coworker who doesn’t want to use the tranny’s preferred pronouns?

Usually only first year students live in the dorms, and only freaks become RAs because they can't find roommates due to being tattle-tale faggots that everyone hates
This. I had friends who lived in dorms, and while they liked the building and facilities, they were not allowed back for a second or third year. There was an understanding that, yeah, you gotta find classmates to board with. The only people I knew who were permitted to stay in residence for a longer period of time were those who took on administrative roles like being a “dorm mom”. You’re probably dead on about this guy.

He had HIS MOM come in and try to henpeck and handmaiden the other moms and his potential skinwalking victims into complying.
I’m getting a little MATI. Parents are supposed to help their children, not bully other children into accepting their dysfunctional brat’s outbursts.

I wish girls and young women would start slapping their big balls on the table to these tranny huns. Go on your social media, call the tranny by name, say i didnt want to do xyz when they asked me, they freaked out, they\he started acting weird, what should i do?
Im a little too much of a bitch, or too fucking gun wielding to care
I hope the bad girls band together and torture him a bit like we did to ours.
I agree with you guys - I too would love to see trannies get screamed at by angry mobs of women. The idea of Elliot Fong Jones getting on stage at some event for lesbians in tech or whatever and getting booed off stage makes me so happy.

With that said, I get why people - including women - are cowardly on this issue. Fong Jones just got a man fired from Meta over Christmas. If you’re a woman, a good punch to the orbital could kill or concuss you. Sure, America has guns, but women in the commonwealth (for example) don’t. Canadian women can’t even buy bear spray or mace to defend themselves - best they got is coyote mace ordered online. It’s hard to be brave and tell the truth when you’re a 5’3 unarmed woman. For better or for worse, people are often only as good at their societies permit them to be. For that reason, I doubt we’re going to see an uptick in women and girls spitting in the faces of these creeps, even though that would be based AF.
 

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I think that, from an evolutionary perspective, going after a girl with a more divisive appearances helps the man to limit competition. If most men and women concede that your girlfriend is “cute”, then there’s a world of potential threats. If half the male population goes, “ew, she has tattoos, yuck!” then you have half the competition you would have otherwise. I always assumed that the obsession with “big tiddy goth gfs” was rooted in the belief that such girls are unappealing to “chad” - males they can’t compete against - but amenable to nerds like themselves.
Also take into account the online aspect. People want more visual interest or what have you to make up for the fact it's not a full experience like IRL. If you're terminally nerdy you might also be drawn to the prospect of someone sharing similar interests, which some alt girls do.

What characters draw in fangirls also have a fair bit to do with what their story represents more so than just a appearance.
 
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No wonder the "Latinx" bullshit didn't catch on. If I remember correctly from my secondary school Spanish lessons, a mixed group is always referred to by the masculine pronoun, so "Latino" is more inclusive than "Latina", but... that wasn't affirming enough for the genderblobs, so they tried to create an entirely new definition that was in no way anchored to the grammatical structure of the language and thus rejected by virtually all Spanish-speaking people.
Yeah, the masculine form is the default/neutral for mixed groups. But it didn't stop them from trying to fuck with it. There's people who try to use @ to replace the variable letter (as in, "amig@s" rather than "amigos/amigas"), and depending on the location you're likely to see that in official-but-trying-to-sound-casual communications by governments and organizations (never in formal text). I remember early on, some publications got such backlash for this, they doubled down and started using the feminine as not just the neutral, but for everyone. Of course, it was received even worse.

But the real fuckheads, the true believers, are still to this day trying to replace the variable letter with an "e" (as in, "amigues" rather than "amigos/amigas"). And let me tell you, it sounds abhorrent, because it often loads a lot of words with "e" (since the articles, adjectives, etc, have to coincide with the noun's gender), making it sound monotonous and unnatural.
Fortunately, everyone else not ideologically captured tends to make fun of it.
 
"Coping mechanisms for political anxiety"
The pooner's own words, not some snarky analysis. 8)
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What makes you guys feel better with all the hate? What's your go to coping? Here's what I remind myself of, though I'm hoping some suggestions will also be activities
  1. We will always exist, this could all be the dying scream of the last of the patriarchy
  2. There are amazing people out there that have our backs
  3. Other countries have our backs
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I'm guessing this is from the USA in the aftermath of the popular vote for genocide.

Listed in ascending order of laughability.
The notion of other countries "having their backs"? :lit:
 
Why do some people here post screenshots but not links? All of this is more interesting if you can follow through to the link to find out more about the person in question.


For instance, if you were wondering why this weird girl was having so many scary bathroom encounters, this might go a long way towards answering that question:

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I see some similarities in facial structure; could this be the same individual who was recently featured on Soft White Underbelly?


Am I imagining things, or do you guys think this could be her?
 
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