Medieval Dynasty.
No niggers.
No faggot shit.
Combat is wolves, bears, bison, and bandits.
You create your village and do odd things for whatever arsehole is sitting on the far distant throne until you become a very minor noble.
You get married. You have a kid. So do your villagers.
When your heir hits 18 "you" retire to potter around your town as whatever you are best at, and the player starts playing as your son instead.
It ain't flashy, you ain't the chosen one saving the world and battling armies, you're just a peasant made good. Story line is pretty good too.
Edit to add: The tutorial videos by one of the team are worth a watch regardless. She's got one hell of a sexy voice.