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[Aquarius]

Cross-posting something I found while browsing Animal Control:

Transcriptions:
Reposted by VaX Werewolf

i need to be more obnoxiously trans

Posted to 100 comments, 780 reblogs, and 3.7k likes 23hrs before this kiwi saw it on January 23rd, 2025, while browsing Bluesky.
You heard it here, folks. As annoying as trannies are, that’s when they’re not trying. Apparently they can be way more annoying. That’s good to know.

Reposted by The Nerdskull

Unfriendly reminder you're not welcome at my friday night vore/nsfw/chill meets in VRChat if you voted for and/or support the incoming administration

"I'm just here for horny, not politics" - You don't get to be horny around ppl you voted to not exist. The ppl you support MADE the horny political

Posted to 2 comments, 27 reblogs, and 141 likes on the same website 3hrs before the aforementioned KF post.
This has the same energy as the ugliest kid in school telling the student body president that she isn’t invited to his D&D meet-ups. Like… okay? She doesn’t care?

Sources:
1. “Bunlith” is an abbreviation of his long-as-fuck nickname, which is “Bunlith MAGFEST BLM ACAB “ @b0tster.yeag.gay.

I tried looking for the original BlueSky post, but could not find what I was looking for. I did find a bunch of other trannies expressing similar sentiments, which in turn reminded me of when ContraPoints said something similar…

Because that's the only way to get anything done in this country. You have to be super annoying about it. They give you no choice.

Emphasis my own. He sounds like he’s moments away from screaming, “do you think I like hitting you, bitch?”
…but I digress. Point is that these people feel entitled to be annoying because of how mean you supposedly are for refusing to play pretend with them. Furthermore, they also see being annoying as politically expedient, or, at least, as a show of force. Maybe that’s stupid, but cutting off your dick isn’t a high-IQ move, so stupid plans should be expected.

Despite the dearth of direct sources, I found many reposts of this comment by “Bunlith” on other social media platforms. He wasn’t just sperging on BlueSky, he was so proud of this nonsense that he reposted it again and again. He thought this line was badass - so badass that he copy-and-pasted it onto every social media platform he has. Well, not every platform… I don’t think he posted it on his YouTube channel, “Lilith Walther”.

Because their comment is why I crossposted this image, here’s some more shenanigans by Mr. Bunlith. And yes, “-lith” refers to Lilith. The Grand Sneeder was right again, saddest words of tongue and pen, etc. This guy has such poor OPSEC that it’s difficult to find a starting point. Let’s go with his selfies, which seem as good a place as any. He has too many selfies to upload all at once, so I’ll post a selection. If you want more, I archived some of his preferred tags, such as “trans”, “lesbian”, “goth”, and “ren faire”, in case he DFE.

For starters, this is him (right) and his friend or boyfriend (ginger on the left, archive) at the Ren Faire. He tagged this (and many other photos of himself with this man) as “lesbian”.

Spoiler: 30-something men LARPing

Source and archive.

Here’s another stunning and brave ‘fit, for all you fashionistas out there. This is a man who wants to be more obnoxious:

Spoiler: 32 year-old man

Source, one archive, and another archive.

Him (bottom-right) and his other (?) male “girlfriend” (top, bottom-left) going by the username “grrlpet” (ew) or “pommycore” whom he also shoves into the lesbian tag:

Spoiler: TW: Greasy Man-Hair

Source and archive.

Said boyfriend appears to be into dog-tits, has a weird fetish art-blog dedicated to such subjects, and also has a BlueSky account called “pynkpommy”. Or maybe that was the ginger. I don’t know, man.

Together, they appear to share some sort of hideous petplay thing. And a size fetish. And exhibitionism paired with Star Wars. So that’s… something. Oh, and Mr. Bunlith likes manspreading on the subway, crashing lesbian marches, smoking huge amounts of weed, babysitting his niblings, pretending to be a bunny who is also female, etc. And he has a whole tag dedicated to his random musings available for your perusal!

This is the guy who says he needs to be more obnoxious. Dude has posted enough content on his Tumblr alone to warrant having a KF thread and he says he wants to be more annoying. Remember this. They don’t want to fit in. They like being obtrusive. That’s why he’s a 30-something year old man pretending to be a mall-goth.

2. “Alpha” (ugh) is an abbreviation of “Alpha, Teacup Kaiju”, something which makes the quote function angery. Their full username is @alphamonster.bsky.social. I could not find any source for the quote. The best I can offer is that I found their “alphamonster” BlueSky profile, but one needs an account to view it. I am not doing that.

From their BlueSky account, I was able to find their Xitter (archive), which uses the same profile picture and nickname. This in turn lead me to their old username, “ChimeraCorner”. And that was fun in its own right but seems more appropriate for the general furry thread. Then again, this person does use it/its pronouns and advertises being “not house-broken”, and there were several pooners who also used this username, so maybe this is the right thread!

 

[Vott]

I would like to introduce you to a lovely shemale named Sylvia-Rusty, AKA u/ScarletSoldner, AKA SylviaRustyFae. He is a genderqueer transfemme troon who uses the pronouns fae/faer. He is also poly (his fiance and two metamours are apparently both DID systems), a dire sufferer of both autism and ADHD, an age regressor, a 24/7 pacifier user, a gamer, incontinent, fat as fuck, and for some reason missing his two front teeth. He is in his thirties and lives in Colorado, but has also lived in Missouri (had to flee due to incoming trans concentration camps; this move was crowdfunded), "near Death Valley in Cali", and in Oregon. At some point he was in foster care because CPS removed him from his mother's custody for "throwing a weed party"; his ostensibly long-suffering brother is a real homosexual and a cop, who he hates. He wears diapers and he likes to go play at playgrounds next to children. He is, most certainly, not a woman.

Sylvia Rusty / Sylvia Rusty Soldner / SylviaRustyFae / Sylviasoldner / ScarletSoldner / Scarlet Soldner / Sylvia Soldner / Rusty Soldner / Rusty Dubh Soldner / Rusty Dubh Söldner / Enbygirl / RustyShardok / Shardok / Grabug / Josh Oneill / Josh M Oneill / Joshua M Oneill / Joshua M O'neill
34 year old diaperfag registered in Portland, Born in March of 1990. Previously lived in Salem. The email he listed is registered to a Josh Oneill from Portland whose age seems to line up with his mention in the antifa thing about him being in his 30s.
The birth month in one of the phonebooks also appears to line up with the month he has listed on his empty DeviantART account. He was also a regular on SomethingAwful under his Shardok screenname as far back as 2009.
@Pizza Box actually brought this guy up in the Personal Lolcow thread back in 2022 with Facebook logs and some links. He also appears to be brought up various times over the years as well.

