"Becky" Rebecca Williams & Williams Clan - White Trash At Its Best

[QUEEN OF DENIAL]

Financial abuse by not allowing Beck to have any money with fear of her leaving also confirmed.

What financial abuse? Becky willingly gave Amberlynn the money.
Can we please stop with this whole poor Becky thing?

 

[powdered toast]

All Becky had to do was

Say no

Not deposit the money into Amber's account

Not tell Amber she was receiving money to begin with

I love how she played it off like "I would have liked to do something with the money in memory of my mother" but won't finish with "but I chose to give it to Amber instead"

Amber did not steal a check, drive herself to the bank, and deposit into her own account. She would not even be able to stop Becky from getting to the door if Becky was walking at a normal pace.

Tl;dr Becky is retarded and her actions are her own fault

 

[FarmVille]

FINANCIAL ABUSE by not letting our hard-working Necky work the 9 to 5 job she aspired to!

her hygiene would impact others and their belongings and she did not care..."

This says a lot more about what some people will put up with for free rent than ALR.

Imagine a blob of fat free bleeding in your house and not finding the motivation to get a job

I love how she played it off like "I would have liked to do something with the money in memory of my mother" but won't finish with "but I chose to give it to Amber instead"

She did the white trash equivalent of a viking funeral, memorial tattoos

 

[Artificial Baits]

Becky even said herself (something along the lines of) that she argued with amber and she held it over her head that she paid all the bills, but at no point did she think to get a fucking job to "liberate" herself from this torture? Financial abuse is a thing but again, being in a partnership where one works and one doesn't because the other CHOOSES to not work, is not financial abuse.

I was watching Tiny Blue Anthropolohist simp for snowflake and becky and had to turn it off. This fake outrage is just annoying at this point. People in her comment section where saying how this is historic and that this is why women should have their own source of income. I am not for or against traditional set ups but this narrative insinuates that basically all non working partners taking care of the household are under some financial abuse. Lol okay!

Some people, like lazy becky, enjoy not working and being home makers (which becky was not, she wiped ass, watched TV and went out to buy fast food). I am sure that in those relationships they argue about finances. Becky could've just said to Amber to shut the fuck up about the bills, cause her ass won't get wiped and she'll get a job.

And another thing that made me laugh was the question about making her cry in front of Amber. Who has not been in a relationship where you argued and cried in front of a partner?! It's one thing to make somebody cry on purpose but to say they made me cry so therefore abusive meanie is just too funny.

And even if Amber told her to give her to money, she paid for everything for becky for years! And she finally comes in to cash and wants to spend it all on herself. Sound pretty selfish to me. I think most people with some pride would want to contribute a little or maybe buy something nice for their partner. But again, outrageous to even suggest this, per Gorl World and reaction channels

 

[lol cow supreme]

Financial abuse on par with actually withholding someone's money? No.

Did you watch it? Its literal financial abuse, and not just the $5000, but to not let her ever save up any money? and to lord over her that she pays the bills etc? Amber was/is the classic financial abuser and is a form of domestic abuse. Taking the piddly $5000, which for Amber at the time was not that much money, but would have been enough for Beck to get free and start over without Amber was a tactic to withold Beck from any ability of financial freedom. This was an excuse to actually withold money from Beck. Why not let her hold it and give her exact specific bills to pay if it was soo needed to pay bills with?
Learn more about financial abuse and their signs here. Protect yourself https://nnedv.org/content/about-financial-abuse/

you dont have to physically put a gun to someone and take their money to financially abuse them.

All Becky had to do was

Say no

All rape victims had to do was

Say no.

See how dumb you sound?

Do you not know it takes 8 times on average to get away from an abusive relationship?

 

[Autistic Asparagus]

The thing that always gets me is like if you are going to be a freeloader at least get cool shit, like really take advantage of it. Watching Amber’s life really gave me insight on just how retarded the average person is.

