I wish I where a smarter man, this is the best explaination I can give. The idea of being a woman has changed into being the attractor. Men put in work for you, men try and get your attention. That is the only power modern women focus on, and because of that modern women end up being incredibly neurotic. Obviously a huge portion of this subreddit aren't even actual biological women, they're men who don't want to be men, in that, trannies(gay men with the effeminate role) have this neurosis as well. Every snivering peice of crap will become a tranny, or basically acts like a tranny.