Trainwreck ArchivistBecks / 8bitBecca / RemembrancerMx / Yonah Bex Gerber / Rebecca Marie Hernandez-Gerber - The Unhappiest Bitch on Earth. Used a Cancer Scare to Raise Money for a Disneyworld Trip. Collects Identities and Minority Labels Like They're Pokémon; Retired at 36 because of Self-Diagnosed PCOS

[stinky patchouli]

I wonder what kind of proof they require- otherwise people could just claim to break up or hook up whenever they wanted to switch plans and save a buck or two.

To be considered in a domestic partnership, you need to tick a few boxes. Living together for a certain period of time, shared financials, shared property, beneficiary status, etc. to name a few. There's a bunch of different ways to enmesh your lives and employers want you to prove at least 3 to 5 ways you've done that.

Employers will also typically make you sign a paper that says you will tell them immediately if your domestic partnership has dissolved.

 

[metroid_fetish_ii]

Oh yeah, has there been news on the possible Arthur Chu crossover? She decided to blow up her life right after that revelation and we lost track of it.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

I wonder what kind of proof they require- otherwise people could just claim to break up or hook up whenever they wanted to switch plans and save a buck or two.

I'd think proof of some kind of physical separation (leases for new residences, for instance) would probably be a minimum.

Who knows, maybe they let shacker uppers get away with insurance plan murder.

I looked this up, and if she was on Daniel's health insurance they were committing fraud. One of the domestic partnership stipulations is not being married or partnered with anyone else.

But if they were committing fraud, one of the ways of showing dissolution is to change residences or disentangle finances. In today's housing market I'm sure that it could be argued that moving out immediately is a lot to ask, and Becky did bitch and moan about being financially "cut off" recently. Again, that's all if they had decided to commit fraud.

 

[Wargarbl]

Could you elaborate more of what your thoughts are on this?

I have a theory that some of Becky's hyper-dramatic extremism on social media is in service to her "spoiled brat little" fetish roleplay. I have no proof, just a hunch.

If she is roleplaying her fetish on social media, it's also unclear if it's just to interact with randos who don't know they're indulging her fetish by arguing with her or asspatting her, or if it's a "meta-interaction" with her partners. As in, she acts like a spoiled bitch on social media, then a partner sees it and "disciplines" her for it as part of their roleplay.

I think it would take a solid kiwileak to get any real information on this.

 

[Dizzyuntildeath]

I have a theory that some of Becky's hyper-dramatic extremism on social media is in service to her "spoiled brat little" fetish roleplay. I have no proof, just a hunch.

If she is roleplaying her fetish on social media, it's also unclear if it's just to interact with randos who don't know they're indulging her fetish by arguing with her or asspatting her, or if it's a "meta-interaction" with her partners. As in, she acts like a spoiled bitch on social media, then a partner sees it and "disciplines" her for it as part of their roleplay.

I think it would take a solid kiwileak to get any real information on this.

I agree that a lot of her histrionics is performative, but I also believe once upon a time she knew she was lying. But as the old saying goes, if you lie often enough about something, you begin to believe the lie and the lie becomes your truth. She does not actually feel persecuted and preyed upon, those people, particularly vulnerable women rarely make such a spectacle of themselves, because they know it makes them a target, which they never want to be again. She loves attention and she isn't picky about the flavor, good attention positively reinforces her behavior, negative attention becomes a tool to victimize herself, from as simple as correcting her to defending yourself against her fabricated allegations, she revels when people mention her or interact with her because it all plays into her idea that she is the center of the universe. Hell, you don't even have to interact with her, you just have to do something she notices and her shattered psyche makes it about her. She has no friends because she has no value as a social construct outside of twitter and bluesky. I think its been pointed out that the only people that truly deal with her in the real world are men that fuck her. She's the personification of damaged goods.
I would dearly love to study this creature if she was deprived of an Internet connection and men that she has conquered and truly left to fend for herself.

 

[Tragi-Chan]

@Dizzyuntildeath it’s not letting me quote you, but I think she’d run back to Mami and Papi. But if that weren’t an option, I suspect she’d be very boring. She loves drama, but there’s nothing else to her.

 

[Dizzyuntildeath]

@Dizzyuntildeath it’s not letting me quote you, but I think she’d run back to Mami and Papi. But if that weren’t an option, I suspect she’d be very boring. She loves drama, but there’s nothing else to her.

It's hard to say for certain with these kinds of hypotheticals, but her behavior has been reinforced for so long that even if she did truly have to retreat, it wouldn't humble her because she doesn't even know what that means. She lies, begs, steals, she calls everyone that doesn't immediately bow to her an abuser, I honestly don't think she will ever be able to shut up. She's one of those people that would scream about taking her voice away if she had to limit her online vomit, she's addicted to the dopamine that her histrionics provide, the perceived attraction of men (but in reality it's the equivalent of dragging her net across the ocean floor, a child rape fetishist while she has a young and very obviously neglected daughter? There's insane and then there's insane.) She'll always be an insane dramacow, but once the struggle gets real, she's always had someone bail her out. I wonder what she may have become if she didn't have the Devil's own luck of landing wealthy men or nepobabies.

 

[RisingPhoenix]

She's muddling through with weed and prayer, y'all.
Also, weird bit about "if you're lucky enough to afford a home"
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@Umaibae Jackson's family has connections. It's the only reason he's been employable thusfar and it's likely how this job became his.