Destiny got: Unlimited Wommart and Denny’s Goyslop trippies (yayyy)

But Becky was the worst of all, Amber was easily clearing 6 figures and ur wiping her ass and the best you could do is 5 below t-shirts, and Naruto posters…. I would have been ordering shit every day, my amazon driver would have had calf muscles the size of tree trunks.

Don’t forget the DVDS of terrible movies she never watched once and dollar store art supplies.

 

[Artificial Baits]

Did you watch it? Its literal financial abuse, and not just the $5000, but to not let her ever save up any money? and to lord over her that she pays the bills etc? Amber was/is the classic financial abuser and is a form of domestic abuse. Taking the piddly $5000, which for Amber at the time was not that much money, but would have been enough for Beck to get free and start over without Amber was a tactic to withold Beck from any ability of financial freedom. This was an excuse to actually withold money from Beck. Why not let her hold it and give her exact specific bills to pay if it was soo needed to pay bills with?
Learn more about financial abuse and their signs here. Protect yourself https://nnedv.org/content/about-financial-abuse/

you dont have to physically put a gun to someone and take their money to financially abuse them.

All rape victims had to do was

Say no.

See how dumb you sound?

Do you not know it takes 8 times on average to get away from an abusive relationship?

Sorry for double post but which box did Amber tick?

- Forbidding the victim to work
- Sabotaging work or employment opportunities by stalking or harassing the victim at the workplace or causing the victim to lose her/his job by physically battering prior to important meetings or interviews.
- Forbidding the victim from attending job training or advancement opportunities.
- Controlling how all of the money is spent.
- Not including the victim in investment or banking decisions.
- Not allowing the victim access to bank accounts.
- Withholding money or giving “an allowance.”
- Forcing the victim to write bad checks or file fraudulent tax returns.
- Running up large amounts of debt on joint accounts.
- Refusing to work or contribute to the family income.
- Withholding funds for the victim or children to obtain basic needs such as food and medicine.
- Hiding assets.
- Stealing the victim’s identity, property, or inheritance.
- Forcing the victim to work in a family business without pay.
- Refusing to pay bills and ruining the victims’ credit score.
- Forcing the victim to turn over public benefits or threatening to turn the victim in for “cheating or misusing benefits.”
- Filing false insurance claims.
- Refusing to pay or evading child support or manipulating the divorce process by drawing it out by hiding or not d isclosing assets.

Amber didn't steal, didn't stop becky from working, she bought her whatever she wanted, she had control over the finances but she also made the money so it's not like she controlled Becky's (besides the inherance becky decided to give to her), she didn't force her out of a job but gave her an alternative. Zero boxes ticked in my opinion

 

[Atrax_Morgue_Dat_Pussy]

Did you watch it? Its literal financial abuse, and not just the $5000, but to not let her ever save up any money? and to lord over her that she pays the bills etc? Amber was/is the classic financial abuser and is a form of domestic abuse. Taking the piddly $5000, which for Amber at the time was not that much money, but would have been enough for Beck to get free and start over without Amber was a tactic to withold Beck from any ability of financial freedom. This was an excuse to actually withold money from Beck. Why not let her hold it and give her exact specific bills to pay if it was soo needed to pay bills with?
Learn more about financial abuse and their signs here. Protect yourself https://nnedv.org/content/about-financial-abuse/

you dont have to physically put a gun to someone and take their money to financially abuse them.

All rape victims had to do was

Say no.

See how dumb you sound?

Do you not know it takes 8 times on average to get away from an abusive relationship?

Wow defending Beggy. Never thought that I’d see the day especially from you.

Maybe Reddit is more up your alley; you can go complain about Amber being mean to Beggy.

Don’t give me this victim bullshit neither. Comments like that tribalize actual victims of domestic abuse. Not whatever bullshit fucking Beggy went through.

 

[FarmVille]

and to lord over her that she pays the bills etc

If I paid all the bills while my partner traced Rugrats cartoons I would lord it over them every minute of every day.

