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[Piggle-o]

Nothing about the crime itself beyond the nature of the charges and apparently this was for an incident in 2018? Not sure if that's a typo or if the victim waited until they were an adult and then reported it with good enough evidence to convict.

Looks like the victim was a local high school freshman, possibly a neighbor, and didn't report until he was 19. It's unfortunately extremely common.

 

['Ole Dente]

“common people” either don’t know what a furry is or think it’s just a harmless hobby and don’t keep up with every degenerate thing a furry does. To paraphrase HP Lovecraft: “the more one learns about furries, the more one wants to vomit”, and most people don’t know much about furries.

Well, my mom knows about furries now and she’s thoroughly disgusted. I’m doing my part.

 

[Harm]

You really don't.

His chat's reaction is hilarious, at least

Looks like the victim was a local high school freshman, possibly a neighbor, and didn't report until he was 19. It's unfortunately extremely common.

Good on the victim for still coming forward even when there was no guarantee of consequences for the diddler. Unfortunately, that part is extremely uncommon.

Also, that would mean the victim would have been closer to 14 years old when he was abused.

 

[who dare wins?]

You really don't.

I had a look at some of the comments and, yeah....

The responses to this are astounding. They probably had a discord server this video was posted in just to pull gayops, considering there are far too many people who flock to such a low view count video. These people are rabid animals, they will not listen and will never stop unless you geld them. Considering their responses, these are labels and recommendations only every recently made by DSMV (Which has been known to have been meddled in before regarding autogynophilia as an example) and by psychiatrists who need to make a living, just like you. They want to keep you in for a good amount of time, not forever, but enough to pay for whatever ventures they want. Sometimes it is harder to face, the truth, other times it is not. Most of these people who tend to do this usually seem to have been raped when younger, most vets I know don't do this shit, let alone people who've had horrific car crashes or where raped when they were older. There has to be something specific in contemporary society that makes them snap like this.

Call me MATI, but the comments utterly reek of disgusting people trying to excuse their inability to reconcile with their demons.

 

[Piggle-o]

Call me MATI, but the comments utterly reek of disgusting people trying to excuse their inability to reconcile with their demons.

There's like, a case for it, but I've only seen it once and he deleted everything because of the pro-pedo replies. He was going through therapy for CSA and everything, which you never see, but he was also really fucked up and so was his art. The rest of them, I don't know what to make of it; it's like six different angles leading to the same place. I, very cautiously, believe that some of it is benign (or they don't know about the other side) but the rest is fucked beyond measure.

Those people don't even know what their demons are, the wording isn't quite right for a secondhand confession.

 

[Piggle-o]

So I was having some PTSD dreams from swimming in this psychosexual chemical toilet months ago and some of those Daxbak lyrics raised a question. Why are so many cubfags and babyfurs so inconsistent with their target regression age?

 

[LeChampion1992]

So I was having some PTSD dreams from swimming in this psychosexual chemical toilet months ago and some of those Daxbak lyrics raised a question. Why are so many cubfags and babyfurs so inconsistent with their target regression age?

Hmmmm in many cases I think people who regress do so as a way to escape a certain trauma usually sexual trauma. In like 90% of these cases they're usually victims of aexual abuse either by friends, family, or friends of the family.
Oftentimes you have cases where older teens and children molest younger kids as they think it's normal.
*AFAB = woman *AMAB = Man.
Cubfur - A might be AMAB and a trans woman and they might feel less of a man as they were molested at the age of 9 so in their eyes they might regress to the age of 7 or before because in their life they had a semblance of normalcy maybe their mom stayed at home until then, or they were a sissy and felt protected by girls and this could be a contributing factor to their gender dysphoria.
Cubfur B - AFAB considers themselves non binary individual but during their childhood they were subjected to neglect as they were forced to live on the streets.
Their age regression is more little based though it varies in experimentation as it's a way for them to relive the childhood they never had as they were forced to live homeless on the streets from the age of 3 also there was multiple instances of sexual abuse.
Like almost all of this can be traced to sexual abuse at one point in time.

 

[Harm]

Oftentimes you have cases where older teens and children molest younger kids as they think it's normal.

It's crazy how much more common this is becoming too. Children who were abused themselves or exposed to pornography at a young age then go and abuse their peers, and then the parents/guardians either turn a blind eye (because accepting their child could do such a heinous thing is unconscionable) or they don't treat it as the traumatic event that it is for the victims. Then the cycle of abuse continues cycling.

I can empathize and understand how if they had such and such traumatic experiences when they were very young that they might "enjoy" returning to that stage of development and reliving it with those traumas removed, but I don't believe it necessarily rehabilitates those people so much as it contributes to a unique form of arrested development. They regress to that stage of development over and over to "heal their traumas" until they start to turn entire portions of their personal lives into that baby stage and keep it that way.

There is no exit strategy to age regression as a coping mechanism. They put on the diaper and then they stay that way, rebuilding a new them that incorporates it as a permanent fixture of their self regardless of the "coping" it's originally supposed to serve. The only way a diaperfur will leave their life style is either through a shame filled coming to Jesus moment, they run out of money to fuel their fetish, or they die.