As someone who has lived in both a place with free Healthcare and America. I think a lot of people like Bex would find the general quality of "free" healthcare for mental health care doesn't in the slightest meet the fantasy where they get immediate one on one support once they say "I really can't handle my feels right now"

 

[Charlie Delicious]

It took until Hah-nuh was 15 months old for Becky to feel "comfortable" doing basic care tasks for her child.
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We suspected this, and she fully admits it. I'm guessing this is part of her whole "I'm disabled" LARP that she will be leaning into even more in the next months as she paints Daniel as an "ableist" in ever possible situation.

Interestingly, it seems like she got real comfy, real fast in the past few weeks when Daniel said "lol no more."

Holy shit what a lazy waste.

I had that shit figured out in a couple days. It's not fucking hard.

 

[Sigmahat]

Being a new parent isn't easy, but for normal people it's "being responsible for a helpless tiny person you love more than life itself", sleep deprivation, mechanical issues with breastfeeding (fucking mastitis, supply problems, etc), balancing the whole thing with making a living, finding reliable childcare, letting someone else care for your helpless tiny person you love more than life itself, seeing them get sick for the first time and feeling terrible about their suffering... and then catching Norovirus FROM them and having to soothe a sick kid when you're blasting out both ends yourself.

Nothing about that is easy, but Becky is complaining about the parts that should have been habit 14 months ago. A lot of people in this thread could give a baby sibling a bottle, change their diaper, and rock them to sleep when they were still children themselves. Becky can't measure up to a twelve year old.

 

[Dizzyuntildeath]

Being a new parent isn't easy, but for normal people it's "being responsible for a helpless tiny person you love more than life itself", sleep deprivation, mechanical issues with breastfeeding (fucking mastitis, supply problems, etc), balancing the whole thing with making a living, finding reliable childcare, letting someone else care for your helpless tiny person you love more than life itself, seeing them get sick for the first time and feeling terrible about their suffering... and then catching Norovirus FROM them and having to soothe a sick kid when you're blasting out both ends yourself.

Nothing about that is easy, but Becky is complaining about the parts that should have been habit 14 months ago. A lot of people in this thread could give a baby sibling a bottle, change their diaper, and rock them to sleep when they were still children themselves. Becky can't measure up to a twelve year old.

I'd be willing to bet that as she is finally doing these tasks 15 months after she should have started, she looks down at the flesh of her flesh, and feels a tinge of jealousy at the attention the baby is getting and not her.

 

[Uncle Tom's Condo]

Becky can't measure up to a twelve year old.

Don't forget the two other cucks who have failed Hannah.

Also, is Hannah even seeing a pediatrician on a regular schedule? I would have to say no because no doctor is going to let that conehead slide and also because Becky hasn't whinged about the doctor misgendering her or Hannah.

 

[Trombonista]

I'd be willing to bet that as she is finally doing these tasks 15 months after she should have started, she looks down at the flesh of her flesh, and feels a tinge of jealousy at the attention the baby is getting and not her.

A tinge? She's been seething with jealousy since Hannah was born.

 

[Stinkyboy]

What is paid healthcare?

 

[The Taco Santo!]

There are specific DBT programs that probably work as well as anything on earth possibly could. Which isn't to say it's a sure thing, and it would definitely work a lot better if she had some tiny crumb of insight, but it's worth a shot. The standard ones- more dubious, but at least it would get her out of the house for 7 hours per day and keep her off Twitter.

On the other hand, she would be shitting up group therapy sessions that people might get something out of if only she wasn't there turning everything into The Becky Show.

 

[Charlie Delicious]

Being a new parent isn't easy, but for normal people it's "being responsible for a helpless tiny person you love more than life itself", sleep deprivation, mechanical issues with breastfeeding (fucking mastitis, supply problems, etc), balancing the whole thing with making a living, finding reliable childcare, letting someone else care for your helpless tiny person you love more than life itself, seeing them get sick for the first time and feeling terrible about their suffering... and then catching Norovirus FROM them and having to soothe a sick kid when you're blasting out both ends yourself.

Nothing about that is easy, but Becky is complaining about the parts that should have been habit 14 months ago. A lot of people in this thread could give a baby sibling a bottle, change their diaper, and rock them to sleep when they were still children themselves. Becky can't measure up to a twelve year old.

I should clarify

Being a new parent is stressful and utterly exhausting. But taking a year and a half to be "comfortable" with feeding, changing, and caring for your kid is nuts. I interpret that as Becky saying "don't leave me alone with this thing, I have no idea what I'm doing" 15 months in.

Becky's going to be one of those insane moms that accuse their teenage daughters of trying to Becky's boyfriend. I feel like there's a name for that.

 

[salt]

Becky, he’s been the only one of you fuckups with a real full time job. He’s not “ignoring her” all week, he is at work trying to not get fired like Cuckson did. Normally, if one spouse is working and the other isn’t, the one who isn’t working does more childcare and housework. If you don’t like that, get a fucking job.

 

[Free the Pedos]

"Hannah's sperm donor ignores her except for when he's working a 9 - 5 to pay for a roof over her head and healthcare, and his daily walks with her. What a monster."

 

[Pargon]

Becky, he’s been the only one of you fuckups with a real full time job. He’s not “ignoring her” all week, he is at work trying to not get fired like Cuckson did. Normally, if one spouse is working and the other isn’t, the one who isn’t working does more childcare and housework. If you don’t like that, get a fucking job.
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Becky, the abnormality of two parents acting like humans and the third wheel not is not where your attentions should be.

 

[Dizzyuntildeath]

"Hannah's sperm donor ignores her except for when he's working a 9 - 5 to pay for a roof over her head and healthcare, and his daily walks with her. What a monster."

"Please do not point out that my child's skull is deformed because I actively neglected it for its entire life. That is abusive."