 

[LightEmittingDiode]

Did you watch it? Its literal financial abuse, and not just the $5000, but to not let her ever save up any money? and to lord over her that she pays the bills etc? Amber was/is the classic financial abuser and is a form of domestic abuse. Taking the piddly $5000, which for Amber at the time was not that much money, but would have been enough for Beck to get free and start over without Amber was a tactic to withold Beck from any ability of financial freedom. This was an excuse to actually withold money from Beck. Why not let her hold it and give her exact specific bills to pay if it was soo needed to pay bills with?
Learn more about financial abuse and their signs here. Protect yourself https://nnedv.org/content/about-financial-abuse/

you dont have to physically put a gun to someone and take their money to financially abuse them.

All rape victims had to do was

Say no.

See how dumb you sound?

Do you not know it takes 8 times on average to get away from an abusive relationship?

It would be one thing if Beck had tried to leave and wasn’t “allowed”*.

Spoiler: *

Obviously we know of the one time Beck tried to end it with Amber and Amber talked her down. (“And I said NOOOOO! I’m gonna be there for YOUUUU”….)
We also of course cannot know if Beck did in fact try to leave apart from this instance, as neither of them have shared anything like that. Beck is chasing that mighty dollar, so she would absolutely spill that kind of tea, or have already spilled it.

It would also be another thing if Beck had hobbies, obligations, passions, curiosity about the world…
Beck was happy as a pig in shit not working, putzing around on Guitar Hero and creating kiddie art, with all the graphic tees and ugly hats she could cram in to her closet and food she could cram in to her mouth.
Until she wasn’t.
So she left.

 

[FarmVille]

Becky also didn’t leave until everyone started blowing smoke up her ass that they would love and support her burgeoning youtube channel. She thought she’d be getting that easy YT cash but she was too lazy to put any effort into creating videos and that cratered.

 

[Mekahineyho]

Becky was a sugar baby and the sugar mama happened to be a cunt.

 

[inquizadoor]

Do you not know it takes 8 times on average to get away from an abusive relationship?

Chantal is that you???


Beggy should have kept the money secret to start with, or lied about how much it was. Not our fault she was too dumb to think of it.

 

[lol cow supreme]

I'm starting to think a lot of you didnt watch it. or are just sudden Ambabies who think she can do no wrong. Am I a Beckistan? no. But I will call out what I see regardless of the popular Amberasskissing opinions may be.

@Artificial Baits it wont let me quote you but...

Spoiler: Just kidding

Financial abuse is a thing but again, being in a partnership where one works and one doesn't because the other CHOOSES to not work, is not financial abuse.

Beck said her full time job was to care for Amber. Anytime she spent away she was guilted into returning, including timers being set for any activity that did not include attention to Amber. It can be extremely hard to get away from someone like that. If you're being made to feel guilty for being in the bathroom pooping too long, how are you going to feel looking for a job? How is she even going to have time to look for a job, with Amber's constant need, and Amber controlling her schedule? Amber even sleep deprived her and forced her to her sleep schedule.

Its amazing how much domestic abuse women will tolerate another woman doing.

- Forbidding the victim to work-Giving this a Kinda., with the lording over Becks time she had no way to start perusing work.
- Sabotaging work or employment opportunities by stalking or harassing the victim at the workplace or causing the victim to lose her/his job by physically battering prior to important meetings or interviews.
- Forbidding the victim from attending job training or advancement opportunities.
- Controlling how all of the money is spent.Amber controlled all the money. including what happened to any money Beck received. To the point she wasnt even allowed to collect coins/change.
- Not including the victim in investment or banking decisions. Amber never allowed Beck to invest her own money or included in how investments were to be made of the household income
- Not allowing the victim access to bank accounts. Basically yes. All the money had to be in Amber's account, including money Beck received.
- Withholding money or giving “an allowance.” I'm not even sure she got an allowance, but was permitted to pick things out such as nickelodeon shirts
- Forcing the victim to write bad checks or file fraudulent tax returns.
- Running up large amounts of debt on joint accounts.
- Refusing to work or contribute to the family income.
- Withholding funds for the victim or children to obtain basic needs such as food and medicine.
- Hiding assets.
- Stealing the victim’s identity, property, or inheritance.
- Forcing the victim to work in a family business without pay.
- Refusing to pay bills and ruining the victims’ credit score.
- Forcing the victim to turn over public benefits or threatening to turn the victim in for “cheating or misusing benefits.”
- Filing false insurance claims.
- Refusing to pay or evading child support or manipulating the divorce process by drawing it out by hiding or not d isclosing assets.

