Colleen was already over 1000 pounds by the time she met Emily, they lived in different states and Emily visited for a short amount of time, did she really murder her, or did Colleen choose her path long before Emily came along?
Emily is weird AF and it was obvious a long time ago during her brief "break up" with Amberlynn that she was willing to lie and play the game with Amber, those messages a haydur put out where Emily is talking abt wanting to see her Colleen again and suicide baiting blah blah blah.
Calling Emily a murderer absolves Colleen of personal accountability and all the many life choices she made in the forty years leading up to meeting Emily.
It's the same with Amberlynn, people are saying Emily will kill her, when Amberlynn is just doing what she's been doing since the start of her YT channel.
She starts a diet or weight loss routine and quickly finds excuses to stop, it's got nothing to do with Emily, this is just who Amberlynn is and who she'll always be.