Also the "But it's so wrong!" thing over and over, it sounds like what he was hoping was she'd be the one who says "But it feels so right!" and then it would play out like in one of his little cartoons, except minus the cutaway when the lewd content starts.
Honestly I'm mainly shocked that this man's ever actually had intercourse with anyone.
So autistic. What else can you expect from adults who make watching cartoons a major part of their personality.
As for the "rape", what would have made it not rape then, did he have to schedule an appointment and sit her down with a therapist to mediate to gently coax out of her whether or not she REALLY wanted to continue their relationship? The responsibility is 100% on him, she wasn't expected to ever assert herself at any point because he had a shitty little youtube channel about cartoons and was a bit older?
Definitely awkward interactions that weren't appropriately conducted, but to call this rape is nonsense.