Theres others that arent directly on this list, such as the holding the finances over Beck's head that Amber paid the bills so they will do what Amber wants etc. And this is all based off what little she's decided to share.

Spoiler

Spoiler: For real super secret spoiler

Chantal is that you???


Beggy should have kept the money secret to start with, or lied about how much it was. Not our fault she was too dumb to think of it.

Someone gets the joke!

 

[Boolean Bitch]

...Becky was nice and reached out to her so that amber wouldn’t kill herself. Becky is the empath here!...

I mean this with respect... but come on! YOU'RE now doing the black and white thinking that you're accusing us of. Surely you must see that Becky is not an "Empath".

Spoiler: Evidence - Spoilered so those who DGAF can skip:

Her history of behaviour puts her into a similar category to Amber:

• making sexual advances towards her teenaged step-sister (18-19 years old when Becky was mid-twenties... AND HER STEP-SISTER)
• harassing her step-sister at work when these sexual advances were rejected
• assisted Jerry (step-sister's dad) in harassing her when she tried to go non-contact with Jerry (who kicked her out of his and Norma's home - at Norma's request - for being gay)
• humiliated an ex-girlfriend online by giving a photo of dirty panties to Eric so he could post them online
• villified an ex online by telling everyone she was a whore turning tricks during their relationship
• claimed to have quit working at the saw mill in order to take advantage of "a better job opportunity" aka: being Amber's ass-wiper, according to @FrazzleCakes' daughter (the step-sister).
• claimed that Nina mistreated her (who coincidentally was Amber-fat at the time they were dating, and has slimmed down a little since being away from Becky), but then helped Amber set Nina up with Krystle the Sped (likely for the free meal ticket Nina would get)
• saw the absolute squalor that Amber accepted living in, and then almost immediately moved her into the gaycare
• saw the state of neglect with the pets, but didn't improve their quality of life while Becky was staying in the relationship "to care for the pets"
• cosigned Amber's lies such as bullshit psych disorder diagnoses from better help and lying about her mother "being crazy" and verbally attacking Amber in voice messages for no reason
• constantly lashed out at the haydurz, including just a month ago saying they were so horrible (right after begging them for money for her car). IMO, her opinion only changed because she feared she had completely worn out their goodwill and needed a new angle

Empathetic people just DON'T do these sort of things. And a lot of these things are completely separate from Amber's narcissistic behaviour and can't be blamed on that.

And yes, Amber is a narcissistic abuser. I completely agree with you about that. And we know this because we have 11 years of video evidence showing this, as well as accounts from various ex-partners and ex-friends. Narcissists don't get better - only worse - so it's unreasonable to assume that Amber was good with Becky and terrible with the others. Amber was a controlling, dominating, narcissistic partner (which is a form of abuse).