He's been mentioned in this 2020 piece on antifa activity in Salem listing him as 30 which would make him 34 going on 35 now. A
Josh has a PO Box set up in Aumsville and he happens to make this post referring to it A




Youtube, A
FaceBook, A
Instagram, A
DeviantART, A
Twitter, A
Steam, A
Diapered Anime Forum, A
Furaffinity, A, Empty
Reaper message board profile, A
Bay12 Forum
Goonstation Forums, A
Planetcalypsoforum, A, Joined and posted throughout 2010, Portland and his age display under his username here.
Byond account, A
Byond Thread: Please get me unbanned from Cow RP!, A
Gamespot, A
Path of Exile

Nexus Mods, A,
Formal warning issued by janny on Nexus, A

Threads on SomethingAwful
Kickstarter gaming, A
Games you've forgotten the name, A
Dragon's Dogma, A


His emails were listed in this sparta remix video a few months ago with his main being displayed on his Gamespot account
Email:
gra_bug@yahoo.com
shardoksenpai@gmail.com

 

[Procrastinhater]

Point is that these people feel entitled to be annoying because of how mean you supposedly are for refusing to play pretend with them. Furthermore, they also see being annoying as politically expedient, or, at least, as a show of force.

I for one hope they continue to double down and get even more obnoxious and irritating, especially around normies, it's really been working well for them so far.

It's fucking great really, I had a feeling that once it reached the tipping point where enough normies got sick enough to make reviling Troonshit to be openly acceptable, the Troons ingrained response of always doubling down would mean there'd be no going back.
The more people get disgusted, the more pushback there is, the more pushback, the more disgusting the Troon gets in response. A near decade of everyone caving to Tranny tears and cries of twansphobia has created a Pavlovian response in the cross dressers where they've gotten used to doubling down getting their way.
So now it's their first and only response, and that shit is exactly what has peaked everyone to their filth.
They're in a self defeating cycle at this point, the Troons learned response to any resistance and objection is going to end up with Troons being so reviled even a Church going, peace loving soccer Mom wouldn't stop to put one out if she saw it on fire on the street.

I'm all for it.

 

[KweenKarlotta]

Just put the latte in the window bro.

 

[Magic Pickle]

Just put the latte in the window bro.

I did check on my transgender friends and I laughed in all of their faces as they stamped their feet and cried about the injustice of it all. A joke, of course - I purposefully keep no transgender friends whenever I'm able to.

Does anyone remember the absolute ogre that I posted about over here? The one with the fucking 19" Corpsegrinder neck? Well, Corpsetranny posted a selfie of himself and the fat girl angle shot alone convinces me that it'd take three men to fell this beast. He is also 40 years old and realized he was transgender just about a week ago.
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Stupid cissoids are the ones who don't know anything about biology, which is why this moron doesn't understand how the mere presence of testosterone in a woman's system doesn't remove breasts like deleting lines of code.
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Why does E give you breasts but T doesn't take it away​

I'm mtf but I don't know much about the opposite end, from what I know E distributes tge fat into more feminine places like breasts and the like so why don't ftm have to get top surgery to get rid of thier breasts

How does one acclimate to the concept of controlling other people's identities while demanding that you have the agency to control your own? A pooner polls the populace.
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My partner insists he's straight, how do I get past it?​

So I want to say, first off, that I have been talking to my therapist about this.
I have been married to a straight cis man for just about 5 years now. I didn't know when we got married that I wasn't a woman, that was something I realized just a couple years ago. My partner has been great about it, there have been a few rough patches but he accepts me as I am and is amazingly supportive.
That said, he still insists that he's straight, and it genuinely does bother me. Like I said, I've been talking to my therapist about this. She says that his sexuality doesn't have anything to do with my gender and sexuality and he's free to identify however he wants. Obviously, she's right! So why does it still make me feel so bad? I know, in my head, that his sexuality doesn't invalidate my gender, but it still feels crummy. It still feels like maybe he just thinks I'm a girl, deep down. It feels like I have to constantly struggle with my sexuality and gender and he doesn't have to struggle with anything, he just gets to be a straight cis man. It feels bad, and I don't really know how to get past it. My therapist told me last week to "read a book featuring my situation, watch a movie, and try to find real life examples of my situation". And I'm struggling. There really aren't that many depictions of trans men in media, and so far the few depictions I've found of trans men dating straight men have ended with the straight man basically saying, "well, I'm in love with a man, so obviously I'm at least bisexual" so that doesn't really help me at all.
Basically I'm looking for any advice from people who have been in this situation. How did you get past this? I love my partner, he's a wonderful person, but I'm really struggling with this.

A double-whammy double-feature: why are trannies constantly asking each other how to articulate their own arguments? You would imagine if it were such an iron-clad position to take, that it wouldn't be so challenging for them to defend themselves, and yet...
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transracial argument​

my mom loves using this in arguments when it comes to trans people. she said and verbatim “If you can accept transgenders, you can accept trans everything. Transgender people aren’t better than the others..” “Transracial isn’t any different from transgender, I’m advocating for all trans if you think about it” “If it’s fucked up for transracial people it should be fucked up for all..”
clearly she’s not advocating for anything and I don’t have the words to describe what this is that she’s doing.. but I never really had a rebuttal because arguing with her is like yelling out into the open. her favorite example is Rachel Dolezal, or anyone who specifically wants to be black which just feels like it’s the easiest thing for “transracials” to transition into. i’m actually typing this while she’s popping veins in her forehead so, if this doesn’t rad correctly that’s why, but i’d love to hear what you guys think about this.

