Plagued Nice Guys

They're all the same fucking guy.

Yeah, this guy
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Most people who are undesirable or unlikeable, whatever, on some level, they know. Do you think that guy knows? Do you think the dude realizes he, and that fucking photo, is a fucking joke, or is he genuine and he actually think's thats fucking cool?

Like, that's gotta be someone's retarded high school photo, especially with that backdrop.
 
Most people who are undesirable or unlikeable, whatever, on some level, they know. Do you think that guy knows? Do you think the dude realizes he, and that fucking photo, is a fucking joke, or is he genuine and he actually think's thats fucking cool?

Like, that's gotta be someone's exceptional high school photo, especially with that backdrop.

He is https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jerry_Messing

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Nothing to report on my friend. She hasn't heard a peep from him since he got served. What remains to be seen is if he shows up to hearing. If the petitioner shows up, and the defendant doesn't they're usually granted. If both show up, there's sometimes some fireworks. I will be in attendance both as a witness for the petitioner and for moral support. I will report back afterwards.
 
An exchange at the YouTube comments from that IT Crowd scene
Nice guy: I hate to generalise, but it's true.
Some guy: In your eyes, it's true, but that's because you weren't a "nice guy" to begin with.
Nice guy: I eventually learnt to be a little cruel and now my current girlfriend, the love of my life, won't leave me alone. A word of advice: don't always give her what she wants, and make sure there is enough distance between the two of you, and you should be nonchalant. Otherwise, you might fuck up before you actually get going.
 
I recently had a talk about this with my 14 year old nephew who's started being really interested in girls but he's kind of a wuss so he's going about it the romantic comedy "nice guy" kind of way. So I sat him down and told him this.

Being "A nice guy" won't get you anywhere, because 90% of the guys you meet can be nice to a girl. It's the cost of admission for just having a conversation with a girl, not a relationship. If you want to evolve past basic pleasantries you need to have something to offer. Looks, athletic ability, a job so you can take her out, enough fashion sense to not look like you're 8 or 80, they want at least 3 of these, just like you're gonna want her to be pretty, thin and able to hang out with your friends for more than 10 minutes before asking to go. And don't put her on a pedestal, but don't be an ass either, realize she's a human being just like you and treat her like you'd like to be treated and most of all, realize your life was good before you met her, and it can still be good after, she doesn't hold a magical key yo your happiness.

Hopefully it sinks in
 
I recently had a talk about this with my 14 year old nephew who's started being really interested in girls but he's kind of a wuss so he's going about it the romantic comedy "nice guy" kind of way. So I sat him down and told him this.

Being "A nice guy" won't get you anywhere, because 90% of the guys you meet can be nice to a girl. It's the cost of admission for just having a conversation with a girl, not a relationship. If you want to evolve past basic pleasantries you need to have something to offer. Looks, athletic ability, a job so you can take her out, enough fashion sense to not look like you're 8 or 80, they want at least 3 of these, just like you're gonna want her to be pretty, thin and able to hang out with your friends for more than 10 minutes before asking to go. And don't put her on a pedestal, but don't be an ass either, realize she's a human being just like you and treat her like you'd like to be treated and most of all, realize your life was good before you met her, and it can still be good after, she doesn't hold a magical key yo your happiness.

Hopefully it sinks in
You have done him a great service. Every boy should get this talk when they hit about 13-14. Everyone, regardless of gender, should also be told that you don't need another person to be happy. Yeah, we're social animals, but we also can adapt to be alone, and frankly, I think because society rams home the idea that there's something wrong with you if you're not in a relationship is why people get into toxic and even abusive relationships just to avoid being alone.
 
True, but that makes Nice Guy (tm) even sadder...

He's not in it because he feels a societal obligation to pair up, he feels a need to verify his own self-worth by sticking his dick in gorgeous women.... and that's a very very limited career path.

I get that "why aren't you more social?" nagging a lot. And it's silly, for reasons you allude to. There's a difference between asocial and ANTI-social. Asocial is you don't go to parties even if invited. Anti-social means you go to parties you weren't invited to, often with firearms.
 
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