You are correct that moe culture and lolicon are intertwined. What weeb men like you find arousing and therefore "beautiful" or "desirable" about female sex is the underage characteristics - the big eyes, high pitched voice, small complexion, and a childish, naive mindset that can be easily exploited.
Japan had set these traits to be an ideal for japanese women to strive for, and turned said ideal into a product to be sold to the masses through things like otaku culture, the so-called moe aesthetics. And how did they discover moe?
Why, by appropriating and sexualising shoujo aesthetics, the way that minor female characters were drawn in little girls' comics. The bug-eyed girls, the school lesbian dramas, the cute sparklies and heroines with quirky, childish personalities - it all came from there, but the disgusting old Japanese men took it for themselves because they thought it was hot. And then, they called it moe.
Men steal and steal from women, then distort it through their lenses until it completely loses its original womanly appearance and becomes completely male-oriented in it's worldview and ideas. The same thing happened with the shoujo subgenre, mahou shoujo. Nowadays most of it is made like any male hentai game would be, in terms of design and character structure. Hell, even the names, with their loud "pretty cute mew-mew princess" word salads, are mostly used for male hentai titles now. If you want an example, just look at how Kitty Miracle-chan is drawn. It's not a classic shoujo look you'd see in a girl's show. I can clearly see a resemblance to an artist who did the designs for the Monogatari series and has worked on similar hentai mahou shoujo title in the past (I think even the girl's hair and eye colour are the same).
And here comes you, the autistic loser nigger who isolates himself in his room throughout his teenage years because he is pressured and bullied by other males for being an ugly faggot. You sit there all day consuming these very same male-corrupted fetishised images of female childhood and masturbating to them like any other retarded teenage male. So, given the context I've given above, for God's sake, can you answer me why the fuck you would even dare claiming to feel or understand what it's like to be female? ALL YOU CONSUME ARE MALE THOUGHTS AND FETISHISTIC IDEAS OF WHAT BEING A GIRL IS LIKE, AND THE "FEMALE" MEDIA THAT CRACKED YOUR EGG IS THE MALE VOURISTIC INTERPRETATION OF THAT, WHICH YOU NEVER NOTICE BECAUSE YOU'RE MALE. Like, holy shit, it's that obvious, yet none of you ever get it.
And what men have done to the female media has been completely insulting and infuriating, just as it is when faggots like you put on dresses and stockings. Women don't find it disgusting because you're "forced to conform to traditional femininity in order to affirm your true self and da evil stopid terfs hate everything feminine blah blah blah", it's because your outfit is usually like a giant display board telling us exactly what porn category you masturbate to most, and what warped, twisted male interpretation of pure, gentle traditional femininity you've formed in your tiny male brain.
Get that rope off your bedside table and neck youself already, you pathetic, self-hating lolifaggot. If all women were aware of what's going on inside your crazy head, none would ever pity you.