So I was having some PTSD dreams from swimming in this psychosexual chemical toilet months ago and some of those Daxbak lyrics raised a question. Why are so many cubfags and babyfurs so inconsistent with their target regression age?

Yeah, he says in interviews he's supposed to be like 7 years old, but then his babyfur vr chat avatar is singing in a baby crib. The instant cope from them would be that they have different ages wherein they were traumatized and will regress into them separately in order to deal with different traumas.

 

[Piggle-o]

Hmmmm in many cases I think people who regress do so as a way to escape a certain trauma usually sexual trauma. In like 90% of these cases they're usually victims of aexual abuse either by friends, family, or friends of the family.
Oftentimes you have cases where older teens and children molest younger kids as they think it's normal.
*AFAB = woman *AMAB = Man.
Cubfur - A might be AMAB and a trans woman and they might feel less of a man as they were molested at the age of 9 so in their eyes they might regress to the age of 7 or before because in their life they had a semblance of normalcy maybe their mom stayed at home until then, or they were a sissy and felt protected by girls and this could be a contributing factor to their gender dysphoria.
Cubfur B - AFAB considers themselves non binary individual but during their childhood they were subjected to neglect as they were forced to live on the streets.
Their age regression is more little based though it varies in experimentation as it's a way for them to relive the childhood they never had as they were forced to live homeless on the streets from the age of 3 also there was multiple instances of sexual abuse.
Like almost all of this can be traced to sexual abuse at one point in time.

Makes sense, I was arguing about the disparity between the diaper shit and regression in my dream because, at least in the context of whatever argument I was having, anyone of a certain age finds lesser things to be too "babbyfied" unless they're undergoing some kind of trauma that causes them to regress. The lack of childhood as a whole kind of angle would account for it very well.

Others are very specific, which was something that came up in the court of song lyrics and shadows.

Yeah, he says in interviews he's supposed to be like 7 years old, but then his babyfur vr chat avatar is singing in a baby crib. The instant cope from them would be that they have different ages wherein they were traumatized and will regress into them separately in order to deal with different traumas.

That may also be the case. As I have come to doubt "autism" of someone you can listen to a podcast and music video from, some kind of persistent trauma fits better.

 

[LeChampion1992]

@Harm Not a psychologist but the only way I could see someone grow up out of abdl fetish is unironically troon out. This is why you see a strong abdl to troon/pooner pipeline. For many people I've noticed if they don't regress back into said fetish they go hard Into a sort of pooner/troon identity that is a new them so to speak.

 

[Piggle-o]

@LeChampion1992 Is that growth, though? They just end up doing both and now they're tranny genderblob infantalists with a polydrug addiction. The trooning may as well be atonement to excuse the ABDL and act like the problem is solved, but it never is. The closest thing I've seen in other places is decoupling the fetish-as-cope from the whole system it is a response to through introspection and maybe therapy, and working on the real issue to the point that what remains of an outright paraphilia is now atrophied to the point of a kink. You end up with an asexual or something very hard to identify, but not an Alphabet identify.

@Harm 's whole post is going to take a few days to think about, at least. What makes babyfurs may be multiple things that look the same and end up under the same blankie (kill me), and that is going to impact the outcome.

 

[LeChampion1992]

@LeChampion1992 Is that growth, though? They just end up doing both and now they're tranny genderblob infantalists with a polydrug addiction. The trooning may as well be atonement to excuse the ABDL and act like the problem is solved, but it never is. The closest thing I've seen in other places is decoupling the fetish-as-cope from the whole system it is a response to through introspection and maybe therapy, and working on the real issue to the point that what remains of an outright paraphilia is now atrophied to the point of a kink. You end up with an asexual or something very hard to identify, but not an Alphabet identify.

@Harm 's whole post is going to take a few days to think about, at least. What makes babyfurs may be multiple things that look the same and end up under the same blankie (kill me), and that is going to impact the outcome.

Hmmm I don't know how to describe it but with all sorts of paraphilla fetishs I think the reality is people have to find a way to manage it to a point where it doesn't interfere in a life of normalcy sadly.

 

[Law]

It’s always the furries, They either fuck kids or fuck animals.

Man, how many times is this gunna happen before common people start going “Gee there’s like a weird cross reference point here maybe we should make being a furry a fucking crime.”

The furries keep trying to have a parade in the downtown of my city but everyone knows it's a creepy sex thing so everyone shuts them down. It's like an extremely dorky version of the Skokie Nazis.

 

[From The Uncanny Valley]

The furries keep trying to have a parade in the downtown of my city but everyone knows it's a creepy sex thing so everyone shuts them down. It's like an extremely dorky version of the Skokie Nazis.

Furries trying to be this oppressed minority aleays gets me MATI.

 

[Athena Save Us!]

Furries were bad enough on their own but now it can be combined with a diaper fetish? Well, I've been online too much for one day.

No truer words were spoken by the second commenter.

