Some studies have suggested that domestic violence particularly within black relationships leans more towards being bidirectional than just mainly perpetrated by men. Men are often too embarrassed to admit their women beat them or just man up and endure through it while keeping their mouths shut because they believe that's what men do. Both men and women participate in the violence, and in many cases it's the women that instigate and keep pushing until the man hits back.
You've seen how aggressive some black women are (a behavior that is cheered on and encouraged by the majority of black women), you are aware that the black community is a matriarchy that often produces subservient son-husbands and concu-serf men, one of your girlfriends tells you you're a pussy for not hitting her (which black men have heard themselves.) and then you say that drug addled and addicted black men are the reason for the higher domestic violence rates? lol
In the black community, often takes two to tango, but one side is allowed to be a lot more vocal about what happens behind closed doors (and in public).