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Being the T in “LGBT” is what will ruin us​

I was having a discussion with a very religious, Trump loving old woman, who believes entirely in the Bible.
We talk politics, some. She’s unaware of my condition, and I just don’t care enough to correct her. But I was discussing Trump’s military ban, and said that it was wrong. She starts prattling about the damn homosexuals — I’m not a homosexual. I’m a straight man, who unfortunately seems to be lumped in with the gay and lesbian community. Now, don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with lesbians nor gays nor bisexuals, I thought I was a lesbian for many years until manhood came. But the fact that our medical condition has been lumped into a community full of people most every religion is taught to hate, is going to be the death of us. The fact that we got lumped in is the sole reason tucutes started happening. But how do I explain that to people without sounding like I’m homophobic? I just wish someone with a brain could explain this shit. Maybe it’s a good thing the United States government only has “LGB” travelers to worry about now. I don’t want to be anything but a guy suffering from an unfortunate birth defect that is treated through medical intervention and care.
Edit: y’all are welcome to your beliefs, and so am I. I hate the fact that I will forever be associated with gay people, when in fact I am a straight man. I hate the fact that hate will forever be spewed as long we allow a divide. I want this to purely be a medical condition. That’s what this is about. If we hadn’t been forced under the transgender umbrella, we would be okay. But we’re not. End of story

 

[LaughJoke2.0]

Troon shit is worse than lobotomy shit. Nobody willingly lined up and flung themselves on the operating table excited for their lobotomy. Troons are eagerly choosing their mutilation. It's insane on all levels. A surgeon would never agree to remove a healthy arm or leg just because their patient requested it but dicks and tits, no biggy.

I sadly disagree with that a surgeon would never agree to remove a healthy arm or leg. Troonery is adjacent to Plastic Surgery and while there are Plastic Surgeons who do noble work with Burn Victims, Breast Cancer Survivors, and others with disfigurements. There is also so many more who do arm with elective surgeries just to line their pockets. Even surgeries like cutting off the tits of teen girls shouldn't shock us going back to the 80's there was trends of Plastic Surgeons performing nose jobs as sweet sixteen gifts for girls. Which has to be a mind fuck when your parents are like "Happy Birthday now let's do something about your ugly face you inherited from us".

 

[Izdaja Slika]

My partner insists he's straight, how do I get past it?​

So I want to say, first off, that I have been talking to my therapist about this.
I have been married to a straight cis man for just about 5 years now. I didn't know when we got married that I wasn't a woman, that was something I realized just a couple years ago. My partner has been great about it, there have been a few rough patches but he accepts me as I am and is amazingly supportive.
That said, he still insists that he's straight,

He is, you disgusting gross delusional snake.

and it genuinely does bother me. Like I said, I've been talking to my therapist about this. She says that his sexuality doesn't have anything to do with my gender and sexuality and he's free to identify however he wants. Obviously, she's right! So why does it still make me feel so bad?

Because you don't believe your own lies, you disgusting gross delusional snake.

I know, in my head, that his sexuality doesn't invalidate my gender,

It doesn't, because your sex is female and your gender is irrelevant, you disgusting gross delusional snake.

but it still feels crummy. It still feels like maybe he just thinks I'm a girl, deep down.

He does, but start taking T, you disgusting gross delusional snake, and see if he sticks around.

It feels like I have to constantly struggle with my sexuality and gender and he doesn't have to struggle with anything, he just gets to be a straight cis man.

That's because he isn't delusional.

It feels bad, and I don't really know how to get past it.

Renounce your delusions.

My therapist told me last week to "read a book featuring my situation, watch a movie, and try to find real life examples of my situation". And I'm struggling. There really aren't that many depictions of trans men in media, and so far the few depictions I've found of trans men dating straight men have ended with the straight man basically saying, "well, I'm in love with a man, so obviously I'm at least bisexual" so that doesn't really help me at all.

God herself couldn't help you luv.

Being the T in “LGBT” is what will ruin us​

But how do I explain that to people without sounding like I’m homophobic? I just wish someone with a brain could explain this shit. Maybe it’s a good thing the United States government only has “LGB” travelers to worry about now. I don’t want to be anything but a guy suffering from an unfortunate birth defect that is treated through medical intervention and care.

You mean, you don't want to be anything but a heterosexual guy, you delusional homophobic lesbian?

I have bad news for you luv. You're a lesbian. It's not so bad, my lesbian English teacher in high school is partly responsible for my love of a number of authors. But I guess you don't have any talents to endear you to anyone.

Edit: y’all are welcome to your beliefs, and so am I. I hate the fact that I will forever be associated with gay people, when in fact I am a straight man.

I hate the fact that you are associated with gay people too.

 

[Monkey Sea Monkey Drown]

It's another episode of 'troons need to sexualise everything all the time': ESO players wishing each other 'gg', or 'good game' in chat. AGP needs to jump in and remind everyone that 'gg' stands for 'Good Girl'. Vomit.

The guy I broke up with when he started to troon out was obsessed with ESO. Thanks for helping me finally figure out what the catalyst was.

 

[poggers]

This pitiful idiot thought she could be all gender special in the homebirth community, of all places. Surely they are the crunchiest most au naturale group of vaginally-centred females she could possibly target. Anyways. It went as expected.

How does she know the baby is a girl?

 

[Helvetia]

My pet tranny, who I also covered here, is having some issues
Fifty bucks says its the ditch





Also managed to find his Facebook, here. With some more gorgeous pictures. Decided to do a bit of a dive.

Looks like he only trooned out May/June 2024.


