Culture The Surprising Condiment My Mom Uses to Make the Best Grilled Cheese - Hint: It's not Mayo!

Over Thanksgiving weekend, my family was tired of digging into leftovers. They were delicious, but you can only eat so many turkey, stuffing, gravy, and cranberry sauce sandwiches. Luckily, we were staying with my parents, and my mom, as always, was ready to start pumping some different snacks out of the kitchen.

This is tradition throughout the holidays in my family. The key is keeping things simple: cooking things that require little equipment and effort, and whipping up recipes that can be made in bulk for a large group to share in a casual, “take what you want, when you want it” buffet style.

You never know what my mom is going to come up with once she gets on a roll. We’re intuitive cooks, and that makes us wildcards in the kitchen! It could be toast, scrambled eggs, and bacon made with leftover holiday ingredients, a few homemade pizzas made with dough and sauce she found in the freezer—or in the case of this past Thanksgiving, a platter full of crispy, crunchy, melty grilled cheeses. But she made them in a way I hadn't experienced in over a decade. I forgot how much I love my mom’s grilled cheese sandwiches made with her secret ingredient.

How My Mom Makes the Best Grilled Cheese​

We’ve all seen the internet craze over grilled cheese with mayonnaise. Call me biased, but nothing can match up to my mom’s grilled cheese with mustard! Before you scrunch up your nose to this approach, remember how skeptical many of us were about adding mayonnaise, and the pleasant surprise that awaited us once we tested it out for ourselves.

The strong flavor and acidity from mustard elevates everything about a grilled cheese sandwich, from the toasty flavor and crunchy golden texture of the bread to the distinct flavors of whatever cheese you opt for. A thin layer of mustard, along with some butter, adds a distinct tangy, and subtle spicy flavor to the sandwich, which compliments and cuts through the richness of the melty, gooey cheese. It’s a simple method but adds so much complexity to the traditional bread, butter, and cheese combo. You have to try it for yourself to understand just how delicious grilled cheese with mustard can be!


Mom’s Tips For Mustard Grilled Cheese​

  • Use our favorite mustard. If you ask my mom, the best mustard to add to grilled cheese, hands down, is Dijon. It’s her go-to, and she’s the pro here! The spiciness and acidity of Dijon mustard cuts through the cheese’s fat, and creates a balance of intense flavor and creamy texture that actually makes it hard to stop digging to. Trust me, I’ve done the leg work! If you’re not a Dijon fan, spicy brown mustard is another great option. The spice won’t be overpowering with either of these mustards, so don’t worry about bringing the heat if you don’t love spicy food.
  • Choose the best bread. You can never go wrong with sliced white bread for grilled cheese. This is the classic, the safe option, and always reliable. If you’re looking to switch it up, Dijon mustard grilled cheese also tastes delicious on earthy and nutty rye, slightly tangy sourdough, rich brioche, or thick cut Texas toast.
  • Pair your cheese wisely. My mom always makes more than a few classic grilled cheese sandwiches with sliced yellow American cheese. But when she’s putting her platter together, she (and everyone else) also loves the balance of Swiss, provolone, gouda, or sharp Cheddar. Rich and nutty cheeses pair beautifully with acidic and tangy mustard on crunchy, golden bread.
  • Get fancy with some fixins’! There’s nothing wrong with a classic. But if you’re throwing together a few different options, see what you have in the kitchen and get a little creative. Some ideas from my family’s kitchen to yours include sliced apple or tomato, caramelized onion, crisp bacon, savory prosciutto, or slightly spicy arugula.
source: https://www.allrecipes.com/moms-grilled-cheese-with-mustard-8779494
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This is stupid. I hate this braindead type of shit from sites like allrecipes and kitchn. "You can add mustard to grilled cheese 🥴" Well no shit, I can add whatever I want. The mayo thing was different altogether; you spread it on the outside to toast it. Handy tip if you don't have butter.

But I guess I need to watch out- they're intuitive cooks, wildcards in the kitchen! They might be making toast! Or scrambled eggs and bacon! Maybe even leftovers! Wow.
 
I like to take a few extra chik fil a sauce packets home and butter the side of the bread facing the cheese on a grilled cheese. Neat little trick, try it
 
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This is how you make a grilled cheese. Put some butter in the frying pan. Let it melt. Put some bread in the pan. Preferably white bread. Then put some cheese on one and cover it with the other piece of bread with the buttered side out. Now just don't let it get dark brown or black. Keep flipping it every so often till the cheese is melted.

That's how my mom made them. It's how I make them. It's not rocket science.
 
This is how you make a grilled cheese. Put some butter in the frying pan. Let it melt. Put some bread in the pan. Preferably white bread. Then put some cheese on one and cover it with the other piece of bread with the buttered side out. Now just don't let it get dark brown or black. Keep flipping it every so often till the cheese is melted.

That's how my mom made them. It's how I make them. It's not rocket science.
This is how I do them up. I like to throw ham and fried egg in there too. Oh, and tomatoes if I have them.
 
There are 2 perfect grilled cheeses adding mustard probably seems not that bad.

The first way and the classic is American cheese/Velveeta and mayo on texas toast served with tomato soup on the side.

The best ultimate way is to make an Italian grilled cheese but use fresh mozzarella, basil and tomatoes with your grilled cheese and use mayo or a garlic aoli works too. Serve with tomato basil soup on the side.

No I will not argue any other points these are the 2 best ways.
 
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There are 2 perfect grilled cheeses adding mustard probably seems not that bad.

The first way and the classic is American cheese/Velveeta and mayo on texas toast served with tomato soup on the side.

The best ultimate way is to make an Italian grilled cheese but use fresh mozzarella, basil and tomatoes with your grilled cheese and use mayo or a garlic aoli works too. Serve with tomato basil soup on the side.

No I will not argue any other points these are the 2 best ways.
That second one is similar to what I often make. But add fresh garlic instead and throw in some ham or pepperoni. Sometimes add some goat cheese to the mix. Basically a grilled cheese pizza.
 
That second one is similar to what I often make. But add fresh garlic instead and throw in some ham or pepperoni. Sometimes add some goat cheese to the mix. Basically a grilled cheese pizza.
Fresh garlic is a given but no meat, this should be a vegetarian friendly dish.
This should be the dish that can wean your vegan gf/bf into normal vegetarianism.
 
Fresh garlic is a given but no meat, this should be a vegetarian friendly dish.
This should be the dish that can wean your vegan gf/bf into normal vegetarianism.
Frying some mushrooms and onions ahead to add to it would work with the author's dijon idea, I think.
 
Mustard (and relish) on a certain cheese sandwich is not uncommon, but those are usually in the bun and not burnt onto the outside. I can’t imagine Dijon would do more than turn to carbon after enough heat to melt cheese.
 
People here are overcomplicating a fucking GRILLED CHEESE.

* Two pieces of bread
* Two slices of Kraft American Cheese Flavored Square
* A fucking pan
* Butter

~Preheat your pan
~Butter one side of the bread
~Put your Kraft on the non buttered side of the bread
~Slap the bread, butter side down, on the heated pan
~While this is cooking, butter another piece of bread
~Place buttered bread on top, butter side out
~Flip with spatula, you may use two spatulae if you are an uncoordinated faggot (I won't tell)
~If all goes well, you will at this point have nearly-melted cheese and a nice, crispy tan-to-brown crust on the top piece. If undercooked, flip again after 2-3 minutes and cook for another 45-60 seconds
~Let cool for 1-2 minutes
~Sink your teeth into that sumbitch
 
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