SHELF!!!! ... Uh, I mean, BUTTT!!!
(multiple T's because it's a really big one - like all other butts in the amberverse )

Unlike with Amber's other partners, there was a lot of abuse that Becky never received (likely because Amber was too fat at the same time as Becky being such a doormat):

• Amber wasn't physically abusive with Becky. There was no trashing of Becky's work desk, or destroying her artwork, or hitting her, or trying to zing soda cans off of Becky's head like what seemed to have happened with Casey, Krystle, Destiny, and Jade. Becky even admitted that she never feared ANY physical threat from Amber.
• Amber didn't control Becky's food; she could eat whatever she wanted, whenever (you know... except for Amber's Cocoa Puffs during the first half of the day before Amber quit her daily diet).
• Becky was not held in the home and refused to be allowed to leave like hinted to in a previous video. According to her newer video, Becky stormed off whenever Amber got too annoying and drove to her sister's place. The solution to most of Amber's pestering could be solved by Becky putting her phone on silent. Oh, and by her WEARING A FUCKING BRA and making herself somewhat presentable during the day so she was always ready to go out in public (have some fucking self-respect, Beg). Oh yeah, and we've seen a couple of Amber vlogs of you going out (I think it was with Rafe and Hannah) WHERE YOU DIDN'T WEAR A BRA, so save us the "I had to get out of there so fast I had to go out without a bra", you fucking donkey.
• Becky did not become the victim of financial abuse the way many abusers trap their victims - running up joint cards and refusing to pay them, using the partners ID and papers to create debt in the partner's name. Every bad finanical situation Becky ended up in with Amber was at her own hand: the absurdly bad car loan terms that neither of them read, Becky handing over her inheritance, Becky giving Amber money for the fucking NETFLIX bill after moving out, etc. All because Amber screetched and stomped her (dainty, baby-soft) feet like a toddler having a meltdown.
• Becky wasn't married to Amber and there is no Common Law in Kentucky, so Becky had no financial responsiblity for any money trouble that Amber could have tried to cause. Becky had no financial obligation to give any money to Amber, or to put it into a joint account.They also didn't share joint responsibility for any children - another tactic used by abusers to control their victims
• According to both of them, Amber "signed something with the landlord", but technically wasn't on the lease at the gaycare (???). Whatever, I'm sure if they wanted to, they could have gotten her evicted (but the money was too good, and not even the blood and stench could taint that for them)
• Becky was allowed to run errands without Amber monitoring her in the car and did so often. Krystle, Destiny, and Jade rarely (if ever) got this luxury. Destiny couldn't even GO TO WORK without Amber tagging along on her day off (except at the very end of their relationship when Amber quit the data-entry job). Becky even admits dragging out how long the errands took EVERY SINGLE TIME, apparently without consequence from Amber
• Becky complained about not being able to get a job, but supposedly HAD A JOB (Uber Eats driver - LORD HELP US ALL) in spring of 2021. You know, around the time that Amber was selling her hoard of plastic trash and not making regular runs to Walmart?
• Unlike many other narcissistic/controlling/abusive partners, Amber was not able to launch a smear campaign against Becky, turning her family and friends against her. She had full support of her family. In fact, the only smear campaigns were against Hannah and Rafe, and BECKY PARTICIPATED IN THEM.
• Amber was still spending money on Becky (a LOT). And Becky kept on coloring, and buying herself shitty t-shirts, hats, and vintage video games instead of purchasing things to try and help set herself up to leave (items to help her be able to GET A JOB, or items that could easily be sold for cash - though watch now Becky will post a new video with a story about how Amber somehow made this IMPOSSIBLE or whatever).

Their relationshit was a toxic hellscape, but most of Amber's "abuse" was being a loud, obnoxious, tantrum throwing, entitled, spoiled BRAT to try and manipulate/control everyone. And yes, that is incredibly draining to deal with - especially if they are also wearing you down with guilt-trips, constant drama, fetch quests, and sleep deprivation - but Amber wasn't "trapping" Becky. Becky kept trapping herself with her own stupidity and lack of survival instincts. It could be argued that the constant assult of a victim's self-esteem that narcissists engage in played a role in these behaviours... but Becky was exibiting these behaviours BEFORE Amber even came along. And over 3 years later, she still refuses to look at and correct those behaviours that enabled this nonsense to continue with Amber for nearly half a decade.