He got scammed in March 2023

Spoiler: Text / pictures of post

TO RAISE AWARENESS...
So, I was recently targeted by a romance scammer.
Now don’t worry, I’m fine...
On a high in fact because no personal details were shared and no money was lost.
The point of this post is not for sympathy but to raise awareness. I want to help make sure that if anyone else is targeted that they know what to look out for. I figured that is worth some embarrassment.
This particular one is known as the Pig Butchering/Slaughtering Scam. Named so because it is designed to drain it’s victim completely of their finances or savings, with the victims being the pigs in this metaphor.
How the Scam Works:
The scammer will approach the victim, usually on a dating site (as in my case) and start a conversation with them. They will not try to scam you straight away. They will get to know you first, using scripts specifically designed to manipulate you through interesting topics and love bombing. These scripts are very sophisticated and used to generate natural flowing conversation. In my case, we had philosophical debates. We even talked about how scammers would ask for money and had a good laugh at it. They will wait days, weeks or even months before bringing up the fact they trade crypto-currency. They may even act understanding when you refuse them the first time (as what happened with me). Once they have earned your trust, they will offer to teach you how it works. These are different to normal romance scammers, as they will present themselves as successful and wealthy. They will offer to help you grow your wealth.
Once you agree, they will start by telling you that you need to download two crypto-currency programs. These are usually created to mimic real programs, but they are fraudulent copies. Once your money has been transferred to these programs, you have no control. It’s already gone. At first you may not realise it is gone, because the platforms mimic trade. It will look like you are earning a lot of money but your money is already with the scammers. At first they may encourage you to invest little amounts and show you how to withdraw them. This is designed to boost your confidence and build trust. Eventually, you won’t be able to withdraw the money at all and they will make it seem like it is just a technical issue.
With this scam, you are dealing with an organisation. Not an individual. They are working from a call centre, most likely in China (as this is where the scam originates).
Your money will be stolen, all the while it looks like you are raking it in.
My Story:
I must admit (reluctantly), I got swept up in at first. She seemed to share most of my values, but also had interests different to mine. She seemed like a real and genuine person. She made jokes, disagreed with me on occasion, offered up insights and had a lot of pictures. We even spoke on video call daily. She seemed too good to be true but also too believable to be false. At first when she said she could teach me, I got extremely defensive and accused her of trying to scam me. However, she said she understood and wasn’t going to try and force me into anything. She seemed to just let the topic go, and we continued conversation on as normal. All seemed fine.
Then, after a while, she would bring it up again. Not in a forceful way but saying how I was missing out or that she had given my spot to her friend (as she claimed that her aunt, who knew how to monitor trends, didn’t want to share the secret with many people). Saying that it had helped her friend look after her Mum. I never bit however and after a week of this, her messages to me got less frequent and less intricate. It was at this point that my suspicions were at their strongest. I did some research (well, YouTube mainly lol) and after some digging, I found all kinds of information on the Pig Butchering Scam. It turns out, it is an industry that earns in the billions. So, I tested it. I told her I was interested in learning. Straight away, my phone blew up with messages, with all the warmth and intricacies of before. I’m pretty sure I was talking to different people throughout the process, even. She told me to download two crypto-currency platforms. It was at this point, that I blocked and reported her.
But it didn’t end there, she tried to contact me again (from a different number) and told me that she wasn’t able to see my messages because her other number was a business number (and I was buried in the client list) and that the one she was contacting me on, was a personal one. At this point, I was already aware that this was a tactic used. So I informed her why she couldn’t see my messages and blocked her again. She hasn’t contacted me since.
What To Look Out For:
• They will try to get you off the dating platform straight away onto WhatsApp or some other alternative.
• Poor grammar is a dead give-away.
• They will say they want to meet you, but will always push back the date.
• They will claim they have feelings for you as soon as they think you will reciprocate
• They will find out if you have a job, your living circumstances and will try to get an approximation of your wealth
• They will want you to be exclusive as soon as possible – so that your attention is on them
• They will shower you with compliments and affection
• They will claim they are wealthy
• They will claim they have an inside scoop on trading and will guarantee a profit – There is no guarantee of profit when trading Crypto-Currency or any stock
• If you state that you can look at it when you meet them, they will tell you something along the lines of: “The stock market is not always profitable and that you have to invest as soon as possible to take advantage of current trends”
• They will be pretty consistent in replying but then disappear for hours
• They might suddenly change numbers with a convenient excuse
Mistakes I Made:
• Thinking that because I had video calls with them, that they were legitimate. This used to be a good method of determining a person’s legitimacy, but as people have become more aware of scams so have the scams become more sophisticated.
• Thinking that because I reverse searched their images and nothing came up that they were legitimate. My person was real, but they can also get images from Chinese Social Media for example, which won’t show up on a Google reverse image search.
• Allowing my heart to overcome my instincts/head.
• I left the dating site, despite the fact that the dating site warned me not to
How to Avoid Being Scammed:
• If something seems too good to be true, it probably is
• Never give out personal details
• Never send anyone money
• Don’t leave a dating site until you are ready to meet
• Don’t invest in business opportunities from strangers online and be wary of anyone who suggests it – especially crypto-currency!
Conclusion:
I don’t believe awareness of these scams (especially this particular one) are as pronounced as they should be. Many people fall victim and my theory is that people are too afraid to speak out – mainly due to shame - when it happens to them. And of course, want to avoid judgment from other people (saying that it was obvious it was scam). This is victim blaming. These scammers are adept at manipulation and finding vulnerabilities to exploit. It’s akin to asking people why they stay in abusive relationships, as scammers will use the same manipulation tactics as abusive partners and scamming someone is a form of financial abuse which may be traumatising for the victim. It is the fault of the scammer and the scammer alone. Anyone is capable of ignoring red flags when they don’t want to believe they are there.
I don’t believe I was ever in any danger of falling victim to this particular scam. I was guarded against it from the start. However, I did want to believe that she was legitimate. That I had found someone that I could talk to and share with. I did believe that we would meet eventually and I was convinced that she had my best intentions at heart. I even apologised for not trusting her.
I was afraid of sharing this, as I am embarrassed about the whole affair myself but I was only looking for love and I do not believe that to be a crime. I think it is important that people be aware. As such, I have posted screenshots of our conversation below. To give people more of an indication of what to look out for. I did get some satisfaction when I called her out though.

Deadname: Ian Sagar



Lives in Coventry, from Maidstone in Kent



Bit of a gooner:

 

[SouthernBitchBob]

I'm sort of the opposite, I mean I was always sort of creeped out by clowns, then when I was a kid I watched a documentary about John Wayne Gacy and something in my brain turned it up to 11, I must have been like "fuck they are really dangerous after all!" because I've been horrified by the things ever since. Sounds retarded because I'm a full grown fucking man but they creep the hell out of me, serious uncanny valley shit.

Spoiler: Clowns

One of my adult relatives hates clowns, more intensely than the usual clown aversion people have. For Easter in Catholic school back in the day, they made the kids watch this nightmarish movie retelling of the crucifixion in a circus. The Jesus allegory was a clown dressed in all white, and they strung him limp and marionette-like up on the high wire as a stand-in for his "death"


When she showed me that picture, I immediately got the clown hate.