 

[LeChampion1992]

Furries were bad enough on their own but now it can be combined with a diaper fetish? Well, I've been online too much for one day.

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I'm horrified that I met that person itl and I didn't know they were a babyfur twink I guess I get more horrified by reality.

 

[Harm]

@Harm Not a psychologist but the only way I could see someone grow up out of abdl fetish is unironically troon out. This is why you see a strong abdl to troon/pooner pipeline. For many people I've noticed if they don't regress back into said fetish they go hard Into a sort of pooner/troon identity that is a new them so to speak.

That makes a ton of sense. There's a big crossover between ABDL and chastity cages, sissification, and all sorts of emasculation. The ultimate conclusion would be figurative and literal self-castration to represent complete destruction of your masculinity (if you peruse he troon sub-forum there's plenty instances of troons talking about "killing" their old male self to back this up).

I'm not sure how many of them would be trooning out to replace their diaper fetishism instead of trooning out to supplement it, though.

The closest thing I've seen in other places is decoupling the fetish-as-cope from the whole system it is a response to through introspection and maybe therapy, and working on the real issue to the point that what remains of an outright paraphilia is now atrophied to the point of a kink.

I'd have to see that to believe it. Not to take anything away from the rare few people who do overcome their dysfunctions and confront their traumas, doing the work to better themselves emotionally. It's simply hard to take note of those instances when they both don't fall under the scope of the type of lolcows who draw attention and when they're wildly outnumbered by all the latent pedophiles.

I'm willing to bet far, far more "practitioners" of the ABDL fetish use their supposed traumas they're "coping" with as an excuse to perpetually engage in pedophilic sex play. What awful unspeakable abuses could ALL of these people have experienced that justifies "welp, I guess I'm a baby forever now?" People in general nowadays will cry "ab00se" over the most trivial of offenses; it wouldn't shock me if a lack of hardships were a stronger predictor for developing these fetishes later in life rather than the inverse (not to mention the rampant grooming into these fetishes).

Furries were bad enough on their own but now it can be combined with a diaper fetish? Well, I've been online too much for one day.

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"Love yourself by destroying your sense of self and rebuilding it as a cartoon baby animal of the opposite sex!"

Makes sense to me, what's your problem?

 

[Piggle-o]

I'd have to see that to believe it. Not to take anything away from the rare few people who do overcome their dysfunctions and confront their traumas, doing the work to better themselves emotionally. It's simply hard to take note of those instances when they both don't fall under the scope of the type of lolcows who draw attention and when they're wildly outnumbered by all the latent pedophiles.

We seldom see it and the lifestylers only get worse, but the number of accounts that go dark and chatter in the back channels suggests that it does happen. The barometer for sub-cow activity is understandably skewed, and unlike detransitioners or ex-furs, there's an even stronger chilling effect on talking about it. I've read or heard of maybe three or four accounts I'd put any faith in at all, which isn't much but it's significant.

I'm willing to bet far, far more "practitioners" of the ABDL fetish use their supposed traumas they're "coping" with as an excuse to perpetually engage in pedophilic sex play. What awful unspeakable abuses could ALL of these people have experienced that justifies "welp, I guess I'm a baby forever now?"

I had some ideas but this seems more obvious. Let's break out Abhinava, there are formal causes which can't be seen, and material causes which can. Like pottery and what shapes it. What if one version of it is just an extreme version of BDSM "brat play" and it reverts to that for those unseen formal factors? What if another is caused by "trauma", but it's a persistent, nonspecific one more aligned with your position? What if there's a third and the material cause is exactly what it looks like? Just spitballing here, I don't ever want to have to engage with these people any more than already probably happens.

 

[DizzyD]

Furries were bad enough on their own but now it can be combined with a diaper fetish? Well, I've been online too much for one day.

A race to the bottom for furries, who of all can be crowned the most depraved?

 

[Vordhusbn]

@Harm Not a psychologist but the only way I could see someone grow up out of abdl fetish is unironically troon out. This is why you see a strong abdl to troon/pooner pipeline. For many people I've noticed if they don't regress back into said fetish they go hard Into a sort of pooner/troon identity that is a new them so to speak.

I can give a bit of input on this. I'm 19, entered the fandom when I was 11 and been an ABDL since I was 15, I trooned out about a year ago and started HRT about 2 or so months ago. I despise other troons with such a fucking passion for their lack of inability to debate or have a meaningful conversation, their entire identity revolves around only one aspect of themselves which is horrifying and shows how narrow-minded they are. I am trans by identity, NOT by community. Should give context, I'm non-binary, not a transfem hon.

But to answer this, it's actually the opposite for many people. ABDL is commonly seen by internet-addicted hons as a 'comfy' fetish in a way. Gonna get a bit graphic here but since starting HRT, my sexual libido has dropped to almost nothing, same as many other people on HRT. They need much greater sensory arousal compared to a typical hand/blowjob and this is why ABDL is so attractive to them because you literally have a wet cloth pressing against all of your most sensitive bits, and for many this gives them the sensory arousal needed to get erect.

Just wanted to give my 2 cents as somebody who has experience with both circles