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You should get that autism stuff checked out
Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious
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Mmm, okay. Those are not relationships but OK.
But anyway...putting aside my skepticism, are you happy with these interactions?
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They're nice, I always happily talk about my hobbies and comics when someone asks about them.
And I go often enough, and bring a variety of comics that every waitress I get usually asks about the different comics I bring.
One did notice I tend to read alot of noir stuff though
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Oh, Im retarded, apologies. Yeah, most last about a year and 4 months before they suddenly move away, or we decide it wont work out, and split up.
Most times its an amiable break up
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HEY MAN, SOMETIMES A MAN WANTS TO SHOW OFF HIS COLLECTIONYou should get that autism stuff checked out
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You sound curiously detached from your personal interactions. You went from "girls come to my room and announce we're dating and I say "oh"" to "yeah, those relationships last over a year then disappear*."
* year and 4 months is oddly specific. You're sure autism is not a factor? How often does this occur?
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I guess I wasnt all too into it now that you bring it up. and a year and 4 months, because I sometimes get reminders because of old photos I took and forgot to delete.
But I think its mostly because my previous relationships, they didn't really like the same things I did, like I would wanna go to comic shops and conventions, but they didn't. I was a doting boyfriend though, I went on dates, we went to parks, etc etc
I guess what I'm looking for now is someone I can truly share my hobby with.
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Pretty sure this is a bit, or a larp.
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What are some good pointers that a girl's into me that I wouldn't know unless looking for them? I'm not trying to become some 48 laws of power type, but I feel like I could use some help when knowing when someone's into me, because sometimes I feel I read the room wrong and either am not or am being flirted with.
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You'll know and you won't have to look for them.
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It usually is, not gonna lie. I'm not so much desperate as I am just waiting for the opportunity, but it helps to know how not to be an autist and fuck myself over.
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Stop "waiting for the opportunity". Go out and live your life, we have such a short run on this earth, far too short to waste it trying to find a mate. Have fun and be you. Become someone worth dating, before you try to convince a woman to date you.
Women aren't like men. We don't play the numbers game, we aren't quickly running through every man in the vicinity to see who we can bag.
If a woman likes you, she likes you. It takes time for a woman to develop feelings, and you're not going to lose her because you didn't "act at the first opportunity" or whatever the fuck it is you men imagine.
Relax, and be kind and engaging to all women. If a woman likes you and she flirts with you, even if you miss it the first time, because you're a decent guy who is invested in living a good life, she'll try again. (Flirting isn't a lost cause even if the man doesn't respond, it can be enjoyable in itself. Men are very goal-orientated, so it might be hard to understand, but you'll have to trust me on this.)
We know when we're being targeted and we can tell when a man is being kind to us to get laid but is otherwise an arsehole to women, and it's offputting as fuck.
There's no point in trying to outdo us socially, because we were born miles ahead of you already. There's no secret code to all women, because we're complicated.
All you can do is be yourself, be decent, and be able to handle life in the moment.
Don't waste your time prepping for an opportunity which is never guaranteed to come.
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Thanks, I'll bare that in mind.
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Are you OK? This is suspiciously optimistic.
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you got me, I did exaggerate some things
But the me being dense and showing women comics was real, I probably am autistic
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It seems we need to have the talk again about the value men place on social interaction versus the value women place on social interaction.
A straight male who actively attempts to obtain the attention of an unknown and unrelated woman is doing so because he finds her sexually appealing. One hundred percent. No exceptions. Males do not ever, ever, impulsively strike up conversation with old ladies, women they find ugly or women they have decided are FATTTT for any reason. They do not do it. It does not serve their goal of getting peepee wet, so they do not assign energy to the task. A man does not speak to or acknowledge a woman he does not find a sexually acceptable prospect. The attention of a male you do not know is a sexual approach, always. Men view social interaction as a process leading to a clear goal.