 

[Magic Pickle]

Today, we're taking a tour through r/mypartneristrans so us hateful transphobes can see just how wonderful and loving transgender people can be as partners and why we're so wrong to consider them tree-frog tier toxic. Really, it's like reading posts from a battered women's shelter.

Time for a hot, fresh bowl of irony: OP is a MTF who is unhappy that his lovely lady has decided that deep down, she considers herself a lovely lad instead. The poor fella - just a year ago, he wept like a widow over the death of his ""lesbian"" relationship. I do so love to watch them eat their own.
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As a trans person, had I known my partner was trans I don't think I would've started dating them​

Long story short, I've been out as trans for around 5 years. I started dating my partner nearly 2 years ago, but when we met they identified as a woman. Time goes by, they give me the ultimatum to stop hormones (long story short, they found it unattractive for me to be on hormones), and then they came out as trans VERY recently (past 3 months). Now he's struggling with starting testosterone, I can hardly even handle my own dysphoria, and the subject is bringing up a lot of sore feelings regarding my own hormones.
Love this guy to death, but if I knew I was going to be with someone who also had gender dysphoria, it would've never happened. I don't even know how to handle the subject, and when I do I'm very awkward about it. It's not that I don't care, I just don't feel as if there's any way to be comforted because reassurance doesn't work for either of us.
Just, the whole thing's a headache. I hate how much the concept of transitioning has changed my life.

A dishonorable, despicable derelict mistreats his wife of 15 years, ignores his child to play dress-up with other malodorous perverts and lashes out at OP further when she finds him unattractive to the point of locking her out of their marital bedroom and forcing her to set up in the guest room. Keep in mind when you read this post she is a financially dependent stay-at-home mom to their child during all of this. You will never hate trannies enough.
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Feeling frustrated with trans partner​

TLDR; my newly mtf? Partner of 15 years doesn't want to share with me about aspects of their transition, or what feels like their new life, and I'm having trouble dealing with the emotional distance between us, especially when the physical connection is not really there at the moment.
I (cisf) have been with my spouse (mtf?) for fifteen years. They came out last year as a cross-dresser and possibly non-binary, but they just told me a few weeks ago (after many times checking in with them and attempting to talk about it) that they had been going by she/they pronouns for months in their support groups and online, that they were using a new name in those spaces, and they made appointments for gender-affirming care, though they don't know how "far" into transition feels right and they aren't sure what they want or how they want to present, as a more androgynous person or more as a woman.
I want them to be happy and fulfilled; I haven't and would never ask them to stop this process because I know they need it. I have never once yelled at them, insulted them, or implied that they are wrong for feeling this way. I've bought them women's clothing, make up, and perfume; I've given them things from my own cabinet that I don't use much. I let them go to whatever in-person or virtual meeting or therapy session they want, even when it means they don't see our child for a couple of days at a time.
However, I had no inkling of this for fifteen years, and I'm not doing well. It has shaken my foundation to learn that the man I fell in love with was essentially a mask. We built our relationship based on trust and honesty. I never thought they'd hide something like this, especially because their family was blown apart when their father came out as gay.
We've been married for ten years, we have a child, we were working on another. I am a SAHM and I am financially dependent on them. I don't have a lot of options, but beyond that, I genuinely don't want to divorce. I love them very much and I am trying to make it work despite feeling a lot of grief and loss and shock. They are my best friend.
I experimented with women before I met my partner, but those experiences didn't do much for me and I'm genuinely not interested in women sexually. It's very hard to see my formerly very masculine, very built, bearded, hairy husband wearing lipstick and a nightgown that could belong to my mother, and then be expected to have sex.
I did, once, early on, ask that they not wear certain items to bed if they wanted to be intimate, but they got very upset and I said nevermind, I'll deal with it. We haven't been able to have sex for several months without one of both of us crying (them, because of dysphoria, me because I feel terrible knowing they're in pain and because I am craving the physical connection we used to have).
The last few months they've been very distant. Turns out it's because they've been scared to share any of the above because of my supposedly negative reactions. They didn't want to tell me about their pronouns (it was firmly he/him until a few weeks ago). They didn't want to tell me their new name, and still won't tell me. They only told me about this all during a couples therapy session.
I told them this week that I feel very shut out. I don't know what's going on in their head, I don't know where they're going or what doctors they're seeing or who they're talking to. Sometimes I'm literally locked out of our bedroom, so I've made a home in the guest room. They have been, essentially, a whole new person to these new friends in these support groups, while I'm sitting at home with our child in their old life. I said, honestly, that our physical connection is not really here right now, which is obvious, but I don't know how we're going to rebuild a foundation of trust if they can't be honest with me, even when it's scary. I don't expect them to share every thought in their mind, but I do expect some transparency around big medical and financial decisions. It would also be nice to hear about how their non-therapy gatherings go with their new friends, but they don't really want to share about any aspect of that. It's like a separate life and a separate person who I'm not friends with. If we can't be sexual and romantic, if we can't be emotionally close and have a partnership, then what are we doing?
They took all of that and simplified it to, "So we can't have sex and you want me to tell you EVERYTHING, so you're done," which is not at all what I said, then rolled over and started crying and wouldn't talk any more.
I don't know, I guess I think you should be able to be honest with your life partner, even when it's hard. It's hard for me to admit that I'm not feeling as much attraction and that's something I'm trying to get over. It's hard to admit that I'm sad that my idea of my future is gone. It's hard to know it might hurt their feelings, but if I don't say it, it will fester and I won't be able to move through it.
Then again, they were sitting on the cross-dressing/gender questioning for fifteen years and didn't tell me. Maybe our connection was not based on honesty.
Am I being unreasonable? I keep going back and forth. I know they deserve some privacy and they can have friends that I don't really know and do things without me and that's fine. But I would like some insight into what they're thinking or struggling with or planning. I don't appreciate being shut out and I don't know what to do.

