Community Munchausen's by Internet (Malingerers, Munchies, Spoonies, etc) - Feigning Illnesses for Attention

Flourishing Pinecone ❧ said:
also I happened to find Dad, he's Gerry Tuohy and owns some kind of steel fabrication company. his previous business address listing was the same as Tilly/Kate's stack of company names she registered.
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Thanks for checking on that. I was curious how these sick, skinny maidens managed to stay well attired with drinks in hand when their occupation is mostly laying bed, narcissism and doctors appointments.

The husband/ boyfriend component, if it exists, in munchie land is always fascinating but usually not well documented because the men aren’t desperate the attention seekers, just written as NPCs in the drama.


Kate Farms Shill said:
192: Tilly has been spoiled and coddled by her father for her entire life. 193: This continues through her hospitalization even when she just screams for hours. 194: Her disease is going to fuck off again so she can see Mary Poppins on stage.
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Fathers are also more susceptible to manipulations and indulgences of daughters vs sons.

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It’s got to be x10 worse if the wife has already oiled him up with her own sick maiden in bed LARP and plays along with the daughter’s BS. He thinks his poor sick ladies would be lost without him.
The Jewel of the Nile said:
I wonder what kind of rich people hobby Tilly indulges in on the weekends. Surely, she’s not pretending to be sick 24/7 (or just calling those moments 'miraculous flare-downs'), and I just can’t picture her sitting around watching random Bri’ish TV slop
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Pills, booze, scrolling IG, looking at her own IG content, taking photos of herself, planning photos she wants to take of herself and where to go to take them. Shopping or looking at things to buy. Looking up more info about various diseases and chronic conditions she can pretend to have.
 
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Someone asked if Fibromyalgia is a real thing . Well yes and no in Finland. When doctors get that "no clue" moment they stamp Fibromyalgia and sends patient to occupational therapy.

Then that same patient has a legit reason to see a doctor and won't be taken seriously do to fibromyalgia diagnosis.

Also rare neurological conditions/syndromes /diseases usually gets the fibro- label.

Less money spent to treat patients is lots of money saved. That's universal- conservative healthcare.
 
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HAHAHA of course he's called fucking HUGO.

I bet he has friends called Piers, Jeremy and "Pongo".

EDIT: He's an "Investment Consultant" working for a pension fund. He does exactly the financial services non-job that I predicted.

 
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Anti_munchie32 said:
Well guys, Amy Lee Fisher has kicked the bucket. She passed away on April Fools Day. She passed away from heart failure due to her ED. She was using Gastroparesis as a coverup for her ED. She brought this upon herself. Yes, I feel sorry for her husband, but at least he’s free from her insane munchie ass. She was a another Chronically Jaquie copycat and she died from doing so.
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I know that this post is going to be old news. I wanted to clarify that Amy Lee Fisher was a legit chronic illness sufferer who actually hated Jaquie Beckwith aka Chronically Jaquie. I confused Amy with Jaquie in my previous post. I feel so bad for Tom who used to be her boyfriend. I was not thinking clearly when I made the previous post and I apologize if I came off as a cold hearted bitty. Chronically Jaquie was a fraud, not Amy Lee Fisher.
 
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PinkDancingDogs said:
The boyfriend is real. I was looking at his Linkedin the other day. He's boring. Name Hugo Gravell Linkedin
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I wonder if he, or another guy, will end up marrying the sick wittle Oxford grad. She thinks the Oxford degree should shore up a rich husband. Tilly obviously cannot work but needs someone to finance her influencer lifestyle and medical adventures. Will she find someone other than Dad to subsidize the Oxford Girl lifestyle?

It’s one thing if you hook up with a seemingly normal girl who then goes full munchie on you. It’s another if you sign up when she’s already in full munch mode.

One of my first, and only, IRL experiences with a munchie was a guy I knew who hooked up with an obvious munchie loon. He was a nice guy, actually young hippie type guy running a landscaping business, in great shape. I could only figure he really thought he was the big, strong guy that was going to take care of this poor, sick girl. Why he wanted to do that was a mystery, she was very average in all aspects. After dating for awhile they had to move to Washington were she could get the “special care” she really needed, or some BS like that.

This isn’t just my cynical suspicion she had a documented history of scamming people by using all BS health problem stories. An actual sick woman would have x100 better than this sick-in-the-head grifter demon.
 
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MirnaMinkoff said:
I wonder if he, or another guy, will end up marrying the sick wittle Oxford grad. She thinks the Oxford degree should shore up a rich husband. Tilly obviously cannot work but needs someone to finance her influencer lifestyle and medical adventures. Will she find someone other than Dad to subsidize the Oxford Girl lifestyle?

