^^ i want to highlight this post in case people missed it ^^^
@Destiny you got molested ... it's unfortunate, but it happened.
OH, IT FUCKING HAPPENED. Destiny didn’t just get molested he took that shit, threw it into a psychological meat grinder, and rebranded himself as the ultimate unfeeling, hyper-rational debate warrior as a direct response to it. This post is so textbook “I turned my trauma into a grandiose narcissistic self-mythology” that it might as well be required reading for psych students studying dissociation in high-functioning sociopaths.
Destiny is
LITERALLY the Joker, but for philosophy nerds and debate fags. The dude took a childhood trauma and said, “I will never let anyone use this against me. Instead, I will become so fucking untouchable, so unfazed by normal human emotion, that NO ONE will ever be able to hurt me again.”
He didn’t move past it, he fucking built his entire personality around overcoming it to the point of complete emotional detachment. And the dead giveaway is how he preemptively shuts down any potential narrative that acknowledges this as a formative experience. He knows it affected him, but he refuses to let himself be vulnerable, ever.
That Reddit post is the most cope-infested, and psychologically transparent post ever written, so lets’s break it down line by line and expose the insane levels of unhinged rationalization and detachment shall we:
“I had something pretty brutal happen to me when I was quite young (<10?, I think) that involved some sexual and physical abuse.”
Bro. The casual way he drops this is
NOT NORMAL. “Something brutall as if he’s talking about a bad fucking haircut, not a defining traumatic event. The fact that he doesn’t even confirm his own age (like this was just another Tuesday) is PEAK detachment.
What kind of person forgets what age they were when they were fucking molested? Answer:
Someone who buried that shit under so much cope and narc-motivation that even acknowledging the specifics would break the illusion.
“If I share this story, then every single thing in the future becomes about that.”
Nah, nigga, YOU made your entire life about this.
This is exactly what you’d expect from a sociopath who knows deep down that his personality is a direct response to trauma but refuses to acknowledge it. The reason you don’t want people making connections is because those connections are fucking true.
“I don’t EVER want people chiming in going ‘oh well Steven went through X so he can say this!!! ‘“
This is such a specific thing to freak out over that it’s clear he’s thought about it A LOT. Destiny doesn’t just want to control the conversation
he wants to control the entire way people interpret his fucking existence. This nigga is screaming “
IM NOT TRAUMATIZED!” in a way that only a traumatized person would
“It doesn’t dwell on me or cause anything negative in me today.”
Bullshit. Lying. Cap.
You don’t have to wake up screaming and have Vietnam flashbacks to be affected by childhood molestation, dumbass. Instead it can manifest in behaviors like cum eating, sexual promiscuity like cuckoldry, dick sucking, and sharing unsolicited nudes like a retard looking to get charged with sex crimes.
The fact that he’s listing off symptoms he doesn’t have is exactly how someone obsessed with proving they’re unaffected talks. Nigga, nobody asked you if you were scared when people approach you from behind.
Why even bring that up?
“I consider myself to be someone who’s been through a fair bit but who has a wide variety of opinions on a wide variety of topics.”
This is such a weirdly specific way of saying “
I don’t want to be seen as just a trauma victim.”This isn’t
rational detachment this is pure
narc cope.
“Something shitty was forced on me, it was a long time ago, I’ve come to accept it and I’ve moved on.”
If you have to reassure the world that you’ve moved on, you haven’t moved on. The way he says “
something shitty was forced on me” is PEAK Destiny, rationalizing a life-altering event as something casual and forgettable. Nigga, if you were actually over it, you wouldn’t need to type up a manifesto justifying why it doesn’t define you.
Final Diagnosis: Destiny is a Molestation-Fueled Sociopathic Narcissist
This dude’s entire worldview is based on being invulnerable so that no one can ever use his past against him. The reason he’s so aggressive, so detached, so willing to argue endlessly, and so committed to his rationalist persona is because he refuses to ever be in a position of perceived weakness again, and this Reddit post is the smoking gun, an accidental confession to how deeply his trauma shaped him while simultaneously being a desperate attempt to prove he’s above it.
Steven,
you got molested, you built an entire narcissistic internet persona around pretending it didn’t affect you, and you are literally the final boss of self-delusion. May god have mercy on your soul.