Now the mom of the year wants to use her fuck trophy’s as an excuse. You and Tardl are both niggers when it comes to parenting, and I’m sure grandma is raising all those kids, just like Tyrone and Leshawnda.
Lay,
So Lord Tarl Von Warwick is like the Boss Hogg of Rutland? In fact, Tarl has probably already wiped out half of the Vermont Dept of Justice using chaos magic. You should call in the A-Team to protect you from Lord Warwick's minions (the Amish mafia, the satanic wizard covens etc...). The surviving cops are clearly under Tarl's thrall which explains why they refuse to take your totally real and not made up complaints seriously. #believeallwomen
That's what makes this so tricky. She is crazy and fails to take account for her errors, yet she's not entirely without point or cause. She disingenuously portrays the message of "take accountability for your own copious errors than stick it to the faggot" as "just let the faggot get away with it." Tarl is legitimately guilty as hell and needs to be shoved in a locker, but she undermines her testimony with her whole "I dindu nuffin wrong" attitude. If she could just say, yeah, I'm a fuckup and a mess whose life is in complete disarray because of my own bad decisions, but at least I can be honest about it as opposed to a certain other faggot, she'd manage to get the high ground and actually have a chance of coming out the winner, but she refuses to admit her own copious errors so that she can be equipped to fight Tarl. She disingenuously translates this as "oh, so I should be punished and not him?" No. You should admit your crimes, so that you have a case for leniency and get the upper hand in your professed goal to hold Tarl accountable.
Meh I dunno bro. I never believed the Nola cell phone massacre. Aside from being a lecherous pussy-hound, I think Tarl's biggest sin is grifting off of mediocre content. I also think Sam is fucking nuts and these two deserve each other.
Hmm, I dunno either, but if you're wrong, it's on Laylithe to establish otherwise. The way she's carrying on, you appear to be right. The onus is on Laylithe to prove otherwise.
As disappointing as Tardle is in his downward spiral, I gotta say, he has iron discipline in comparison to his Lay. She oscillates between kissing and kicking at a higher frequency than 5G. Tarl, in comparison, is the OG Honey Badger, and the more he don't give a shit, the quicker Redneck Blanche DuBois comes on here with her latest Pap smear results. The couple brings the tragicomedy better than Shakespere.
You aren't keeping up well. 28 hours after the post you quoted, she posted the following.
Two days ago, she was talking as if nothing would stop her and anyone with words of discouragement were defending an abuser. The very next day, nothing could help her and anyone encouraging her was ostensibly putting her at unnecessary risk. On Thursday, everyone on one side was a malicious devil, on Friday, everyone on the other side was a malicious devil. She speaks with equal zeal on both days, despite the fact that they are antithetical attitudes. She is simply combing for approval from the supporters of her pressing charges and, the very next day, seeks the approval of those who discourage pressing charges. I've seen her pull this trick TWICE in two months. A month ago, I was giving her credit for finally admitting that she was fucking up too, but the next week it was "I dindu nuffin wrong." A few days ago, she was "I don't care what you all think, I believe in myself." Now she is seeking everyone's approval and melts down when someone ridicules her. Everything she does is from a praise/effort calculation. Whatever gets her the most praise with the least effort at that moment is what she will do. It doesn't even have to match with what she said yesterday, because she can't be bothered to think about anything other than how she is feeling right now at this very moment.
The problem is that your feelings are dictating your choices. Not influencing, not informing, dictating. If you feel fearless, you make proclamations that you are in this for the long haul and will see it through to the end, win or lose. If you feel fear, you make proclamations that it is hopeless and chasing justice is a fool's errand. When you do a complete 180 just because your feelings did a complete 180, why should anyone listen to a word you say? Keep in mind, you're the one coming HERE to speak to US. We are not entering your space to speak to you. You are coming here to speak to us. The "I don't owe you an explanation" line wears thin when YOU are the one making the claims and inviting the dialogue. If you really meant what you said about "I don't just sit by and get abused", you wouldn't let the next day's feelings derail you. Or my jabs. Or anyone else's.
I understand the mixed emotions. I’m just trying to give you sound advice because I want to see you truly happy, not fake happy or temporarily happy. I just don’t think going through the wringer of the court systems will do that is all.
I see that you have 4 posts total, all in this forum, all with a consistent message. I have but a single question (or two). Since you appear to sincerely want to help Samantha/Laylithe and are within 2 degrees of her IRL, I find it curious that you choose to address her publicly, where any alog can interject and add commentary, as opposed through the site's direct messaging feature. Anything you have to say to her and anything she'd have to say to you is subjected to peanut gallery commentary, whether you desire it or not. Your posts appear to be intended to reach her directly and I can't help but think that direct messaging would serve your objective better. Don't get me wrong, everyone here, myself included, are here to see dirty laundry aired openly, but call it mercy on my end, but I do feel obliged to inform you of other options to avoid that outcome. Mind your surroundings and all that. That said, were you aware that you could direct message here and are you familiar with the culture of these boards? If so, your choice is a curious one.
How do you square with this with the superlative claims that he was abusive and endangered the children by not flushing the toilet ever? You went on a pretty epic rant about how horrible he was a couple months back and now this. Holy fuck, how do you live with no sense of constancy or stability? Holy fucking shit.
Isn't this the guy who leaves plops in the toilet and you railed against him? If he's great, get hitched and be done with the mess.
You don't understand she FEELS differently this week, so reality shifted itself to make the reality of the matter consistent with her FEELINGS. She FELT he was bad before, so he was. She no longer FEELS that way, so he no longer is.
