See. Here we go with the over sensationalism that we can’t seem to get over since 2020. But this is why my creator friends privately recommended I get consent recorded- and we live in a single party consent recording state, so after the insanity of last year… guess what?
I did
Little does this performative person who is chalking up what was just a bad date (yeah, I hated being there and literally asked her to leave multiple times) as something horrible- guess what? I voice message recorded our entire conversation that she’s talking about, and it exposes her for all her lies.
But fuck it, she wants to harm my career, so let’s expose her:
-“couch was wet”- yes the cleaners just left before we got there
-“camera in room”- yes, as a public figure, I have a security system
-“touched leg after she said “no””- beyond incorrect. I made a move, she looked at me odd, I pulled away and asked if it was okay and she specifically said “yes”. So I did it again and she said “no I didn’t mean yes like that, I meant it was okay that it happened” so I removed my hand. Mixed signals used to be “okay let’s move on” but in 2025, this evidently means the R word in our insane internet culture.
-“intentionally bumping into her and touching during house tour”- I literally have no idea what she’s talking about, and lucky for me I have a security system to prove it.
-“asked to take a bath or massage”- I tried to make a move ladies and gents. A HORRID thing to do. She rejected, and I was okay with it and moved on. Again, it’s 2025, so it means the R word I guess. And no, I did not ask her to take a bath in front of me wtf lol
-“sat down angry when she said no”- this is when I started recording because I know exactly how this BS works in todays cancelation economy. I sat down and was confused, because when I suggested anything, including just leaving, she said no. So I was puzzled and started to become concerned.
-“trying to go to a weird dirt patch”- I eventually asked if she’d like to go for a walk since she wouldn’t leave, and in no way did I want to go go an hour long dinner with this woman. We went on a walk. My neighborhood doesn’t have side walks and cars were passing by close, so I suggested we walk in the small park near my place instead of the dark street with no visibility. Crazy shit. And yes I made a joke, something I’m known for never doing.
-“asking sexual questions”- because she couldn’t tell me what she wanted to do and wouldn’t say if the suggestions were bad if because she felt uncomfortable being sexual or something else, this is where I did the ADULT thing and literally ASKED. Also known as consent. Which again, in 2025, is now the R word because everything is over sensationalized.
-at this point I asked if I could call an uber for her and pay for it. No way i wanted to drive with this woman at that point. She was incapable of communicating anything and was weird the whole time and super sketchy… obviously I’m not surprised now.
-and now I guess the uber driver was a creep too. Maybe she just can’t operate in society. Shocked.
-“asked her on a second date”- I had no intention to ever see this woman again. I was being nice and suggested maybe we could get coffee sometime.
-“seems this might be a patter- what? Making a move and being okay when it’s rejected? How evil. Potentially having consensual hook ups? What a disgusting thing! This woman is a literal child who clearly is incapable of existing in society if a bad date creates a response like this.
And because of people like her, I now have literally recorded consent for every sexual experience since last year because our culture is INSANE right now. Thank you to my creator friend behind the scenes who have recommended this. So if this is a “repeated pattern”, which no one has ever said, then good lucky lady- I know how the cancelation economy works. I’ve studied it. And I have all the proof I could ever need.
On top of that, nearly ever major cancelation in this past year has been refuted with facts and the attention seeking accuser loses all respect and possibilities for careers. But I think they deserve it. You try to ruin someone’s life with BS, you get what you are owed.
And I’m happy the teams on bumble and match have dealt with this situation and have unbanned me.
We need to end this over sensationalized performance bullshit. Bad dates happen. We all have an awkward experience. That night was one for me. We all survive.
Her name is Madison. She moved home in her mid twenties with her parents and refuses to get a new job after being fired. She’s a failure in life. Her last date was 2 years ago and told me she “doesn’t trust men”. I should have taken all the red flags and ran.
Girl, you are reading this- we had an awkward date. I hated it. You hated it. I tried to make a move and you said no. It ended at that. I didn’t go to dinner because you were unable to hold a conversation and I didn’t want to sit across from you. I literally had to call and uber and force you to leave. With the security cams and voice recording worth about 20 minutes of conversation, you’re literally about to destroy your life trying to get your 30 seconds. But it’s not like much was going on for you anyway. Good luck.
But for what it’s worth, she is going through a hard time. She was fired from her job a few weeks ago. We can give her some slack there. It’s also worth nothing that everyone at work can attest to the fact that I told every single one of them the next day how bad this date was and how weird she was.
