Official Kiwi Farms Ick-List Thread - For women only

pentangle said:
It's also terrible because if you take them at their word but they actually *are* harbouring some gripe with you they refuse to dissect internally (let alone express externally), then they just start quietly resenting you and you bear the brunt of the consequences. Alternatively, if you *don''t* take them at their word and keep probing for the truth they complain about you requiring too much reassurance. Just exhausting trying to tend to a fickle, miserly heart.
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I don't see the point of being with someone you can't freely exchange the honest expression of emotions with. It's practically the actual point of relationships. Emotionally unavailable people are often also emotionally immature people, after all.
 
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Are there any jobs a man could do that would be a no-go for you guys?

Personally, I wouldn't be interested in a police officer, soldier, tech/finance bro, actor or a man who works with kids. The first four are for political and religious reasons, the fourth is due to the strong association between the acting profession and infidelity/open relationships, and the last one is due to several studies I've read that demonstrate that men who work with kids are far more likely to have pedo tendencies than those who don't. Some girlfriends of mine irl have had bad experiences with soldiers and police officers (and I've heard plenty of awful stories about how they treat women, not to mention their higher than average chance of being domestic abusers) that it has permanently put me off them. Also have no interest in male Youtubers, Twitch streamers or social media influencers.
 
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It's not necessarily about dating, but about possible friends too. Apart from the listed, airport security guy. Most likely is there to squeeze men's bodies and feel the power trip.
As for the men working with kids, depends on what do they have to say about it. I take as a valid reason, if they lacked guidance and a proper father figure and wish to be the person they wanted to be advised by and look up to, when they were kids themselves. Those who are there to groom children and abuse the authority, have some slimey vibe anyway.
 
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#1 Hot Sauce of Kiwi Farm said:
  • Anger issues, if you can't keep your emotions in check I am not sticking around.
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This one so much. This is used as a carte blanche for any violent and abrasive behaviour again and again, without the need to change anything. "Sorry about shouting at you (and being physically intimidating to a point where you feared I'd be violent) but I have anger issues as you know" or "Sorry for chimping out at the online game we were playing with friends and everyone was able to hear me beating the desk and wall through your headset". No. 'Anger issues' is just a justification of a weak man who can't be bothered to keep his fragile ego from feeling hurt so he has to lash out right now and there. Fuck em fuck em fuck em.
 
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Natalya Arlovskaya said:
Bisexual men, 9 times out of 10 they're either cheaters or want to feel included in something because labels make them feel important.

Goes for both genders, but I hate when they make you play a guessing game to figure out when they're upset with you instead of talking it out like normal people.
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this is so funny because my bestie went out with 3 dudes in a month and found out they were all bottoms--i guess she was fine with the bisexuality but taking it in the ass was what gave her the ick
 
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babyteethJinx said:
this is so funny because my bestie went out with 3 dudes in a month and found out they were all bottoms--i guess she was fine with the bisexuality but taking it in the ass was what gave her the ick
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I hate gays so much I don't even know how to start describing how much I hate them. There's no such thing as bisexual men, only faggots on the down low.
 
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ThePozzedOutCritic said:
I feel like being afraid of physical violence is a bit more than an ick
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Yeah, but you don't want a guy whose first reaction is physical violence either. Even if he never directs it at you specifically, a guy who blows up and punches holes in the wall or destroys things is a walking red flag. Guy's gotta be in the middle somewhere; not violent on the regular, but able to throw a punch to defend the vulnerable.
babyteethJinx said:
i guess she was fine with the bisexuality but taking it in the ass was what gave her the ick
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I feel like taking it in the ass, whether he IDs as bisexual or not, is a sign of degeneracy. If a straight guy starts wanting to put a finger in his butthole, it's a sign he's on the hedonist treadmill and is searching for that harder hit.
 
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babyteethJinx said:
this is so funny because my bestie went out with 3 dudes in a month and found out they were all bottoms--i guess she was fine with the bisexuality but taking it in the ass was what gave her the ick
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if a woman is in a relationship with a bisexual man the chances of getting AIDS second hand become exponentially higher . As far as female prejudices goes this one is actually pretty fair.

I i'd say if you date someone in a medical field your chance of getting cheated on increase 100x, this goes both ways for male and females, you'd have less chances of being cheated on dating an onlyfans content creator than dating a doctor or a nurse.
 
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The Crescent King said:
Are there any jobs a man could do that would be a no-go for you guys?

Personally, I wouldn't be interested in a police officer, soldier, tech/finance bro, actor or a man who works with kids. The first four are for political and religious reasons, the fourth is due to the strong association between the acting profession and infidelity/open relationships, and the last one is due to several studies I've read that demonstrate that men who work with kids are far more likely to have pedo tendencies than those who don't. Some girlfriends of mine irl have had bad experiences with soldiers and police officers (and I've heard plenty of awful stories about how they treat women, not to mention their higher than average chance of being domestic abusers) that it has permanently put me off them. Also have no interest in male Youtubers, Twitch streamers or social media influencers.
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No military
No cops
No EBT enjoyers
 
I think I need to retract my previous statement about not having very many specific Icks, because a dude (cartoonishly tall, rail thin) walked into my shop today sporting a pink scrunchie in his pink-streaked ponytail, dangly earrings, blue nail polish, bought some Hello Kitty stickers with a custom LGBT+ themed Visa card that he had in a Bluey wallet. You had to see it to really grok how weird it all was.
 
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Kat Kommander said:
My biggest ick is when a man does not care about his appearance because it's "gay". Usually guys like these turn into ogres after the age of 25.

And also, super religious men.
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Men that are overly sensitive to being perceived as gay are immediately sus. All the guys that would make a show about not being gay were the biggest self denying fags.
 
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