Legit have never condoned a-logging, but Phil is right up to the line where it's like... you kinda are asking for it.
There is no reality where telling anybody, in public or private, that somebody in your family is dying is OK. Like that's legit fucked up, even if you're doing some covert ops or whatever gay ass bullshit you called it Phil. Pets are typically off-limits to that shit too.
If you honestly could not come up with a better excuse to say "no" or avoid doing something, you are right up there with the biggest pieces of shit online. You're worse than Mr Beast or Boogie or whoever else you like to use to say you're not bad. You have no shame and when the next bad thing does happen to you (and lets face it, your wife is a whale and you're a skinny fat retard), I will legit throw a pizza party and celebrate. Can't happen soon enough.