It’s one thing if you hook up with a seemingly normal girl who then goes full munchie on you. It’s another if you sign up when she’s already in full munch mode.

One of my first, and only, IRL experiences with a munchie was a guy I knew who hooked up with an obvious munchie loon. He was a nice guy, actually young hippie type guy running a landscaping business, in great shape. I could only figure he really thought he was the big, strong guy that was going to take care of this poor, sick girl. Why he wanted to do that was a mystery, she was very average in all aspects. After dating for awhile they had to move to Washington were she could get the “special care” she really needed, or some BS like that.

This isn’t just my cynical suspicion she had a documented history of scamming people by using all BS health problem stories. An actual sick woman would have x100 better than this sick-in-the-head grifter demon.
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I'm guessing he enjoys her being away at this point--but I may be projecting. I'm not sure the appeal for the caretaking sort of boyfriends and spouses we see. I'm sure that there is much manipulation happening behind the scenes. Just like she manipulates doctors and her insta audience, she found whatever thing will keep him hanging on. I think that when they started dating she likely seemed like her ailments affected her a little less. Clearly she was still able to go out drinking and celebrating with their Oxford friends. Interestingly, his brother raised money for one of her earlier diseases (how I found the bf). The brother also posted about her publishing her book on his linked in--I mean clearly she has the whole family snowed.
 
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PinkDancingDogs said:
I'm guessing he enjoys her being away at this point--but I may be projecting. I'm not sure the appeal for the caretaking sort of boyfriends and spouses we see. I'm sure that there is much manipulation happening behind the scenes. Just like she manipulates doctors and her insta audience, she found whatever thing will keep him hanging on. I think that when they started dating she likely seemed like her ailments affected her a little less. Clearly she was still able to go out drinking and celebrating with their Oxford friends. Interestingly, his brother raised money for one of her earlier diseases (how I found the bf). The brother also posted about her publishing her book on his linked in--I mean clearly she has the whole family snowed.
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NPD people (and cluster Bs in general) are the masters of love-bombing. The first two weeks they were dating probably convinced him she was the one for ever and ever. I reckon she told him that "just being around you makes my pain go away" so he felt like the best guy in the world. Then, slowly, her "symptoms" would get worse. And because he is the magic provider of pain-relief-by-proximity, he has to be roped in to all her hospital drama and everything else. Then, after a while, he somehow doesn't relieve her pain like he used to - and she makes it clear that she considers this *his* fault, for not loving her enough. He has to love her more. Do more. Be there more. Publish her book. Drive her to her appointments. Take her to expensive dinners at unaffordable restaurants full of braying toffs. You don't want to be a bad boyfriend, do you? To abandon someone just because they are sick? That would be MONSTROUS. You stay. You stay and help because she needs you and she depends on you and you keep letting her down you selfish asshat. Those friends of yours? I don't like them. When you go away there's nobody to help me go to the toilet, while you go on the piss with Ollie and Piers and Jeremy. Jeremy doesn't think my diseases are real. He's toxic. You stay away from him. You are committed to me now. Me. Only me. Now fetch me some Buck's Fizz.
 
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PinkDancingDogs said:
Clearly she was still able to go out drinking and celebrating with their Oxford friends. Interestingly, his brother raised money for one of her earlier diseases (how I found the bf). The brother also posted about her publishing her book on his linked in--I mean clearly she has the whole family snowed.
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Did he graduate from Oxford too? Im not signing into LinkedIn to find his deets.

He’s a “financial consultant” maybe he’s hoping to get her dad to make some “good investments” instead of pissing his money away on quacks.
 
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MirnaMinkoff said:
Did he graduate from Oxford too? Im not signing into LinkedIn to find his deets.

He’s a “financial consultant”
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Yes, in Economics and Management. He was even captain of their cricket club.

He's an investment actuary, and a Fellow of the Institute of Actuaries. You have to take a ridiculous number of exams to qualify as an actuary, its not an easy job, and getting the FIA after his name will have required a bunch of extra work.

It probably helps to have a partner feigning sick in another country while doing all that, if they were a normal person at home they might want to like, go out or something, spend time in your company.

I'm not sure what an investment actuary is, in my head all actuarial work is about calculating when people will die so pensions and life insurance companies can make sure they make enough profit.

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donksmanSupreme42 said:
pretending to pretend ur sick? how does that work

can u even pretend to pretend to do something
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I mean, like pretending to their online audience that they are having for instance, extreme low potassium and they're in the ER. but really they haven't been purging or anything to achieve this ,it's not happening at all and they're just pretending.
A 'real' munchausen's patient would be purging over and over until they tanked their electrolytes dangerously then turn up at ER for real.
Online audience doesn't see a difference but one is much more likely to accidentally kill themselves.
 
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