Lolcow Andrew Peter Carlson / Anaiah Carlson / Tamarlover / Xtamarlover - Jewish/Christian Wannabe Cult Leader, Stalker, Ugly af, dogfucker, mayor of spitsville

tamarlover said:
I'm lucky to not get laid because I don't want to deal with child support after a woman leaves me.
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LOL, it's called birth control FFS. Look it up. It's a miraculous invention that has allowed me to have sex without becoming a father thus far.

tamarlover said:
I am not unemployable. I choose to live unemployed. Because its a far superior life than the people who have to work every day at a lame job. The freedom to do whatever I want and all the time in the world. Makes me at a far greater advantage than most of the working class. I have no limits to what I can do and want to do. The world is open to me. But the person with the job and debt and all kinds of responsibilities to tend to, they are stuck and trapped. I am free. I have chosen to live at this time a free life. Makes me superior to you by far.
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Through work I have contributed tangible things to society. Through work I have made the world a better place. Through work I have developed a wide set of skills and knowledge that makes me a more useful person able to take on increasingly more complex, interesting, challenging and exciting jobs. Through work I have become a more experienced, worldly and complete person.
 
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CasualSeppuku said:
So is it possible that in the future Tamar is replaced by a guy? Also, if you think sexual attraction is shaped by enviroments and experiences couldn't you tailor your sexual preferences into something that doesn't involve Tamar and maybe no woman at all?
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That's all possible yes. i certainly can stop being attracted to Tamar or even no woman at all. But that's something I dont' want to do. I like my sexual attraction to women. I just want to have more self control in my thoughts about women. But I don't want to lose the desire to have sex. I just want to control that desire and not be trapped in it as if its a drug addiction.
 
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tamarlover said:
That's all possible yes. i certainly can stop being attracted to Tamar or even no woman at all. But that's something I dont' want to do. I like my sexual attraction to women. I just want to have more self control in my thoughts about women. But I don't want to lose the desire to have sex. I just want to control that desire and not be trapped in it as if its a drug addiction.
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You kinda said you are addicted to masturbation here. Why do you think masturbation is wrong? How much masturbation is too much?
 
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Cato said:
LOL, it's called birth control FFS. Look it up. It's a miraculous invention that has allowed me to have sex without becoming a father thus far.



Through work I have contributed tangible things to society. Through work I have made the world a better place. Through work I have developed a wide set of skills and knowledge that makes me a more useful person able to take on increasingly more complex, interesting, challenging and exciting jobs. Through work I have become a more experienced, worldly and complete person.
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You will most likely be remembered for nothing and your accomplishment will probably be insignificant. I can accomplish much more than you without ever getting a job. I could choose to live homeless for the rest of my life, and I would live a good and productive life. Name one job that you think you have done that has made the world a better place please. You can be vague and general if you want to answer but not give much detail.

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Sure thing, Charlie. When does the race war start?
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Not sure what you are talking about regarding a race war. really has nothing to do with race. I'm willing to use anyone of any race gender or orientation if they can get me what i want.

Cato said:
LOL, it's called birth control FFS. Look it up. It's a miraculous invention that has allowed me to have sex without becoming a father thus far.
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My goal is to have meaningful sex. Not cheap sex. If i am going to have sex with a woman, I have to want to be with her for the rest of my life and have a family with her. otherwise I don't want to have sex with such a woman.
 
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tamarlover said:
You will most likely be remembered for nothing and your accomplishment will probably be insignificant. I can accomplish much more than you without ever getting a job. I could choose to live homeless for the rest of my life, and I would live a good and productive life. Name one job that you think you have done that has made the world a better place please. You can be vague and general if you want to answer but not give much detail.
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That's called "powerleveling" here and is frowned upon. Besides, I don't need to justify myself to someone who thinks being a NEET leech on his parents is somehow a virtue. Any objective third-party person here can already draw their own conclusions simply from the respective attitudes the two of us have expressed towards work.
 
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CasualSeppuku said:
You kinda said you are addicted to masturbation here. Why do you think masturbation is wrong? How much masturbation is too much?
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I think sex should only be done for procreation. I think it should be enjoyable and pleasurable, but not done for the sake of pleasure. But lets say that it is not wrong to do. It would however be wrong if it becomes unhealthy. And anything becomes unhealthy when you are unable to function well without it and suffer through intense cravings that make you feel like you are going crazy. To me, that is an illness. So anything that makes you have withdrawal symptoms when you don' get it, thats unhealthy to have. So assume only addictions are wrong, but moderation isn't. That would mean someone who drinks alcohol but isn't an alcoholic. Someone who occasionally smokes but isn't hooked on smoking. Someone who has sex but isn't hooked on sex and can live without sex. Basically if you feel like you can't live without something other than basic necessities of life, than you have a problem I believe. Most people have these problems to varying degrees. I know a lot of people have drug problems and sexual addiction problems. But I am not going to be hateful to other people for their problems when I am in my own problems. I personally think my sexual issues partially fuels my obsessive tendencies, and if I was to stop masturbation permanently, then I would probably stop treating Tamar the way I've been treating her and be more logical in my thinking and choices I make. Instead, all I can think of all day long is how much I want to be with her and how much I desire her. Which is not healthy. I know enough to know that.