Her stories are also continuing to have inconsistencies. They're little and currently seem to be insignificant, but all of these little inconsistencies and confusing points add up, and are often the sign of someone trying to be deceptive. In the previous video, Amber was fussy and wouldn't eat stuff she didn't like and "a lot of food was wasted". In the most recent one, it's "Amber always finished everything on her plate and then ordered another meal of something she knew she would like". In the previous ones, it was "I'm not going to talk about Amber's hygiene", and now it's "her hygience negatively affected everyone around her and all of their possessions". Becky doesn't remember the shitty things she did while zombified... except if they make Amber look bad, then she remembers them. IMO she's absolutely trying to tell the audience what they want to hear to keep the gravy train going. And it's absolutely AWESOME to watch because Amber's getting a taste of her own medicine, and no one will even THINK to look closer at this because of how many times Amber's already tried to manipulate her audience. And, it's all being done by her biggest doormat of an ex.
LOL. LMAO, even.

And one more point (out of the spoiler because it's important): if you go back to the livestreams from early July 2021 (before Amber started talking to Jade), Becky mentions that she was planning to move out IN JANUARY! Why would you remain for 5 MONTHS after breaking up with someone that you claimed you knew was abusing you, impersonating you online, and demanding money for bills everytime you had money in order to keep you broke? It seems more likely that Becky was hoping to be able to continue mooching after the breakup because Becky was saying the right things like "I still LOVE HER" and "she's my best friend". But instead, Amber was like a fat Biance: "To the left, to the left. Everything you own in a box to the left..."

The relationship dynamic that Narcs get into isn't only Narcissist and "Empath". Sometimes a narc will latch onto another toxic person (or two narcs will latch onto each other) long term if they are getting what they want from each other. Amber's a narcissistic, gluttonous, manipulative, control freak. Becky's a lazy, mean-spirited, self-sabotaging, manipulative person of weak character (possible covert narc? - NOT AN EMPATH), that thought she found a vulnerable and desperate partner (that would pay her way), but found a stronger, more aggressive manipulator instead. And the biggest tell is Becky STILL refusing to take any personal responsibility, nor acknowledging how her personality traits contributed to that shituation as well as all of the problems she's encountered since.

Edit: changed a couple of words to clarify something

 

[Even more 8008135]

I'm so grateful for the ignore feature.

 

[FarmVille]

. If you're being made to feel guilty for being in the bathroom pooping too long, how are you going to feel looking for a job?

Asking any member of the Williams clan how it feels to look for a job is like asking anyone else how the color teal tastes. Better off saying something like

. If you're being made to feel guilty for being in the bathroom pooping too long, how are you going to find a newly mopped walmart floor for a slip and fall lawsuit?

I stopped watching ALR around the time of their breakup so I love revisiting this miserable whiny lump and I am all for her being recast as a brave victim of abuse and not a leech.

 

[Constellationzero]

I'm so grateful for the ignore feature.

If you mean for @The Queen of Autists, I wholeheartedly second that.

Thread Tax: Becky NoNeckerson is a slovenly bullfrog no one would have sex with.

 

[QUEEN OF DENIAL]

All rape victims had to do was

Say no.

See how dumb you sound?

Do you not know it takes 8 times on average to get away from an abusive relationship?

Yeah, you've lost the plot. Equating any of this to rape is fucking insane.
Of course it would go from equating the mistreatment to abuse and now rape.
Your pedophile narrative wasn't enough? She's a predator. We've known she's a predator.
Go back to Reddit.

 

[pippeyyy]

I'm starting to think a lot of you didnt watch it. or are just sudden Ambabies who think she can do no wrong. Am I a Beckistan? no. But I will call out what I see regardless of the popular Amberasskissing opinions may be.

Saying you're wrong doesn't mean we're saying Amber is right and kissing her ass. That's not how any of this works. Lol.