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- Oct 27, 2021
Agree it's been warped into stupid things, and used incorrectly, but:I've said it before but "boundaries".
That = having boundaries.I've seen enough people use it as a weird gaslighting of just trying to pull power games recently that it kind of disturbs me.
If someone is a constant annoyance or source of abuse in your life, you just cut them out or tell them to kill themselves.
Agree. Having "boundaries" has nothing to do with requiring other people to do anything. Used correctly, it is a personal thing - you set boundaries for what you agree to have in your life or will accept, or not. The rest of the world can take a flip. Advertising "boundaries" or using "boundaries" as a threat or manipulation tool means you don't actually have them, but are instead appealing to others to "do the work" for you.You don't have a therapy session telling them how you're not going to eat at their lunch table if they don't meet your laundry list of demands.
Old news!Or when people saw "literally" in an an attempt to be hyperbolic when they are literally using the word wrong.