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This one almost gets it. And yet he turns to Reddit. :lit:

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I (mtf 30, hrt 3yrs) have been noticing a general trend, I don't pass, but all my friends say I do. My trans friends, my cis friends, they all tell me they see a woman when they look at me, friends who met me after I started transitioning tell me they've always seen me as a woman, but I know I do not pass because whenever I meet someone new they never gender me correctly and always call me sir, or refer to me as a man.

So it's got me thinking, are all of my friends lying to me in order to make me feel better (hugboxing) or do supportive people just see me different and see me as a woman because they believe trans women are real women?

It's bugged me for quite some time, I've mentioned it to my friends and it's always the same explanation. They always tell me I pass fine and people are just assholes, yet like maybe 1 in 50 strangers I meet gender me correctly. 😭

Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this, and I'd like to hear your perspectives.
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I don't pass, but all my friends say I do. ...
... They always tell me I pass fine and people are just assholes ...
Gaslighting, but no cruel ulterior motive. They do it because they know it is the one right thing to do. 8)
 
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She looks like a junkie who's either going to rob or stab you, and who is definitely going to get high in one of the stalls. If men see a woman who looks like that in the men's room, the only reason she could possibly be there is drugs. If women see her in the women's room, they're scared because 98% of women are feminine heterosexuals who think butch ladies could beat them up, and butch ladies on drugs may attack them.
 
If men see a woman who looks like that in the men's room, the only reason she could possibly be there is drugs.
Or she is a junkie prostitute who has fucked a John in one of the stalls and is waiting around to score.

I know that’s still drugs, but a junkie would more likely want to use a male bogs as if a man gets caught engaged in a sex act in the ladies, someone is more likely to phone the police.
 
I almost - almost - feel bad for troon in this situation. It must suck to go through life thinking everyone's lying to you and telling you that you don't look like a gigantic obvious man to spare your feelings. But, like usual, the troons have brought it upon themselves. If I think you're gonna chimp out and destroy my GameStop if I don't tell you that your latest H and M haul makes you look like a dainty anime princess and not a homeless sex offender, then yeah, I'm not gonna be honest.
It's ironic how their behavior mirrors that of the authoritarian patriarchal father who confuses his children's compliance with respect. I think that people who gain the compliance of others via fear know that they're not respected, and it's why they aren't content with compliance, and always want more.
 
It was obvious they will reject him since most people assume trans= medicalized with treatments which can be a big no no for blood quality.
I don't know how it works in others countries but in France blood donation verification can be rather tight (more mundane prescriptions, early pregnancies, anorexia/bulimia, travel to some countries in a specific year, suspicion of any STDs they can refuse you if you said you whored around without any protection and they can't verify on site for STDs for example -> the gay thing with high probability of HIV is because of extra tests; gay men can donate since 2016 it's just a lot of them are full of STDs. 100% the faggy guy said he was a gay celibate and sexually active , etc). There is also some people who like the idea to donate their infections to others and try to lie to give blood and we don't want that hence why the paranoia with the identification.
So no, you don't "just need an ID" to donate your blood in Faggotland. If you looks like a biological weapon you can't donate, sorry troon.
When was the last time this dude went to it, in the 90's?
 
don't know how it works in others countries but in France blood donation verification can be rather tight (more mundane prescriptions, early pregnancies, anorexia/bulimia, travel to some countries in a specific year, suspicion of any STDs they can refuse you if you said you whored around without any protection and they can't verify on site for STDs for example -> the gay thing with high probability of HIV is because of extra tests; gay men can donate since 2016 it's just a lot of them are full of STDs. 100% the faggy guy said he was a gay celibate and sexually active , etc). There is also some people who like the idea to donate their infections to others and try to lie to give blood and we don't want that hence why the paranoia with the identification.
I feel like the US used to be a bit more protective over blood donation too but oh noes, excluding gays is so homophobic!!!!!! It doesn't matter that HIV takes several weeks to show up on a blood test!!! Nooo, we can't exclude gays because that is super bigoted!!!!!!! And with regards to trannies, I am fairly certain that the Red Cross distinguishes based on what gender you identify as, not your actual sex. So even if they did have the gay man question, you could still say that you were a woman so it didn't matter.

I wouldn't care if they broadened it to be, "Have you had receptive anal sex within the past X amount of time,." Or, "Have you had more than one sexual partner within the past X amount of time." Little things like that could help! But nah, they are afraid of being heckin bigots. That could discriminate against people with alternative lifestyles, you see.

It doesn't matter that my grandmother likely died from getting HIV from a blood transfusion or anything! (To be fair, this was 1980, so HIV was not much known at the time.) Hell, the one time I tried to donate blood, they had to throw it away because my blood clotted slightly too fast. So yeah, throw away a pint of my perfectly good blood but totes allow all the gay and tranny disease-infested blood!
 
I (mtf 30, hrt 3yrs) have been noticing a general trend, I don't pass, but all my friends say I do.
Do they say you pass, or do they say they 'see you as a woman'?

One thing is not the other
My trans friends, my cis friends, they all tell me they see a woman when they look at me, friends who met me after I started transitioning tell me they've always seen me as a woman, but I know I do not pass because whenever I meet someone new they never gender me correctly and always call me sir, or refer to me as a man.
You've answered your own question. Why don't you ask your 'cis' 'friends' the following:

"When you first saw me, did you think I was a cis woman?"

So it's got me thinking, are all of my friends lying to me in order to make me feel better (hugboxing) or do supportive people just see me different and see me as a woman because they believe trans women are real women?
In a classic 'The Simpsons' episode, a teacher explains her recent illness was psychosomatic. The children wonder what that means and someone suggests 'it means she's lying' and another says 'it means she's crazy' and the teacher admits it was 'a little from column A and a little from column B'.

What I'm saying is your friends are both lying and crazy.

It's bugged me for quite some time, I've mentioned it to my friends and it's always the same explanation. They always tell me I pass fine
Again back to the start. Again, ask

"When you first saw me, did you think I was a cis woman?"

and people are just assholes, yet like maybe 1 in 50 strangers I meet gender me correctly. 😭

Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this, and I'd like to hear your perspectives.
My perspective is you should stop lying to yourself and others, bud.
 

There’s a weird subgroup of pooners who for some reason think it’s “manly” to wear the most loudest and flowery Hawaii shirts.

I rarely see actual men dress like this, unless they’re on vacation IN Hawaii or in TV shows.

Must be a bummer when your feminine desire to wear something “colorful and FUN” collides with your weird gender ideas.
 
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There is something funny about the dudes who transition as part of a fetish only to have transition ruin their sex drive. I think the reason his body isn't maintaining the same sex drive on estrogen that a womans would is because he is not a woman, and therefore his body processes estrogen differently than what a womans body would. But what would I know.
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What exactly is the difference between a cis person and a trans person who is pretending to not be trans? By their own logic I mean.

I've noticed that if you try and explain what has been going on lately, that it's basically self serve now (varies depending on jurisdiction but still, it's an obvious shift/problem) you end up looking like a raving lunatic? If you try and show them proof, they have already shut down on you and if you push you're weird for even digging that deep? It feels like the cognizant dissonance gets more impenetrable every day, even with the recent pendulum swing going on.
Maybe it is a little weird that I know so much about trannies, but weird people are inherently fascinating to me. The switch from Kiwifarms being the Chris Chan website to the transphobe website seems weird at first glance. But both things are born out of a community of people who find weird/mentally ill people strangely fascinating. The "why do you know this?" question is inherently frustrating because to ask it is to admit that you need to be ignorant of trannies in order to support them.
 
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