After doing everything she can to assist her selfish pooner partner in her self-destruction, a handmaiden finds herself longing for the end of her tale.
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I'm becoming exhausted with ftm partner's journey​

Hi everyone, throwaway because I don't want my partner to stumble across this post.
My partner (tNB 26) and I (F 29) have been together for 3 years. A few months into our relationship they began to explore their NB identity and a few months after that began thinking they'd like to transition with top surgery and currently unsure about T.
I've been as supportive as possible since the beginning as I was pansexual. I've listened, asked questions to understand, gone to trans rallies, helped ground them after horrible calls with their parents, encouraged them in their choices and explored options. I've done lots of my own research and never felt worried about their transition, top surgery or them taking hormones.
Recently, some things have begun to grate on me, and I'm finding it difficult to maintain supportiveness and openness in all instances.
The main issue is that my partner has terrible dysphoria, especially about their chest, and as a result is absolutely hyperfixated on top surgery. I fully support this. The part that's hard is their hyperfocus - it's at the point where they'll often zone out while I'm talking to stare at their hear or body in a mirror or window and they can talk for hours and hours with minimal input from me about their transition plans. It feels like I'm being talked AT and not TO.
And they follow so many instagram creators who post sooo many thirst traps and place so much emphasis on looks and aspects I would typically find more superficial.
And I get it - I have had dysmorphia and it fuck ing sucks and all the body checking is exhausting and I imagine it's like that. But I'm really struggling to cope and stay supportive when my partner seems so preoccupied about this to the point that they've lost interest in other things.
I reached a breaking point where my partner wanted to subscribe to NB and ftm porn creators to learn more about trans sex and for reassurance around their attractiveness. But they really broke my trust - they didn't tell me they did this and I found out by accident and I feel betrayed.
It felt like a culmination of frustration.
There are also my own issues to deal with around this too - I used to think I was pansexual but I decided not to date men ages ago. My partner is seriously considering their identity as a man and I feel sad or grieving that I may end up being with a man again. This isn't helped by the fact that they can act like a stereotypical cis man in terms of household labour and emotional availability (and adult content accounts like I said).
I'm also a bit worried about if they decide to go on T and how it will affect their mood. They have a hormonal disorder that causes insane dysregulation and I'm worried that T is only going to make them more depressed, suicidal and angry/ragey.
In short, I'm tired and I'm afraid.
Despite this I fully support my partner's transition and choices and while I feel these things, I also will continue to fight for their rights and support them in the face of transphobic family etc.
I'm just... Sad.

This case of tranny narcissistic abuse isn't really very funny, but I felt it merited posting because if troons and their allies are fervent in anything, it's that trans people are never abusive and are always the ultimate victim. OP, consider coming on down to the farms - we'll be happy to deprogram you.
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Recently found out that my ex now views me as transphobic, abusive, and manipulative despite telling me all throughout our relationship that I was the healthiest relationship they ever had. Struggling to understand.​

I (22 f) recently found a reddit post she (22 mtf) made about her experiences on hormone therapy (which she started after we broke up) and am trying to wrap my ahead around it.
Some background on my ex and our relationship:
My ex has experience a tremendous amount of childhood trauma and suffered from substance abuse growing up. She has suffered from SA at the hands of her ex and abuse from her father who was in a gang. While we were dating she was living at home with her transphobic family and that impacted her a lot. Earlier in our relationship they mentioned that they often had hallucinations and struggled to distinguish reality.
We dated for four years. When we first started dating, she did not yet come out as trans. So for some time we were a typical heteronormative couple. Then a few months into the relationship she told me she was non binary and preferred they/them pronouns. At the time, it was quite a big shock to me but I did my best to love and support her. Eventually, she told me that she wanted to fully transition to becoming a women (hormone only) and goes by she/they pronouns. This was such a big shock to me. I believe I was around 19 when this happened? It was a crazy time. I remember having a break down on the call when she told me. I felt the fear of our religious family finding out. I felt anxiety of maybe having to come out as bisexual to my family when i never wanted to come out. I felt the dream of introducing her to my family dissipate. Although I was always iffy about kids and marriage. I thought about how that fs was gonna change. Like how many of you express in this subreddit. It’s a big adjustment.
Although, the news was a shock, the love i felt for her never change and I did my best to support her as she grappled with her new identity. When this was very fresh, she said she would try not to overwhelm me with too much info and I appreciated her trying to understand me. I loved her and wanted to see the woman she would become. I went to therapy to help me adjust with this change. I gave her my makeup, dresses and nail polish. I tried to do her makeup. I complimented her fem voice when she showed me. I always encouraged and supported her when she would open up about her past trauma. Helped her with school and career. I see even to this day, so much potential in her and always did my best to encourage her. I encouraged her to see her dr before transitioning. to see a therapist.
I was not perfect tho. Sometimes I accidentally misgendered her. I always profusely apologized and she always said she appreciated my apology. One time she tried black eyeshadow that did not look to great. When she asked me what I honestly thought. I said it looked a bit bad and gave her raccoon eyes. and recommend she tried a style that didn’t hide her eyes. I had thought that she wanted my honest feedback so i shared it. but i was wrong and she was deeply hurt by this. I still feel so bad about this. I also remember after an argument I blurted out (and immediately regretted) that I wanted to kms. (i don’t anymore) But at that time i felt such strong emotions that I said that without considering her trauma and how it would hurt her. We made up and i apologized and never did that again.
All through out our relationship, she would say that I was the perfect girl friend. That i was the only person she felt she could talk to. That i was the healthiest relationship. When I asked for feedback on the relationship she would say we were okay.
before we broke up , I had a panic attack and became and ball and smacked my head to try and calm myself down and accidentally hit her as she wrapped her arms around me. She then said I hit her and broke up with me saying she has never been in a relationship where she wasn’t hit. Not being able to see that it was truly an accident and not the same as the abuse she faced when she was younger. It hurt to hear.
In her reddit post, she said I stopped her from transitioning multiple times. That i was projecting my self hatred(?) That I was toxic and did not see her for the women she was. This completely contrasted what she said to me when she broke up with me and i’m just shocked. I remember when we broke up she said I can paint her as a villain if it helped me move on. I still don’t want to to this day. I told my friends and therapist and they insist that I am not an abusive person. I just am struggling to believe them right now. Lots of mixed emotions.