gummy said:
So you live with your parents? What do they think of you?
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They think I should get a job. And that I'm not accomplishing anything in life and that I'm not getting anywhere and stuck. And they are extremely against me wanting to be with this woman. She was disrespectful to my dad on the phone one time and he thinks she's really bad person. So she thinks it would be the worst thing for me if I were to be with her. They know that I am not a horrible person. He tries to blame a lot of my issues on my aspergers. Its easy for someone who doesn't have aspergers to try to blame things someone else is doing on aspergers. But very often they don't understand their perspective. They also think my religious ideas are mostly nonsense.

Cato said:
That's called "powerleveling" here and is frowned upon. Besides, I don't need to justify myself to someone who thinks being a NEET leech on his parents is somehow a virtue. Any objective third-party person here can already draw their own conclusions simply from the respective attitudes the two of us have expressed towards work.
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I'll repay my parents every penny they ever spent on me. I fully intend to.
 
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tamarlover said:
No I'm not gay. Nor am I pedo. But I believe every person is capable of becoming gay or attracted to children. How else do you think pedophiles happen? They aren't born attracted to children. Probably a lot of pedophiles become pedophiles because they watch child pornography. Or they get aroused when a child is in the room and then that gives them a "thought" and then they make a bad decision to act impuslively on the thought. And the more you repeat the same action the easier it is to do it again and again. and after doing it a few times, it becomes part of that person's deeply rooted sexual identity. This will happen for any fetish or any sexual inclination. I'm certain of it.
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If your theory was correct, why would anyone choose to become a pedophile when it is illegal to act on such impulses and they are basically the most despised demographic in our society (to the point where even other violent criminals target them in prison)? There is absolutely no incentive for anyone to voluntarily become attracted to children and monumental incentive for them not to.
 
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tamarlover said:
I think sex should only be done for procreation. I think it should be enjoyable and pleasurable, but not done for the sake of pleasure. But lets say that it is not wrong to do. It would however be wrong if it becomes unhealthy. And anything becomes unhealthy when you are unable to function well without it and suffer through intense cravings that make you feel like you are going crazy. To me, that is an illness. So anything that makes you have withdrawal symptoms when you don' get it, thats unhealthy to have. So assume only addictions are wrong, but moderation isn't. That would mean someone who drinks alcohol but isn't an alcoholic. Someone who occasionally smokes but isn't hooked on smoking. Someone who has sex but isn't hooked on sex and can live without sex. Basically if you feel like you can't live without something other than basic necessities of life, than you have a problem I believe. Most people have these problems to varying degrees. I know a lot of people have drug problems and sexual addiction problems. But I am not going to be hateful to other people for their problems when I am in my own problems. I personally think my sexual issues partially fuels my obsessive tendencies, and if I was to stop masturbation permanently, then I would probably stop treating Tamar the way I've been treating her and be more logical in my thinking and choices I make. Instead, all I can think of all day long is how much I want to be with her and how much I desire her. Which is not healthy. I know enough to know that.
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What makes it so hard for you to stop masturbating? Do you ever think about her husband while you do it? Is it something purely sexual for you or is there emotions involved? Like, what exactly do you picture.
 
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Cato said:
If your theory was correct, why would anyone choose to become a pedophile when it is illegal to act on such impulses and they are basically the most despised demographic in our society (to the point where even other violent criminals target them in prison)? There is absolutely no incentive for anyone to voluntarily become attracted to children and monumental incentive for them not to.
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Why does anyone choose to become a rapist or any sex crime even though they know its illegal? They hope/believe they won't get caught and are enticed enough by the action that they want to do it. It never starts out as something they really want to do, but once they cross that line one time, they will be more drawn to cross that same line again. and then again and again. each time becoming more likely to cross the line because each time it becomes more enticing. They don't usually choose "i'm going to become a pedophile." but its more like "oh im really tempted to do that. But just this one time." and then "just this one time" becomes "well maybe just one more time." and it keeps happening like that until they get hooked on it. thats my theory which I'm confident on. but its only based on my observations of psychology. Luckily I do not have any first hand experience in either direction with the issue to back me up. But I rely on the overall observations about sexuality that I have observed over time.
 
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CasualSeppuku said:
What makes it so hard for you to stop masturbating? Do you ever think about her husband while you do it? Is it something purely sexual for you or is there emotions involved? Like, what exactly do you picture.
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I don't lust after her current husband but on a rare occasion I pretend I am him. Most of the time, if I am watching a video or looking at a picture, I pretend the woman in the video or picture is her. When its mental, usually its me putting her on a pedestal and worshiping her as my queen or goddess, or me being punished by her for her enjoyment for all the bad things I have done to her, and her being the dominant one. I also often imagine myself in the role of the woman and she is in the role of the man who dominates me.
 
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