Women do not. Women view social interaction the way a fish thinks about water. It is what we do reflexively, without thinking about it, all of the fucking time. Posts appear on the farms constantly with posters complaining they don't speak to another human for days at a time. This does not happen to women, because we would not fail to start interaction for interaction's sake. It would be terrible. We chat and make eye contact and smile and all that shit with actual randoms because it is how we are. Of course there is the odd exception but there are way more chatty Cathys than exceptions to that rule. The majority of female friendships have begun with one of you saying to a perfect stranger that you just fucking love her shoes, or her hair, or some other thing like that. We seek social connection all the time.
If a woman has offered a straight male social interaction of that type, casual small talk or whatever, it means absolutely fucking nothing. Sod all. The fact a man would have done it as a preliminary sexual approach means absolutely nothing because women behave entirely differently. A woman is not flirting with you because she spoke to you, because she asked you a question, because she smiled, because she made eye contact. Women do that with pensioners and babies and dogs. It has no sexual meaning whatsoever. When we say 'you will know if a woman is hitting on you', it is because there is no possible fucking way you will be able to mistake it for normal polite social interaction. You will genuinely not be able to misread the signal, as often it will involve a direct request to have sex. Stop thinking that women think and act like males. They don't.
A straight male who actively attempts to obtain the attention of an unknown and unrelated woman is doing so because he finds her sexually appealing. One hundred percent. No exceptions. Males do not ever, ever, impulsively strike up conversation with old ladies, women they find ugly or women they have decided are FATTTT for any reason. They do not do it. It does not serve their goal of getting peepee wet, so they do not assign energy to the task. A man does not speak to or acknowledge a woman he does not find a sexually acceptable prospect. The attention of a male you do not know is a sexual approach, always. Men view social interaction as a process leading to a clear goal.
Women do not. Women view social interaction the way a fish thinks about water. It is what we do reflexively, without thinking about it, all of the fucking time. Posts appear on the farms constantly with posters complaining they don't speak to another human for days at a time. This does not happen to women, because we would not fail to start interaction for interaction's sake. It would be terrible. We chat and make eye contact and smile and all that shit with actual randoms because it is how we are. Of course there is the odd exception but there are way more chatty Cathys than exceptions to that rule. The majority of female friendships have begun with one of you saying to a perfect stranger that you just fucking love her shoes, or her hair, or some other thing like that. We seek social connection all the time.
If a woman has offered a straight male social interaction of that type, casual small talk or whatever, it means absolutely fucking nothing. Sod all. The fact a man would have done it as a preliminary sexual approach means absolutely nothing because women behave entirely differently. A woman is not flirting with you because she spoke to you, because she asked you a question, because she smiled, because she made eye contact. Women do that with pensioners and babies and dogs. It has no sexual meaning whatsoever. When we say 'you will know if a woman is hitting on you', it is because there is no possible fucking way you will be able to mistake it for normal polite social interaction. You will genuinely not be able to misread the signal, as often it will involve a direct request to have sex. Stop thinking that women think and act like males. They don't.
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If you missed this the first time, here it is again:
The problem is a lot of you faggots are so unappealing no woman has ever desired you, but none of you have any friends apart from your mother, so no one has told you how gross and unappealing you are, which is why you all imagine that women are flirting with you and you're just missing the signals.
You're not. No one likes you and you'll probably die alone.
Maybe instead pick up skydiving and enroll in a course to become a stonemason or something so you can be useful to society until you die in a tragic accident.
The problem is a lot of you faggots are so unappealing no woman has ever desired you, but none of you have any friends apart from your mother, so no one has told you how gross and unappealing you are, which is why you all imagine that women are flirting with you and you're just missing the signals.
You're not. No one likes you and you'll probably die alone.
Maybe instead pick up skydiving and enroll in a course to become a stonemason or something so you can be useful to society until you die in a tragic accident.
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Not to mention that the woman in question is a waitress. If you’re in hospitality/retail/any sort of customer service, part of that is being paid to be nice to people. Smile at them and make conversation. Of course there are customers you can genuinely enjoy speaking to, but it is still a server/customer dynamic. When I was waitressing years back, I had semi-regular male customers try and ask me for my number right there, in the middle of work (do not fucking do this, jesus christ).