What is it about transition that makes their partners so hyper-vigilant and anxious about any sort of wrongthink? Surely it can't be the culture of eggshells and suicide threats they've cultivated, right? No, it's the transphobes who are wrong.
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I said something I shouldn’t have and I feel like an asshole.​

me (f1 and my partner (ftm19) do this bit where we pretend we are an old conservative southern couple fighting. Its a joke we do, we just think it’s funny. Last night we were doing that and he made a comment about taking away women’s rights, and without thinking I said “if they take away women’s rights they’re taking away yours too”. It just sort of came out of my mouth, I didn’t mean anything by it at all and at the time I didn’t realize how personal that comment could be. He got quiet and told me what I said was actually rude, and then said he was going to go to bed. I started spiraling, because again I didn’t realize that what I said came across as a personal hit. I thought the gender thing was fair game, and that It was just another silly fake argument. I went and called my sister (detransitioned, but was ftm for several years), and she gave me a reality check. I know that my boyfriend is very private about him being trans, and that the current political state of america is something that scares him really bad, and I know now that I shouldn’t have said it. I just am struggling I guess with how to know what the limits are, and what constitutes part of the bit vs an actual rude comment. I gave him a lengthy apology, and he accepted it. Then we went to bed together happily. But I still feel really shitty. I don’t want him to think that I view him any differently, and I don’t want to contribute to his anxieties. He said he is completely over it but I just can’t stop thinking. I’ve never been with a trans person before, truthfully I never even met a trans person besides my sister before him. I’m still really new to a lot of things, and I can’t help but feel hyper aware of everything I do and say. I’m worried about almost everything I say coming across wrong or uneducated. I just don’t know what to do to ease this anxiety, and I don’t know where to educate myself or even begin to learn what is okay to say vs not okay. advice?

After those blood pressure boiling point posts, it's time for a laugh: a corpulent little lesbian is devastated when her FTM partner, once on testosterone, realizes she's just as dick crazy as a sorority girl stereotype.
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My boyfriend is no longer attracted to me​

I (Afab nb 25) and my boyfriend (ftm 27) have been together for a year now. I’m a fat nb person of color and have never been the one to make the first move out of fear of rejection. I knew my boyfriend for a year before we started dating and never really considered him because of how out of my league I thought he was. He is also in a long term relationship with his partner (amab nb 29) and they’ve been best friends before for 6 years. I am poly but the prospect of entering a relationship with that much strength and bond was also an intimidating process. Not to mention they are also thin and conventionally attractive. My boyfriend pursued me however, he was very sweet and considerate of my feelings and has continued to be. He is the sweetest man ever and I love him very much and have grown fond of his partner as well. Recently he started testosterone and things have changed (obviously) but I never doubted that we loved each other and was more than anything so excited to see him more comfortable in his skin. When we first started dating we were very intimate with each other physically and emotionally and the wounded fat child in me that believed nobody could ever love this body was healed in little ways. However that was in the first three or so months of the relationship and we haven’t been intimate since. I grew very insecure but we had discussed that the hormones were changing a lot and that included how and when he was in the mood. I guess I never thought it would be an issue of attraction. For more context I tried to take my life August of last year and it has been a really hard time for all of us. I have been extra sensitive as of late as well and I was so excited for this trip because I just needed a bubble where I felt love. Like always he was very sweet and affectionate but he wasn’t touching me in suggestive ways or showing any real interest in my body. I brought it up, and wanted to see if there was something I was doing, or just know where his head was at. He told me that since being on testosterone his preferences have changed and essentially didn’t think he was attracted to women or afab bodies anymore. He told me we might never have sex again. This absolutely crushed me. I know it’s not about me. Logically I know it’s probably very difficult for him to go through these changes and vulnerable to express this with me. I’m devastated, I think I’m really just hoping there’s someone out there who has gone through a similar situation, and maybe there’s some solidarity that I can find. I feel so ugly and small and selfish.

Lastly, a crosspost: a HSTS over on r/StraightTransGirls showcases his totally feminine empathy with the curious word choice in describing these stories of abuse as "interesting"; methinks you are not quite as woman-brained as you allege. The comments also hop immediately into speculating the men's side of the stories by asking "if they had transitioned sooner, would things be different?"
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Has anyone had any bad experience with r/mypartneristrans?​

Had anyone posted or commented in r/mypartneristrans? I was hoping to read some stories about a cis straight guy talking about his trans gf. But 9 out of 10 posts in that sub are from a cis female who is in a relationship with a previously heterosexual man who is now coming out as a trans woman. The stories are still interesting.
I raised a question about why we are seeing so many posts like that and why in general we have a lot of transbians in recent years. Straight trans women like us always existed but we are always a tiny %. I feel like it’s a legit question and some of the cis female OPs also want to know the answer. The mods in that sub took down my question and banned me saying my question was transphobic. I tried to appeal and asked them to explain why it’s transphobic. They didn’t have a good answer so they told me i didn’t have good faith then muted me
I am so curious. Do you think my question is transphobic? I genuinely don’t understand it and would like someone to educate me better if they know the answer. Have you had good experiences with trans lesbians?

 

[Fart Huffer]

What is it about transition that makes their partners so hyper-vigilant and anxious about any sort of wrongthink? Surely it can't be the culture of eggshells and suicide threats they've cultivated, right? No, it's the transphobes who are wrong.
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Joking about taking away women's rights = Hilarious, based, who gives a fuck what those cis women think, amiright, boys?
They choose their own oppression by not becoming men like us.

Joking about taking away tranny rights =

 

[deermeat]

This case of tranny narcissistic abuse isn't really very funny, but I felt it merited posting because if troons and their allies are fervent in anything, it's that trans people are never abusive and are always the ultimate victim. OP, consider coming on down to the farms - we'll be happy to deprogram you.

This is one of those things that really pisses me off about troons yet I don't see it brought up much- troons, mainly TiMs, are pieces of shits who love to just straight up lie about horrible things. About being SA'd, about being abused, etc. It's disgusting.
I highly doubt the troon has a "horrible childhood" where his partner raped him or whatever the fuck and where his dad was a gang member LMAOO Ah yes, women love raping TiMs- a common theme I see throughout TiMs, that women are all physically and sexually abusive to these poor poor ladies who troon out later where they conveniently adopt a predatory and perverted lifestyle.
Then load and behold, turns out they lied about their ex partners. If they are content with calling one partner abusive when she/he wasn't, they are content with calling anything abusive.

