Milo was a victim in one regard. He had sex with a much older man who absolutely knew what he did was completely wrong. No 14 year old could really be seen as giving consent to sexual contact with a much older person. The much older person knew that such a relationship was wrong in the first place. Whether or not Milo will ever admit he was abused in this regard is up to him and how he deals with this incident. Every abuse victim has a way of dealing with it. Some are even damaged enough to make jokes about it, sadly.
My sympathy ends about here.
Too me this is Milo's Character finally biting him in the ass. Milo does not seem real to me and for the most part, everything about him is a lie to me. He is a troll who plays a villain to have people gasp and shriek in horror from his absurd or increasingly edgy statements. There used to be "Shock Jocks" a long time ago on the radio. Some still have shows. Milo is no different. Milo makes his bread and butter being controversial. In this regard, his edgy statements biting him in the ass, is justly deserved. Trying to parse the concept of consent with Milo's method, usually does not end well. Milo is a troll who finally got hoisted by his own petard.
As for the revealers of this tape. As a conservative myself, I usually have a sense when a group or something trying to fake being grassroots conservative is utter astroturf bullshit. A group calling themselves the "Reagan Battalion"(Invoking Reagan's name while calling themselves a military group to illicit a sense of grass roots patriotism) not only set off my Conservative Astroturf Bullshit alarm, but also makes me want to know more about them. As you can see from their website:
http://www.thereaganbattalion.com/
It mostly has links to a number of major outlets that all hated Trump and have no love for Breitbart. Don't get me wrong, Breitbart is shitty. This situation reminds me of the incident with Shirley Sherrod. The one where they released an incomplete tape to get her fired and imply the government hired people who discriminate against white farmers. Andrew Breitbart knowingly released a tape in an incomplete form to cause damage. This seems strangely familiar, perhaps form of karmic justice.
I think withholding judgment until more is released is a better option. To be honest, I find everyone involved in this to be dishonest and I want more context.
Also, I will state this. A lot of things are happening in this. A number of people in the conservative movement were displaced by Trump. Some would say that Trump destroyed 2 major parties in this election. I would agree with that.
My concern is that these same people rooting for Milo and Trump to fail, still ignore the factors that allowed for their rise in the first place. Trump and Milo are simply symptoms of a much more severe problem. Until, the displaced conservatives and liberals can create real solutions to those problems - there will be other incarnations of Milo/Trump in the future.