These motherfuckers call misgendering "abuse". Fuck these people, you don't know what abuse is like, you all are abusers.

 

[Aquarius]

Sylvia Rusty / Sylvia Rusty Soldner / SylviaRustyFae

Oh shit, this guy. I remember seeing his videos and feeling horrified. He does covers of songs from children’s movies and talks about being sexually assaulted in the video title and description. Major nonce vibes. For example, here’s him singing Haven’t You Noticed I’m a Star from Steven Universe.

Spoiler: Local archive

This is one of those things that really pisses me off about troons yet I don't see it brought up much- troons, mainly TiMs, are pieces of shits who love to just straight up lie about horrible things. About being SA'd, about being abused, etc. It's disgusting.

Agreed. I’m instantly getting flashbacks to Daniel “Danielle” Muscato passing off Fiona Apple’s sexual assault story as something that happened to “his sister”, when he has no sister. I’m also thinking about HontraPoints blabbing about how he could totally #Me Too a famous leftist… but he’s not gonna do anything, lol, he just wants you to know that he’s totally been raped and that makes him a woman.

I think they lie like this because it’s sexually arousing for them, obviously. Elliot Fong Jones likes to LARP as a “sex worker” even though he’s a well-paid computer engineer. As tranny freak Anthony Long Chu once said, fucked is what a woman is. They see woman as synonymous with “sex hole”, and so their autogynephilia is triggered whenever they see sexual violence against women or playact the subject themselves.

And this isn’t a new or shocking revelation. Tranny pervert Joseph “Grace” Lavery said that:

There is something about being treated like shit that feels like affirmation (of womanhood) itself, like a cry of delight from the deepest cavern of my breast. To be the victim of honest, undisguised sexism possesses an exhilarating vitality.

Emphasis my own.
Yep. Sexism and abuse turns him on because being victimized is what a woman is. It’s totally not a humiliation fetish. Meanwhile, here’s what feminist Robin Morgan had to say about trannies back in 1973:

I will not call a male “she”; thirty-two years of suffering in this androcentric society, and of surviving, have earned me the title “woman”; one walk down the street by a male transvestite, five minutes of his being hassled (which he may enjoy), and then he dares, he dares to think he understands our pain? No, in our mothers’ names and in our own, we must not call him sister.

Emphasis my own.
“Which he may enjoy”. Hit the nail on the head with that comment. Of course, there are other reasons; I’m convinced Hontra blurted his story out to try and gain sympathy from TERFs. These are creeps who rely on pity to get their way - that’s the whole logic of “gender dysphoria”: play pretend with me or I’ll kill myself. If they’re willing to lie about that to emotionally blackmail people into letting them use the women’s washroom, why wouldn’t they lie and man-linger in other contexts?

 

[DreinMeinVein]

Don't fucking take this from me. One of the few things I have that is untainted by trannies is clowning, as far as I know. Do not take the fucking circus from me.

I'm sorry, fren. A personal cow of mine is a troon and a clown.
Meet C.J. "Siege" Bellwether...





Can't tell you if he's (deliberately) funny or not, when it comes to circus performance. He went to clown school.

Pretty sure his doomname is Christopher something. He claims his adoptive sister/mother was a tranny named Mira Bellwether. Mira was that bloke who wrote a 'zine called Fucking Transwomen, as featured in Vice, which introduced the world to the concept of "muffing".

Mira died a couple of years back, but he left muffing as his legacy; poking your fingers into the side of a troon's nutsax and into the inguinal canal. Sounds really sexy, eh? A life well lived.

Anyway, C.J. loves to post on Mastodon about how troons aren't pervert weirdos, alongside his musings on lesbian kinks. He complains about tranny kids not being transed fast enough by the UK health system, but he thinks it's no big deal.
He had a neovag installed some years ago – he once posted a Twitter wank fantasy about getting to compare his new twat to that of a real girl at some squat party. He's fucking gross, deluding himself that he's some sort of futuristic avant-garde.

Siege CJ Bellwether

https://mastodon.online/@siege@octodon.social

Sorry matey. The circus is compromised. This sideshow freak is writing mini essays about troons and clowns.

https://mastodon.online/@siege@octodon.social/113922639992787599

I have older pics saved somewhere.
Here's a vid...

https://youtu.be/z2lLau5G4Mk

ETA: another Kiwi made a whole post on Siege's sister/mother's 'zine. It's gross, obviously, but if you want to know how to finger a troon's ball strings...

https://kiwifarms.st/threads/a-guide-to-muffing-the-hidden-way-to-finger-trans-women.35359/

 

[Frofo Baggis]

Well that's the most retarded thing i've seen today.


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[Procrastinhater]

Well that's the most retarded thing i've seen today.

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Heh. Yeah cute attempt but we both still know that voice that tells you you're just a pervert is right.

 

[Aquarius]

Well that's the most retarded thing i've seen today.

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“I used an exogenous version of estrogen, which I mistakingly think is the lady hormone for ladies, and that now means I will experience the sensation of organs I will never have and never did have.”
It’s funny how they call “TERFs” (AKA normal people but they’re scapegoating women because they’re jealous of them) conspiracy theorists when they have a magical, Platonic concept of steroids.. Iron law of woke projection.

Also… lol. Gotta love the trannies being Star Trek nerds and pretending to be like Seven of Nine. You know, that character played by an actual woman with a vagina?

A personal cow of mine is a troon and a clown.

Trannies love clowns. This personal lolcow of mine with a thread in the Prospering Grounds is a good example. He and his wife (pooner) had clowns at their wedding, along with other clown paraphernalia. They know that they make normal people laugh or creep us out.

 

[DreinMeinVein]

Trannies love clowns. This personal lolcow of mine with a thread in the Prospering Grounds is a good example. He and his wife (pooner) had clowns at their wedding, amongst other clown-esque paraphernalia. They know they either make us laugh or creep us out.

https://youtu.be/v8_aaqbaVvE

How do I get YouTube vids to appear in the reply? So it's not just a link?
I know to delete the ?SI part to avoid tracking.
Yeah sorry, I'm still a bit new to posting.
(The link is just clown music performed by clowns. Relevant. Not important.)
Thanks.